Ubuntwana bungesinye sezikhathi ezingakholeki empilweni, kepha futhi kungaba buhlungu kakhulu: okuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle kungadala amamaki engqondo okunzima ukuwanqoba. Noma ikuphi ukubonakala komzimba njengokuphakama, umbala wesikhumba, ukugunda izinwele, ukufaka izibuko, njll. lingaba yinhlekisa kulabo ofunda nabo.
Kodwa-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthonya okuningi ekuqwashiseni, kokubili izingane nabazali, ukuze lokhu kwehluka kwamukelwa njengokujwayelekile.
Umkhankaso ohlelwe ngu Ukunakekelwa Kwezempilo Kwezingane e-Atlanta, ngokubambisana nomthwebuli wezithombe UKate t parker, zama ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwezingane ngezibazi.
UKate ucabanga ukuthi sonke sinezibazi zethu, kepha imvamisa akuzona izimpawu zomzimba. "Ithemba lami ukuthi abantu bangazibona lezi zibazi ezifanayo futhi bangaziboni njengokwehluleka noma into yokufihla"kuchaze iphephandaba Huffington Post.
Kungakho ethwebule izingane ezinamathegi esikhumba futhi angenamahloni ngazo:
1) Ngizisebenzele kanzima lezi zibazi. Ngiyaziqhenya ngala ma-cretin ».
U-Emmy, oneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, utholwe ene-sickle cell anemia.
2) "Izibazi zami indaba yami".
UNylah, 16, usebenzise ingxenye yethambo lakhe lomlenze ukwakha kabusha umhlathi.
3) "Bangenze ngale ndlela ngasizathu simbe."
ULester, oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala. Wazalwa enomlomo ocacile nolwanga oluqondile.
4) "Akukho engingakusho. Isibazi sami sitshela abantu ukuthi ngisinde kokuthile okukhulu. "
UCierra, oneminyaka engu-15, wayenomdlavuza wamathambo.
5) "Izinto ziyenzeka. Sukuma, weqe bese ulandela iphupho lakho ».
UChristina, oneminyaka engu-8 ubudala. Waphuka idolo.
6) Amehlo akhe athi uyisilwi. Izibazi zakhe zikhombisa ukuthi uyiqhawe. "
U-Ava, oneminyaka emibili, ohlinzwe inhliziyo.
7) Ubani othanda ukuphelela? Ukuphelela kuyisicefe. "
UNour, oneminyaka engu-11 ubudala. Unqunywe umlenze ngenxa yomdlavuza.
8) Ngingabhekana nanoma yini. Ngisho nama-stalkers ».
UJulian, oneminyaka eyishumi, unemilenze emibili yokufakelwa.
9) "Akukho okungangivimba".
U-Amelia, oneminyaka emithathu, wazalwa enesifo senhliziyo azalwe naso.