Ngeshwa, emphakathini wanamuhla sithola okwehlukile izinhlobo zokuhlukumeza okwaziwa kakhulu njengokuziphatha okusoleka nokungekho emthethweni, kunezinsizakusebenza ukuze abantu abathintekayo kulolu hlobo lwesimo bakwazi ukuluxazulula ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Okulandelayo, sizohlaziya izinhlobo eziyinhloko zokuhlukumeza ezivelele ukuthi zivame kakhulu kuzilungiselelo eziningi.
Izinhlobo ezivame kakhulu zokuhlukumeza
Sethula uhlu lwezinye zezinhlobo zokuhlukumeza ezivame kakhulu eziye zabonwa futhi umphakathi nezikhungo zomphakathi njengezindlela zokuziphatha ezingathinta kakhulu izimpilo zabahlukunyezwayo.
Ukuqinela abanye
Siqala uhlu ngolunye lwefayela le- izinhlobo ezivame kakhulu zokuxhashazwa okuyikho kanye okuqinela abanye, okwaziwa nangokuthi i-anglicism yokuhlukumeza.
Kulokhu sithola umdlalo wamandla lapho umuntu oyedwa noma ngaphezulu eba ngabahlukumezi ngokusabisa nokuhlukumeza isisulu, inqobo nje uma kwenzeka ngaphakathi kwendawo yesikole.
Ngokuyisisekelo, umhlukumezi uzizwa ethokozile ngokuhlupheka komuntu ohlukunyezwayo, kusukela kwakha umuzwa wokuphakama owanelisa ezinye izidingo ongazi noma owenqaba ukukubona.
Ukuhlukunyezwa esikoleni noma udlame yindaba ebucayi kakhulu ngoba ukuqhubeka nokuhlukunyezwa kwesisulu esithile kungaholela nasekuzibulaleni kwezinye izimo, ngakho-ke kufanele kutholakale ngokushesha okukhulu futhi kulethwe kubantu noma kuziphathimandla ezingasebenza futhi zixazulule isimo.
Ngokuvamile, lolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza luzoba njalo izindaba zokuqinela ukuzethembaNgakho-ke ngalo muzwa wokuphakama uzama ukwanelisa isidingo sokuzethemba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuvamile impela kulezi zimo ukuthi ubaba noma umama wesiqhwaga bangabantu abahlukumezayo, kukhona ukungqubuzana okuqinile phakathi kwabazali nezingane, njalo njalo.
Futhi-ke, esinye isici yi- ukungabikho kwamanani ohlangothini lomhlaseli, inkinga evame ukuba nomsuka wokungakhathaleli kwabazali ngemfundo yabo.
Kulokhu singakuthola kokubili ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba njengoba ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo, futhi kaningi kuzophinde kube inhlanganisela yakho kokubili.
Ukuhlukunyezwa emsebenzini
Okuthile okufanayo esikutholayo ngobuxhwanguxhwangu obusemsebenzini, obubizwa nangokuthi ukuhlukumeza, uhlobo lokuhlukumeza oluvame ukwenzeka ngokwengqondo, kepha luvame ukulandela amaphethini esiqhwaga esikoleni, okungukuthi, umuntu ontula izindinganiso nezimiso ongahle abe nomlando omude ukuhlukumeza futhi lokho kuvame ukususelwa ekufuneni ukuzethemba.
Lokhu kungabi nokwethembana kuvame ukuhumusha kulezi zimo njengokwesaba ukuthi abanye abantu bangathatha indawo yabo noma benqatshwe noma bakhawulelwe esikhundleni sabo somsebenzi.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi, lokhu kuhlukunyezwa kuvame ukugxila ekwesabeni ukulahlekelwa yilokho umuntu anakho noma ukungakwazi ukukwenza ngcono emsebenzini ngenxa yokuba nomuzwa wokuthi ululazekile phambi kwalowo ohlukunyeziwe.
Ukuhlukunyezwa emsebenzini kungabhekwa njengokuziphatha kobugebenguNgakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokwazisa iziphathimandla okufanele ziphathe lesi simo.
