Ngokusho kwamaGreki, Uthando ngumqondo ongaqondakali oyingxenye yempilo yawo wonke umuntu, ukuba ngomunye wababhekele izinguquko nokwenza izinqumo kukho konke ukuphila kwethu. Ngalo mqondo naphezu kokukhishwa komqondo, kunezinhlobo ezine zothando lokho kwehluka kakhulu phakathi kwabo bethula izici ezithile ezithakazelisa kakhulu okufanele bazi.
Uthando lwe-Agape
Uthando lwe-Agape ngokungangabazeki luthando olujule kakhulu nolukhonkolo kakhulu umuntu angaluthola, ngoba lunombono womhlaba jikelele nobanzi kakhulu kunanoma yiziphi ezinye izinhlobo ezintathu zothando.
Ngokuyisisekelo sikhuluma ngomuzwa ozalwa maqondana nomqondo wendawo yonke njengothando esiluzwa ngendalo uqobo, uthando esiluzwa ngunkulunkulu noma ngisho nothando esingaluzwa ngabo bonke abantu.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi, ngaphandle kwezimo ezithile, uthando lwe-agape luthando oluzuzisa kakhulu umuntu oluzwayo, ngoba lunamandla okucebisa futhi luvule ingqondo ngaphandle kokwesaba futhi lube nethuba lokwazi izinto ezintsha besingeke silokothe sibhekane nesimo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, esinye sezici esichazayo futhi ukuthi sikhuluma ngohlobo lothando olonakele emphakathini wanamuhla, futhi imbangela yalomonakalo ngokuyinhloko ingenxa yenzondo, ukwesaba nokungabekezelelani. kanye namanga abantu abaningi abafuna ukukhombisa ngawo ukuthi banalolu hlobo lothando ngaphakathi kubo, kanti empeleni bakwenza nje ukwanelisa iqembu elithile.
Zonke lezi zindlela zokuziphatha zenza umuntu asondele futhi angavumeli ukuqhubekela phambili futhi azi lolu hlobo lothando ngokwengeziwe, ukuze lutholakale ngaphakathi kwethu noma ngubani, kepha asisoze sazithola ngoba asizange sikholwe ngokuqinile kulo.
Uthando eros
Ngokuqondene ne Uthando lwe-eros lumayelana nohlobo lothando olungokwenyama nolushubile kepha lokho ngokuvamile kunesici sokuba yisikhashana, okungukuthi, ngendlela efanayo efika ngayo, kugcina kuhamba.
Enye yezithako ezondla lolu thando yiyona kanye intshisekelo nesifiso senyama sabo bonke abantu, ngaphezu kweqiniso lokuthi, endabeni yomuntu, kuyondliwa ngokusebenzisa umbono womuntu kanye nesimo lapho hlangana ngaleso sikhathi.
Ukunikeza abafundi bethu umbono, uthando lwe-eros ngokuyisisekelo yi- uthando lwemvelo yezocansi, ngakho-ke luhlobo lothando oluvusa ukuhlangana kocansi ngezikhathi ezithile ngisho nokungathembeki.
Thanda philia
Manje siphendukela othandweni lwe-philia, okuwuthando esiluzwayo ngomakhelwane wethu. Ngalo mqondo, ungabona ukuthi kungafana nothando lwe-agape, kepha kulokhu singakhuluma ngombono ocacile, ngoba kungumuzwa ozalelwe kumuntu othile noma ngisho naseqenjini elithile, bese uyondla kubumbano kanye neBuzalwane.
Lolu hlobo lothando luziswa kakhulu futhi lunconywa kakhulu kubo bonke abantu, ngoba luthathwa njengoluhlobo lothando lapho kuzalwa khona okuhle nokuzidela, ukuze laba bantu balwele ukusiza labo abaseduze kwakho ngaphandle udinga ukulindela noma yini ngokubuyiselwa.
Ngalokhu, kufanele kusetshenziswe izinto ezithile njengokusebenzisana, inhlonipho nomusa, zonke azikho ngandlela thile eningini labantu, yize empeleni kubalulekile ukuthi unake ukuthi zisaphila kubo bonke abantu, indlela umuntu aqondiswe kahle ngalo mqondo angeza ngayo ukuzwa lolu thando futhi ashintshe ngokuphelele impilo yakhe nobudlelwano bakhe nabanye.
Uthando storgé
Sigcina ngothando lwe-storgé, okuwuthando lobuzalwane, oluhlala isikhathi eside futhi lokho okusho ukuzibophezela kwethu kanye nakomunye umuntu.
Yize kwezinye izimo kungahle kwenzeke ngokuzumayo, kepha kumele kucace ukuthi lolu hlobo lothando ngokuvamile ludinga isikhathi esithile ukuze lukhule, okusho ukuthi esikwaziyo njengothando ekuqaleni kokubona kungaba uthando lwe-eros, futhi uthando lwalowo muntu esifuna ukuchitha naye impilo yethu yonke, hhayi ngoba simcabangile kepha nokwabelana naye ngezinto ezinamandla kakhulu, luyoba uthando lwe-storgé.
Kusuka othandweni lwe-storgé kuzalwa umuzwa wokuvikela nokuthembeka, ukuze inganikezwa kuphela maqondana nothando esiluzwayo kulowo muntu esithandana naye esifuna ukuhlangana naye impilo yethu yonke, kepha futhi maqondana nabo bonke labo bantu abakha into ebalulekile ingxenye yezimpilo zethu, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke sinesidingo sokuvikela nokunakekela ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukuhlukaniswa esikulungiselele kona kususelwa kumqondo nokuhlukaniswa kwe- izinhlobo zothando ngokusho kwamaGreki, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuye kwavela ezinye izindlela eziye zafuna ukucaciswa futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthola incazelo yokunye ukungabaza okungase kushiye kulezi zincazelo ezine noma izigaba.
Kodwa-ke, umqondo wamaGrikhi wezinhlobo zothando yiwona okhuthazelele kakhulu hhayi kuphela ngoba mdala, kepha ngenxa yokuthi, uma sihlolisisa, sizobona ukuthi afaka konke okungenzeka, okusho ukuthi lokho empeleni akudingekile ukufaka ezinye izinketho ezingeziwe ngoba ngandlela thile bekungaba ukwahlukaniswa phakathi kwesigaba ngasinye sothando lwesiGrikhi ngoba uma kungenjalo besizobe singasasebenzi.
Ukuhalalisela kwedatha enhle kakhulu ngiyabonga kakhulu ngalezo zindaba ezinhle ngakho-ke kuyasisiza ukuhlukanisa.