Isisusa sangaphakathi; amandla angaphakathi kuwe

Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlale unamandla amakhulu angaphakathi kepha ungazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini noma ukuthi igama lalo langempela ngubani. Lawo mandla angaphakathi angaba yisisusa sangaphakathi futhi imvamisa kwenzeka lapho kunokuziphatha okuqhutshwa yimivuzo yangaphakathi. Ukugqugquzela kuzokwenzeka ekuziphatheni okuvela ngaphakathi komuntu ngoba kuyanelisa ezingeni lomuntu siqu. Lokhu kuphambene nokugqugquzela okwedlulele, okuyilapho umuntu ezibandakanya kuphela ekuziphatheni ukugwema ukujeziswa noma ukuthola imivuzo yangaphandle.

Ukuqonda Isisusa Sangaphakathi

Isisusa sangaphakathi empeleni sinamandla kunakho konke. Yikho okugqugquzela abantu ukuthi bafeze izinhloso zabo noma benze izinguquko. Kwezengqondo, Isisusa sangaphakathi sihlukanisa phakathi kwemivuzo yangaphakathi nangaphandle. Isisusa sangaphakathi senzeka lapho umuntu enza ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemivuzo yangaphandle angaba nayo, umane awuthokozele lo msebenzi noma awubone njengethuba lokuhlola, lokufunda nokwenza amandla abo ngokugcwele.

Isibonelo, Uma ufunda le ndatshana ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngengqondo nesayikholoji, kungenzeka ukuthi usebenza ngokukhuthazeka ngaphakathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ufunda le ndatshana ngoba ufuna ukufaka imininingwane emisha emsebenzini wesikole futhi ufuna ukuthola ibanga elihle, uzobe ususelwa kunkuthazo eyengeziwe.

Ukwaneliseka kwangaphakathi lapho wenza imisebenzi yokuzijabulisa uqobo kuvame ukukhuthazeka ngokwangaphakathi. Isibonelo, lapho ufunda incwadi ngoba uyayithanda, lapho ubhala indaba, lapho udlalela umdlalo othakazelisayo ... Yimisebenzi oyenzayo ngokugqugquzela okungaphakathi futhi uvuzwa ngandlela thile ngawe. Wenza izinto ngoba uzithanda, ngoba kuyakujabulisa futhi uzizwa uthokozile ngakho.

Inhlalakahle engokomzwelo

Isisusa sangaphakathi sizokwenza uzizwe waneliseka ngaphakathi futhi ngenxa yalokho unenhlalakahle engokomzwelo. Izisusa zakho zokubandakanyeka ekuziphatheni zivela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi hhayi esifisweni sohlobo oluthile lomvuzo wangaphandle (njengemiklomelo, imali, noma ukuthandwa kakhulu).

Vele, lokho akusho ukuthi isimilo esishukumisela ngaphakathi asinayo imivuzo yabo. Le mivuzo ifaka ukudala imizwa emihle ngaphakathi komuntu ngamunye.

Imisebenzi ingakhiqiza imizwa enjalo lapho inika abantu umqondo wencazelo, njengokuhlanganyela emisebenzini yobumbano. Bangakunika futhi nomuzwa wenqubekela phambili lapho ubona ukuthi umsebenzi wakho ufeza okuthile okuhle noma okunekhono lapho ufunda okuthile okusha noma uba nekhono lomsebenzi othile.

Imivuzo yangaphakathi

Empeleni, uma unikela ngemiklomelo yangaphandle noma ukuqiniswa ukwenza umsebenzi kungakuthokozela ngaphakathi kukodwa, kungenza umsebenzi ungabi nomvuzo omncane.  Lokhu kwaziwa njengokuzithethelela okweqile.

Ukuthokozela komuntu okungaphakathi komsebenzi kunikeza izizathu ezanele zokuziphatha kwakhe. Ngokwengezwa kokuqiniswa okwedlulele, umuntu angahle abone ukuthi umsebenzi ukhuluphele ngokweqile bese uzama ukuqonda ukugqugquzela kwakho kweqiniso (okungaphandle kokuqhathaniswa nokwangaphakathi) ukuthi ubambe iqhaza kulo msebenzi.

