Ukukhuluma ngokuthuthuka komuntu siqu, kwezenhlalo nakwezobuchwepheshe ngokungangabazeki kuwela ezingxenyeni zamathuba ezinikezwayo, noma esingazikhuthaza ukufeza izinhloso.
Ngokwezinga lomuntu, uma singazani kahle sithonywe kabi futhi sithambekele ekwenzeni amaphutha asilimazayo ngokuzayo, lokhu ngokunengqondo ihlobene nentuthuko yezobuchwepheshe nezenhlalo ukuthi njengabantu singaba nakho.
Indawo yamathuba yilelo gebe esivulekayo futhi elisizuzelayo, njengoba kusho igama lalo, "ithuba" lokuthize ngokukhethekile. Kuyinkulumo abathi bayibeke phansi ukubalula "eyanele ngokwezepolitiki", lawo maphuzu adinga ukuqiniswa. Lokho wukuthi, ubuthakathaka obungaqiniswa ukubuguqula futhi bube nenqubekela phambili ebonakalayo kubo.
Ngokomthetho, kubalulekile ukuthi ukuthuthukisa noma ukuguqula okuthile ekuziphatheni kwethu kufanele sazi ukuthi kukhona nokuthi kusizwisa ubuhlungu kanjani. Valuing Yebo ubuhle, kepha ngicacelwe ngamaphutha ukuze siwenze indawo yethuba.
Ungayibona kanjani indawo yethuba?
Isinyathelo sokuqala, ngokwe-psychology, ukwahlukanisa amaphutha ethu, ukwazi lapho sihluleka khona, kepha ngaphezu kwakho konke ukukuqonda nokukubona ngomunye umbono. Iphutha akufanele lithathwe njengesici okuza ukuhlala, kunalokho ukuthatha ukufunda lapho.
Uma sibona ukuthi sehlulekile, lokho kuhumusha ngokushesha kungabi ukuqonda ukuthi kungenzeka ukufunda lapho, isimo esingenzeka uma sisibona ngokombono wephutha, ngoba ukwenza amaphutha kungasenza siqaphele ukuthi naphezu kwalokho kwenzeke sinekhono lokwenza ngcono. Lokhu kusinika ukuzethemba futhi kulokho kuthola inhloso yokuqhubekela phambili.
Ngemuva kokukhomba iphutha, kufanele silamukele, elingafani. Kwesinye isikhathi, kunzima ngathi ukubona ukuthi siyona ngempela esihlokweni esithile, noma ngabe isikhathi eside besikholelwa ukuthi sikwenza kahle.
Kule nqubo siqhubekela phambili ekuguqulweni kwalobo buthakathaka futhi sibona ukuthi iba kanjani yindawo yamathuba, sithuthukise lelo phutha futhi silisebenzise ukuze sithole ngaleso sikhathi Ikhono. Singakwazi ukwenza ukuhlaziywa okuqhathanisayo kwesimo esihle nesimo sangempela, lokhu kungafinyelelwa ngokucabangela izinkomba ezithile ezizosinika umdwebo wesimo, bese sinquma izenzo ezizokwenziwa, okungukuthi, ukwenza uhlelo lokusebenza.
Izindawo zamathuba zingabuyisela emuva ukusebenza
Njengoba sekushiwo ngaphambili, kubalulekile ukuthi sizazi ukuze sikwazi ukubona amandla nobuthakathaka bethu. Uma singasebenzi kulokhu kubuthakathaka, isithiyo se- ukufinyelela amandla ethu okudala ngakho-ke impumelelo esiyilangazelelayo.
Ngaphandle kwala mathuba okuthuthuka, siwela kumbuthano onolaka wokudikibala, sinciphise ukusebenza kwethu, okusivimbela ekukhuleni nasekuqhubekeni sithuthukela enhlosweni.
Ngalesi sizathu, i- rukushesha okusheshayo nokwanele kulezi "buthakathaka" ezingagcini ngokuthinta intuthuko enhle yomuntu siqu, kepha futhi zithinta ngqo nengxenye yomsebenzi.
Uma kunhlolokhono bakubuza ubuthakathaka bakho
Uma kujwayele ukuthi kube nzima kithina ukubona nokuvuma ukwehluleka kwethu, sikhulume esidlangalaleni ngisho nangokwengeziwe, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngenhlolokhono yomsebenzi esifuna ukuhlangana kuyo.
Ingakhiqiza ukukhathazeka ngisho nosizi ngokungazi kahle ukuthi uzophendula kanjani noma kanjani. Umqondo omuhle ukukhuluma kuphela ngezindawo zamathuba emkhakheni wezabasebenzi, ngoba ezinye azihlobene nendawo yomuntu siqu, kepha bese ufaka ibinzana lokuthile okwenziwayo ukulungisa noma ukuvimbela leso simo.