Ukuhlukunnyezwa ngokobulili
Ngokusobala, asikwazi ukubhala uhlu lwezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlukumeza uma singakufaki ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, okunye okwaziwa kakhulu futhi okubuye kugqugquzelwe ukufuna umuzwa wokuphakama kunalowo ohlukunyeziwe.
Akufanele sididanise ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi nokudlwengula, okungukuthi, ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi akudingeki ukuthi kubandakanye noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuthintana ngokomzimba, kepha kungaba ngamazwi noma ngisho nangezenzo noma ngezimo zengqondo, futhi-ke ubulili abuhlukile kuleli cala, okungukuthi, isisulu kanye nomhlukumezi kube abesilisa noma abesifazane.
Njengakwezinye izimo ezedlule, kufanele siqaphele kakhulu ukuthola ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi futhi sixazulule inkinga ngokushesha okukhulu, umhlukumezi enesibopho esisemthethweni kulezi zimo okufanele baziphendule kuziphathimandla.
Ukuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethi
Futhi ukuqedela uhlu lwethu lokuxhashazwa sinobuxhwanguxhwangu be-intanethi, olunye uhlobo lokuhlukumeza olwaziwa nangokuthi yi-cyberbullying, futhi ngokuyisisekelo ukuxhashazwa okufanayo kepha, esikhundleni sokwenziwa endaweni yesikole, kwenzeka nge-Intanethi, ngendlela yokuthi umuntu oyedwa noma abaningana ahlasele ngokweqile omunye ukuze babuse isimilo sabo futhi babalimaze.
Ukuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethi kuvame ukwenzeka ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, efuna ukuphoxa isisulu, ukumthuka, ukumhlukumeza nokumsabisa, ukuze kungabi nenqwaba yofakazi kuphela, kepha futhi konke kubhaliwe, futhi isisulu singabika ngqo isimo sokuhlukunyezwa kwinethiwekhi yokuxhumana uqobo lwayo, okuzoba yilona oluphethe ukusebenza kuqala kunciphisa isenzo ngaphakathi kwemvelo, nokunikeza, uma kunesidingo, lonke ulwazi olucelwa yiziphathimandla uma kwenzeka kulethwa inqubo yokwahlulela.
Ungabhekana kanjani nanoma iyiphi yalezi zinhlobo zokuhlukumeza
Lapho ubhekene nokuhlukunyezwa, noma ngabe siyisisulu noma ufakazi, kufanele sisebenze ngamandla nangesinqumo, ngoba imvamisa umhlukumezi uvame ukuba umuntu oyigwala futhi onale ndlela yokuziphatha yokwanelisa ukungazethembi futhi afihle leli qiniso kokubili phambi kwabanye njengoba yena.
Ngaleso sizathu, ofakazi kanye nalowo ohlukunyezwayo akufanele besabe ukubhekana nalolu hlobo lomuntu, futhi uma kwenzeka kuba nokungabaza, iziphathimandla zingasetshenziswa ukuqala inqubo yesivumelwano mayelana nokuphela kokuziphatha noma , uma kungenjalo, kuzovulwa inqubo yokwahlulela ezothathela izinyathelo umhlukumezi.
Njengoba sishilo, imvamisa umhlukumezi uvela emndenini onodlame, yingakho kwesinye isikhathi kungcono ukuqhubeka ngqo ngenqubo yokwahlulela, ngaleyo ndlela ugweme ukuthi isimo singaba sibi kakhulu.
Ofakazi abangenzi isenzo sokulwa nokuhlukunyezwa (kungakhathalekile ukuthi hlobo luni), empeleni bayasebenzisana nalowo okuhlukumezayo, ngoba, uma iqembu liphikisana nalo futhi likhombisa ngempumelelo phambi komhlaseli, kuzokwanela ukuthi anikezele ukuziphatha kwakho.
Kunoma yikuphi, Uma sinomuzwa wokuthi siyizisulu zokuhlukunyezwa, kufanele sikwazise kubantu abasizungezile ngaphandle kokwesaba noma amahloni, ngoba kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuxazulula inkinga ngaphambi kokuba ifinyelele esimweni esibucayi kakhulu futhi ibangele izinkinga ezinkulu kithi nakwamanye amaqembu abandakanyekayo.
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