Cishe uyazi ukuthi sonke sinohlu lwemizwa eyisisekelo esisisiza kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuba siziqonde thina kanye nezwe elisizungezile. Eqinisweni, umhlaba wemizwa unzima kakhulu futhi ubanzi. Zisisiza ukuzilawula ngaphakathi uma sesiqonda ukuthi kungani sizwa umuzwa owodwa hhayi omunye ngesikhathi esithile.
Zizwe kamnandi nsuku zonke
Bonke abantu bafuna ukuzizwa bejabule kule mpilo, kodwa ukwenza njalo kumele bazizwe kabi ngezinye izikhathi. Eqinisweni, ukuze sazise imizwa esizizwa siyinhle, kufanele futhi sibe nemizwa esizizwa njengephikisayo. Banquma ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Kuvamile ukuthi imizwelo iziphindaphinde kaninginingi ... nsuku zonke uzizwa. Izinga lakho lempilo lizoxhomeka kakhulu emizweni oyizwa nsuku zonke.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela imizwa yakho futhi ubone ukuthi ngabe ikhona yini imizwa ekugcineni ongafuni ukuyizwa njalo. Futhi-ke yiziphi izimbangela futhi ungaziguqula kanjani? Yimiphi imizwa oyifuna ngokweqile futhi ungayakha kanjani?
Lapho ungacabangi ngemizwa yakho ezwayo, ungahle ubhajwe esimweni semizwa ungafuni nokuyibona. Imizwelo ingeyesikhashana futhi lapho imizwa, enjengokudabuka, ihlala isikhathi eside kakhulu, kukhona okungahambi kahle ngempela.
Imizwelo ikukhombisa indlela engcono kakhulu ongayilandela ukuze ukwazi ukuzwa okuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, uma ungayinaki ukulungisa lokho okukwenza uzizwe ungalungile, lapho-ke isimo sakho siyoba esingesihle. Isibonelo, uma uzizwa ukhungathekile ngenxa yokuthi ibhizinisi lakho alisebenzi kahle futhi ungenzi lutho ukulixazulula, uzozwa ukukhungatheka isikhathi eside, umuzwa ongathinta imizwa yakho ngasikhathi sinye. Ngakho-ke, Kuwukuhlakanipha ukuzivumelanisa ngokulalelisisa imizwa yakho ehlala njalo.
Imizwelo
Imizwelo iyingxenye yesimo sakho sengqondo. Ngokuyisisekelo, ukusabela komzimba wakho emicimbini yangaphandle noma yangaphakathi (imicabango yakho). Kususelwa ekuchazweni kwale micimbi hhayi kumcimbi uqobo. Umqondo wakho uzama ukuphendula lo mbuzo, "Kusho ukuthini lokho?" Futhi impendulo imbangela yemizwa yakho evela.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi awusona isigqila semizwa yakho. Unganquma ukuthi uzosabela kanjani kubo, ukuthi wenzeni nini nokuthi ungenzi nini. Vele, lokhu akuyona into encane. Kepha ngokwazi igebe phakathi kwesikhuthazi nokuphendula, ungathola ukulawula okwengeziwe kokuthi udala futhi usabele kanjani kwimizwa yakho.
Ngabe imizwa yakho isho ukuthini?
Imizwelo futhi uhlelo lokuphendula komzimba wakho. Uma unomoya omuhle, kufana nomvuzo wokwenza okuthile ngokulungile. Imizwelo engemihle iyizimpawu ezisuka emzimbeni wakho ukuthi mhlawumbe udinga ukushintsha okuthile futhi wenze izinto ngendlela ehlukile.
Ngokusobala lokho kulula ukuthatha imizwelo, kepha kuyasiza, ikakhulukazi iqiniso lokuthi izinto ezingezinhle azisho into ephelele (njengalapho ucabanga ukuthi wehlulekile noma awunalutho). Kepha kungaba umlayezo wangaphakathi ukushintsha okuthile ...
Ngabe kukhona umehluko phakathi kwemizwa nemizwa?
Lapho kukhulunywa ngemizwa nemizwa, angamatemu ashintshanayo, noma ngabe anokuhluka okuthile okufanele ukwazi. Imizwa ingabonakala njengempendulo eqondile futhi esheshayo esikhathini esifushane, kuyilapho imizwa isesimweni somqondo wesikhathi eside. Ngaleyondlela, injabulo ingaba umuzwa, kanti injabulo ingaba umuzwa ofanayo.
Kunoma ikuphi, ngicabanga ukuthi ukwehlukanisa imizwelo nemizwa kudala ukudideka okuningi ngakho-ke futhi kufanele uqonde ukuthi zingafana. Kunemizwa oyizwa nsuku zonke, futhi kufanele uhlole ukuthi ufuna ukuyizwa ngendlela ehlala njalo, noma cha.