Isibonelo: uma ukhona kuphazamiseke kakhulu Ungayisho futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ubeka amazinga agwema ukuphazanyiswa ngenkathi usemahoreni omsebenzi. Lokho kuzokhuluma kahle ngawe, ngoba kukhombisa ukuthi awububoni nje kuphela lobo buthakathaka kodwa futhi uyabusebenzela.
Uma ungusomabhizinisi
Ukusungula ezamabhizinisi sekuyindlela yokuzuzisa yokuqhubekela phambili, yize kunezingqinamba ezingase ziqhamuke, sanquma ukuthatha isinyathelo futhi siqonde lapho. Sakha emqondweni wethu bese sisebenzisa uhlelo oluzosinika impumelelo.
Ukuqala kufanele sikulungele ukuzibeka engcupheni bese lapho baqala ukusebenzisa amakhono ethu, izimo zengqondo, amakhono, ukuzethemba, phakathi kwezinye izici ezinjengaleso vein yombono. Noma kunjalo, kuvamile ku- amabhizinisi akhiqizwa ngokweqile izindawo zamathuba, ngenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi ukwenza kudingekile ukuthuthukisa izici eziningi, lokhu kuhlukaniswe kwaba okubonakalayo nokungaphatheki kepha njalo kunethuba lokwenza ngcono. Njengefenisha oyisebenzisayo naleyo oyidingayo.
Enkampanini
Enkampanini esunguliwe izindawo zamathuba kungenzeka ukuthi azifani nosomabhizinisi. Nakhu okwethulwayo ubuthakathaka ekuthengiseni, ekubekeni umkhiqizo, umncintiswano inkampani ebhekene nawo, abaphathi obukade ubenza futhi nokuxhumana kwangaphakathi phakathi kwabasebenzi uqobo.
Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa izinselelo obhekana nazo futhi ufunde ukuthi izixazululo ezingaba yini, kucatshangelwa izinto ezithonya inqubo.
Ukucaciswa kwezindawo ezinamathuba ezinkampanini kungashiwo:
- Ukuthengisa okuphansi
- Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabasebenzi
- Impendulo phakathi kwenkampani namakhasimende
- Isithombe onaso phambi kwamakhasimende nabasebenzi uqobo
- Ukwehla komkhiqizo noma insizakalo enikezwayo
Kungenzeka futhi, ngemuva kokuningi kangaka, ukuntuleka kwezomnotho ukumboza izindleko zokusebenza, ubuthakathaka osomabhizinisi abaningi abanabo, kepha kujwayelekile kwezinye izinkampani ukuthi ngokungahlaseli kusengaphambili amaphutha athile iphuzu lifinyelelwa lapho ukuthengisa kuphansi kakhulu kangangokuthi abakwazi ngisho nokuhlangabezana nezidingo eziyisisekelo, njengokukhokhelwa kwabasebenzi.
Yilapho ukubaluleka kokuqaphela lezi zindawo ezinamathuba ngesikhathi nokusebenza ukuzithuthukisa kulele.
Ngokwesici somuntu siqu
Kunokuziphatha okuthile okungasithonya kokubili emsebenzini nasendaweni yomuntu siqu, lokhu kungaba:
- Ukufuna ngokweqile
- Noma izwela kakhulu
- Ukuhlehlisa (ukubambezela imisebenzi)
- Khuluma kakhulu
- Kusolisa ngokweqile
- Khombisa ukungazethembi
- Ukungabi nobuchule bokuxhumana nabantu
Izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokufunda nokuthi zithonya kanjani
Ukungena ezindabeni zokubona lobu buthakathaka, singaqonda ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zokufunda ezimayelana nokuthi zingazithonya kanjani izici ezithile.
- Ukufunda ukwazi: Yilapho sifunda imiqondo noma amaqiniso, kwenziwa ngemibono.
- Ukufunda ukwenza: imayelana nezinqubo, amasu, izinqubo nezindlela. Zitholakala ngokuzijwayeza.
- Ukufunda ukuba: yizimo zengqondo, izindinganiso nezinkambiso esizitholayo ekuzibandakanyeni ngokuxhumana nangokubambisana ngaphakathi kombuthano wethu.
Lapho siziqonda izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokufunda, singakwazi ukusebenzisa izindlela ezisebenzayo zohlobo lobuthakathaka olwenzekayo, noma ngabe kungolomuntu uqobo, sengathi kungumsebenzi noma inkampani.
Kungani amandla namakhono kubalulekile?
Njengoba kubalulekile ukuqaphela izindawo zethu zamathuba, kubalulekile futhi ukuba nakho sula amandla esinakho namakhono esinawo, lokhu kungasisiza siza ukuzinza izici ezinhle nezimbi.
Kulokhu kukhona amasu athile, ungenza uhlu lapho kukhonjiswa khona lezo zindawo esizibona siziqine kuzo. Noma buza umuntu osondelene nawe, kwesinye isikhathi sinezenzo ezinhle esingaziboni sinjalo. Ngokukhomba konke lokhu okungenhla, uzokwazi ukwenza okusemandleni akho, ukuqinisa izindawo zakho zamathuba nokwandisa amandla akho namakhono akho.