Kukhona abantu abanethezekile ekubeni bodwa, okungenani okwesikhashana. Ngoba abantu bangabantu futhi ngandlela thile, isizungu esibekiwe noma esingafuneki singasilimaza kakhulu ngokomzwelo ... Kodwa isizungu ngokwaso asisibi, futhi empeleni, kungadingeka.
Kungakwenza uzithole, wazi ukuthi uzizwa kanjani nokuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ngoba usendleleni futhi mhlawumbe ngoba uhlala uzungezwe abantu, awukaze uqaphele ngaphambili ukuthi ungubani ngempela ngaphakathi. Eqinisweni, kunabantu abathanda ukuhlala nabantu njalo ukuze bangazitholi. Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi iziphi izinkulumo ezinhle kakhulu zesizungu?
Isizungu singaba inkampani enhle
Leli iphutha elibi kakhulu, ngoba isizungu singaba inkampani enhle, ngoba sinathi, singavala amehlo ethu emhlabeni futhi siwavule ngaphakathi kwethu. Siyabona ukuthi siyinto ebaluleke kakhulu endaweni yonke emhlabeni wethu futhi yingakho kufanele sizinakekele ngokwenyama nangokomzwelo.
Konke lokhu kungaba ngokoqobo kuphela uma wenza ingxenye yakho futhi uzifunela izikhathi ezithile zokuba wedwa nsuku zonke. Ukukwazi, ukwazi ukuthi ungubani, noma ukujabulela nokuhlola lezo zinto othanda ukuzenza… Ukuzitholela isikhathi sakho wedwa kuyindlela yokujabulela impilo kakhulu.
Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zesizungu
Kukhona isizungu esizizwa sisodwa kuso yize sizungezwe abantu, futhi kulesosizungu okufanele sazi ukuthi kungani sizizwa ngale ndlela. Isizungu, noma sibekiwe noma sizenzele sona, sizosenza sizizwe imizwa ehlukile.
Yileyo mizwa okufanele isiguqule ngaphakathi. Gxila kwimizwa yakho lapho uwedwa ukuthola ukuthi kukwenza uzizwe kanjani ungenamuntu eduze kwakho. Isizungu sizoba sibi kuphela uma ucabanga ukuthi sinjalo.
Imishwana eyedwa ezokwenza ucabange
Lapha sifuna ukukukhombisa eminye imishwana ezokwenza uqaphele ukuthi isizungu siyini nokuthi kungani singabalulekile empilweni yakho. Uma ngesinye isikhathi ubona ukuthi isizungu sikwenza uzizwe ungalungile, kuzodingeka wenze ingxenye yakho futhi ithumela uchwepheshe ukukusiza uqonde ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka kuwe futhi ubheke izixazululo ezidingekayo zokuthola induduzo kusizungu sakho.
Okwamanje, jabulela imishwana elandelayo esikulungiselele yona.
- Lapho sibona ukuthi sisodwa ngempela kulapho sidinga khona abanye kakhulu.
- Isizungu siyabatshazwa futhi siyafiswa uma singahlushwa, kepha isidingo sabantu sokuhlanganyela izinto siyabonakala.
- Kungani, ngokuvamile, isizungu sigwenywa? Ngoba bambalwa kakhulu abazitholela inkampani ngokwabo.
- Ukuseshwa okuphakade komuntu ngamunye ukuqeda isizungu sakhe.
- Ukuhlushwa kwethu okukhulu empilweni kuvela eqinisweni lokuthi sisodwa futhi zonke izenzo zethu nemizamo yethu ijwayele ukubalekela leso sizungu.
- Siphila njengoba siphupha, sisodwa.
- Isizungu somuntu asilutho nje ukwesaba impilo.
- Ukuxhumana kuyimpilo; ukunqanyulwa, ukufa.
- Kufanele siphile nesizungu sethu kanye nesiphetho esigayela umuntu ngamunye ukuhleleka kwezinto.
- Manje ngiqala ukuzindla ngalokho engikucabangile, nokubona ukujula komphefumulo, yingakho manje ngithanda ukuba wedwa kakhulu, kepha kuncane kakhulu.
- Ukubhala kuyikhambi lesizungu.
- Indoda enkulu nguyena othi phakathi kwezixuku agcine, ngobumnandi obupheleleyo, ukuzimela kokuba wedwa.
- Ukwazi ukulalela yikhambi elingcono kakhulu ekulweni nesizungu.
- Ukuba wedwa, yize kungathula njengokukhanya, kunjengokukhanya, kungenye yezinto ezinamandla kakhulu, ngoba ukuba wedwa kubalulekile kumuntu. Wonke amadoda eza kulo mhlaba yedwa futhi awushiye wedwa.
- Indoda enamandla kunazo zonke emhlabeni iyodwa.
- Iphrojekthi enkulu yomhlaba wonke yesikhathi sethu ukuncintisana futhi yingakho umuntu ehlala eyedwa emhlabeni.
- Sishiya lo mhlaba ngendlela efanayo nathi singena ngayo: sisodwa.
- Isihogo sonke sikuleli gama: isizungu.
- Bavame ukuthi umuntu ofuna ukuba yedwa unonkulunkulu noma isilwane esiningi.
- Isizungu singamandla amakhulu okukuvikela ezingozini eziningi.
- Isizungu siwubufakazi bokuthi usesho lwakho lwangaphakathi lokuxhuma alusasebenzi.
- Isizungu yithuba lakho elihle lokuxhumana nawe.
- Uma sisodwa, siba nesizungu ngokwengeziwe. Impilo iyamangaza.
- Uma uthanda isizungu sakho, uyazithanda… futhi uvumela inhliziyo yakho ukuthi ivuleke ukuze bathandwe futhi bathande abanye.
- Kungukuhlala wedwa kuphela lapho uzothola ukuthula enhliziyweni yakho.
- Isizungu ngumhlengikazi ongcono kunabo bonke wokuhlakanipha.
- Ukuba wedwa kunalokho umuntu akuthatha ukuba yedwa.
- Isizungu asikwenzi ube buthakathaka, sikwenza uqine kakhulu ebusweni bempilo ngoba sikunikeza ithuba lokuzazi kahle ukuthi ungubani.
- Ubumpofu ngokusobala ngomunye umthombo wokuhlupheka emoyeni, kepha kukhona eminye, enjengokuba nesizungu.
- Isizungu asisoze saba nesihluku ukwedlula lapho uzizwa usondelene nomuntu oyekile ukuxhumana.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, isizungu singazwakala ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, kuya ngokuthi unombono onjani ngaphambi kwaso. Kunabantu abacabanga ukuthi kubalulekile impela ukukwazi ukukhula ngaphakathi bese bekwazi ukukukhombisa emhlabeni. Kwabanye, Kuyinto yokuhlushwa ngokuphelele engenangqondo.
Kulaba bokugcina, ngaphandle kokungabaza, isizungu siwukuhlushwa ngoba bayesaba ukuzithola. Abazani, abazi ukuthi bafunani futhi bacabanga ukuthi abanye bazosivala leso sikhala ukuthi bazizwa ngaphakathi kubo ngoba abakwazi ukuzenzela bona.
Iphutha elingathi sína. Sonke sidinga ukuba sodwa ukuze sixhumane kangcono nathi ngokwethu nabanye. Ukuba wedwa okuphethwe kahle kungasenza sivuselele amabhethri ethu angokomzwelo.