Abantu lapho benogqozi ngokwangaphakathi baba ngabantu abanobuciko ngokwengeziwe futhi lokhu, ezindaweni zokusebenza kuyadingeka ukwandisa umkhiqizo. Yize inkuthazo yengezwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngemiklomelo engaphandle njengebhonasi emholweni. Kepha empeleni, ikhwalithi yangempela yomsebenzi owenziwe ithonywe yizici zangaphakathi ngoba umuntu wenza okuthile okunomvuzo, okuthakazelisayo nokuyinselele ... ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukuthola imibono emisha kanye nezixazululo zokudala.

Isisusa sangaphakathi ekufundeni

Ukugqugquzela okungaphakathi kuyinkinga ebalulekile kwezemfundo. Othisha nabaqambi bokufundisa balwela ukuthuthukisa izindawo zokufunda ezinomvuzo. Ngeshwa, ama-paradigms amaningi wendabuko asikisela ukuthi abafundi abaningi bakuthola kuyisicefe ekufundeni. Ngalo mqondo, zingakhuthazwa kakhulu emisebenzini yezemfundo.

Imisebenzi egqugquzela ngaphakathi yilena eyenziwa ngabantu ngoba bayazi ukuthi ilungele bona ngaphandle kokuthola umvuzo wangaphandle noma ukugwema isijeziso. Umfundi ofunda isifundo ngoba azi ukuthi silungele ikusasa lakhe uzosenza ngokugqugquzela okungaphakathi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umfundi ofundela isivivinyo ukugwema ibanga elibi, ukwehluleka kwesifundo noma imiphumela engemihle ekhaya yokuthola amamaki amabi, uzobe ekwenza ngenxa yokhuthazo lwangaphandle.

Kwezemfundo, ukuze kube nokugqugquzela okungaphakathi kuzodingeka ukuthi kubhekwe ezinye izinkinobho, ezinjengalezi:

• Izinselelo
• Ilukuluku
• Control
• Ukubambisana nokuncintisana
• Ukuqashelwa

Qaphela imivuzo

Ochwepheshe bayaqaphela ukuthi ukunikela ngemivuzo engadingekile kungabuyela emuva. Ungase ucabange ukuthi ukunikela ngemivuzo njalo kukhulisa isisusa somuntu, intshisekelo nokusebenza, lokhu akuhlali kunjalo. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho izingane ziklonyeliswa ngokudlala ngamathoyizi asebevele bejabulela ukudlala ngawo, ukugqugquzela kwabo nokujabulela lawo mathoyisi empeleni kuyancipha.

Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi izinto eziningi zingaba nomthelela ekutheni isisusa sangaphakathi siyakhuphuka noma sehle ngemivuzo yangaphandle. Ukubaluleka noma ukubaluleka komcimbi uqobo kuvame ukudlala indima ebalulekile.

Umsubathi oqhudelana emcimbini wezemidlalo angabheka umklomelo wowinile njengesiqinisekiso sekhono lomnqobi nokuhlukile. Yize umklomelo ungenanani elikhethekile lomnotho ngokwawo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanye abasubathi bangabuka umklomelo ofanayo nohlobo lokufumbathisa noma lokuphoqa. Indlela umuntu abona ngayo ukubaluleka kwezici ezahlukahlukene ze umcimbi unomthelela ekutheni ngabe umvuzo uzothinta yini ukugqugquzela okungaphakathi komuntu kokubamba iqhaza kulowo msebenzi.

Ngemuva kokwazi konke lokhu, kungenzeka uye wama wacabanga ngalokho okukushukumisela nsuku zonke ukwenza imisebenzi nezibopho zakho zansuku zonke; Isisusa sangaphakathi noma esingaphandle? Yize kukhona konke okuncane empilweni futhi iqiniso ukuthi kungukulinganisela okusishukumisela ukuba sizizwe sihle ngemvelo, kuzoba yinto engaphakathi ekhipha wonke amandla akho angaphakathi. Ngakho-ke ungafinyelela kulokho obezimisele ukukwenza empilweni.

Izinhloso zakho zangaphakathi yizo ezizokwenza umehluko ngokweqiniso ngokweneliseka kwakho. Isibonelo, uma usebenzisa sonke isikhathi sakho. Ngokusebenza ukuze uthole imali, ungaphuthelwa izinjabulo ezilula empilweni. Ukubona izisusa zakho zangaphakathi nezingaphandle nokuzilinganisa kwakho kungakunika umvuzo omkhulu… futhi kuyadingeka enhlalakahleni yakho engokomzwelo!