Imizwa emihle vs imizwelo engemihle
Eqinisweni azikho 'imizwa emihle' noma 'imizwa engemihle', yonke 'iyimizwa' futhi iyadingeka ukuze ukwazi ukuziqonda kangcono ngaphakathi. Ngokufanayo, kuwumqondo omuhle ukufunda ukuhlukanisa lezo ezisenza sizizwe sihle noma esingazibiza ngokuthi 'yimizwa emihle' noma lezo ezisenza sizizwe kabi noma 'yimizwa engemihle' Zikhombisa ukuthi kukhona okuthile empilweni yakho okungashintshi kahle futhi okufanele ushintshe.
Ngezansi uzothola izinhlu ezimbili, owokuqala ungowemizwa eyakhayo bese owesibili ube owemizwa engemihle. Bukeza umuzwa ngamunye bese ubhala okuhle okungu-5 neziphikiso ezi-5 ozizwa isikhathi esiningi osukwini lwakho nosuku ephepheni.
Imizwa emihle
- Amor
- Injabulo
- Ukupha
- Uthando
- Injabulo
- Ububele
- Ithemba
- Libertad
- Impumelelo
- Ubulungisa
- Ukubonga
- Ukwamukela
- Buhle
- Ukubabaza
- Ukwazisa
- Umusa
- Umusa
- Ukukhululwa
- Ukuziqhenya
- Uzwela
- Ubuqotho
- Okunamathiselwe
- Ukwanela
- Ukuvumelana
- Ukuthembeka
- Ukuthobeka
- Ukugxila
- Ukushisa
- Ukubekezelela
- Ukugqugquzela
- Injabulo
- Ukuqina
- Fortaleza
- I-Autonomia
- Hlonipha
- Ukuqiniseka
- Ukwaneliseka
- Ukuphepha
- Uzwela
- I-Darling
- I-Estima
- Ukuqonda
- Umdlandla
- Ubumbano
- Hlonipha
- Ukukhathazeka
- Ukuthula
- Ukubeka
- Ukuzibophezela
- Ukuncintisana
- Ukugcwala
- I-Euphoria
- Ukuduka
- Inzalo
- Ukuqiniseka
- Ukunakekela
- Ukuxhaswa
- Isithunzi
- Nomfutho
- Ukwaneliseka
Imizwelo engemihle
- Usizi
- I-Melancholia
- Ukulahlwa
- Ukukhokha
- Ukuhlukunyezwa
- Isidingo
- Ukungabikho
- Ukunciphisa amandla
- Ukwesaba
- Umunyu
- Ukudinwa
- Ulaka
- I-Agobio
- Ukungabaza
- Ukukhathazeka
- Asco
- Impindiselo
- Amahloni
- vacío
- Ukudinwa
- Ubutha
- Ukuthotshiswa
- Ukujivazwa
- Ubunzima
- Ukudinwa
- Ukwesaba
- Ukukhaphela
- Ukhungathekile
- Isihawu
- Ukuphatha
- Ukwehluleka
- Ubugebengu
- Ukukhungatheka
- Ira
- Soledad
- Intukuthelo
- neRabie
- Ukusola
- Ukuba sengozini
- Amandla
- I Hate
- Intukuthelo
- Ukucindezeleka
- Umona
- Ukuqina
- Ukungajabuli
- Ukubhekelwa phansi
- Inhliziyo ebuhlungu
- Ukunganeliseki
- Ukungavikeleki
- Ukucasuka
- Umhawu
- Ukwehluleka
- Ukudinwa
- Ukuzithoba
- Ukudana
- UDerrota
- Ukudumazeka
- Ukudumazeka
- Ukuphumula
- Ukungacabangi
- Ukudangala
- Ukukhululwa
- Usizi
- Intukuthelo
- Ukukhohlisa
- Ukuphelelwa yithemba
- Ukudumazeka
- Incithakalo
- Ukudelela
- Ukuzisola
- Ukudumazeka
Lo msebenzi uyathakazelisa ukucabanga ngezimbangela ezidala le mizwa nangemva kokukwazi ukusebenza kuzo futhi ziphendule zibe ezakhayo ezikwenza uzizwe ungcono Uma unemizwa engemihle, kuzofanele ucabange ukuthi yini ongayenza ukushintsha impilo yakho bese uqala ukuphola futhi.
Kukhona neminye imizwa eyaziwa njengezinto eziguquguqukayo ezingakhuphuka noma zehliswe ngokuya ngezimo, ezifana; ukunganaki, inkanuko, ukuheha, ukumangala, isibindi, isifiso, ukulangazelela, isibindi, ukuziqhenya, isilingo, ukubekezela, ukumangala, ukungaqondani, isisa, amahloni, ukuthula, ukuzisola… njll. Le mizwa ivame ukuhambisana nemizwa emihle noma emibi kuye ngezimo ozithola ukuzo.