Umuntu ophumelelayo ungumuntu ojabulayo ngoba wenza lokho akuthandayo futhi uzizwa okuhle njalo ekuseni lapho evuka.. Kwesinye isikhathi abantu ababheka izimpilo zabantu abaphumelele babheka amathalente abo kuphela noma ukuxhumana kwabo nomndeni noma umhlaba. Eqinisweni, bangacabanga ukuthi abantu uma bephumelela, kwesinye isikhathi kungaba ngenhlanhla engaphezu kokufaneleka kwabo.
Noma kunjalo, leli qiniso akuyona into okufanele uyikholelwe. Abantu abaphumelele baphumelele, mhlawumbe ngenhlanhla ethile, kepha futhi bazi nokuthi basebenzise kanjani amathuba impilo ebanikeze wona. Babenomqondo wokukhula obavumele ukuthi baqhubekele phambili endleleni abayifunayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinkolelo zabo zifinyelele kubo lapho befuna khona. Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izinkolelo abantu abaphumelelayo abanazo? Ungalahlekelwa imininingwane!
Gxila kulokho okufuna ngempela
Uma ufuna ukuphumelela, ungathembeli nje ukudalelwa… ungazikhohlisi ngokucabanga ukuthi ukudalelwa kuzokuvumela ukuthi uphile lokho okumele uphile! Akukho lutho ngalokho. Kufanele uzenzele ikusasa lakho, kufanele unyakaze futhi wenze ngokuvumelana nezifiso zakho.
Lapho uSteve Jobs exoshwa enkampanini yakhe, wayengama. Ubengatshela abanye abantu ukuthi "bekungeyona into yakhe." Kodwa yini ayenza ngokulandelayo? Ngenxa yokuthi wayegxile kakhulu ekwakhiweni kobuchwepheshe ukusiza ukushintsha umhlaba, wethula i-NEXT, inkampani entsha yamakhompyutha, futhi wethula ne-Pstrong Animation Studios ... Ngubani ongazi ukuthi ngubani uSteve Jobs? Ukufeza izinhloso ezinhle, kufanele ukufune ngempela okwenzayo.
Ngidala impilo yami
Wakha impilo yakho ngoba ubophezelekile ku-100% ngezinqumo ozenzayo, noma ngabe ziyini. Abantu abajabulayo balahla iphethini yecala ngoba kuwumcabango onobuthi, ogcwalisa ingqondo ngamanga enza umuntu azizwe engenamandla okwenza okuthile, futhi esikhundleni sabo afake imicabango egxile ezenzweni futhi egxile ezixazululweni. Abantu abajabulayo bakhetha noma bazenza abajabulayo kungakhathalekile imiphumela nezimo ezibazungezile.
Ngiyazi ukuthi ngifunani
Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi ziyini izinhloso zakho nokuthi yini ofuna ukuyizuza empilweni yakho. Akuyona ingozi ukuthi abanye abantu baphumelele futhi bajabule. Abantu abajabulayo bazibekela imigomo eqondiswa umbono ocacile walokho abakufunayo ngokujwayelekile empilweni noma esimweni esithile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, banesithombe esicacile sokuthi bafuna ukuba noma ukuvela kanjani empilweni (isisekelo esakha isimilo). Banemicabango ebaqinisekisayo nenika amandla kubo. Isibonelo, amaphutha noma ukwehluleka ngamathuba weFinyelela amandla obuchopho bakho wokucabanga okungenzeka noma okucabangayo.
Ukwehluleka ukufunda kuphela, kufundwa amaphutha!
Ukwehluleka noma ukwenza amaphutha akukhona ukwehluleka. Cabanga ngawo wonke umuntu ophumelele kakhulu ohlangana naye. Ngabe kukhona obaziyo abanenhlanhla yokuphumelela ekuzameni kokuqala? U-Oprah Winfrey waxoshwa emsebenzini wakhe wokuqala wethelevishini njengomethuli wezinhlelo. UWalt Disney uxoshwe ngumhleli wephephandaba ngoba "engenayo imibono emihle." UVincent Van Gogh uthengise umdwebo owodwa kuphela empilweni yakhe. Ngakho ngokuzayo lapho uhluleka, qhubeka. Abantu abaphumelele kakhulu abayekanga, nawe akufanele.
Angisoze ngakungabaza
Indlela yokuba ngumuntu odumile futhi ophumelelayo inzima. Abantu bazokuhlekisa. Abezizwe bazokuhlekisa. Futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nabathandekayo bakho abacabanga ukuthi bayakuvikela bazozama ukukukholisa ukuthi ungenzi into oyithandayo. Yizwa abakushoyo, yebo. Kepha ungabathathi ngokungathi sína uma ucabanga ukuthi abakushoyo sekuvele kuyakulimaza. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele uhlale ukholelwa kuwe, noma kwabanye kubonakala sengathi awukholelwa.
Uma ngiyifuna ngempela ngizothola indlela yokuyithola
UWalt Disney ucele amabhange nezinye izikhungo ezibolekisayo ukuthi zimbolekise imali ukuze aqale ipaki yakhe yokuzijabulisa. Njengoba wayengenawo umlando wesikweletu noma isibambiso, ngokwemvelo, wonke umuntu wamenqaba. Akagcinanga lapho. Uboleke kumshwalense wakhe wempilo waqopha umlando.
Ukuzikhuza kuyangichaza
Abantu abajabulayo bayabona ukuthi ukuzikhuza kubalulekile futhi benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuzikhuza. Bayazi ukuthi umsebenzi uyadingeka, basetshenziswa ngokungaguquguquki, ukwakha imikhuba emisha, futhi bathathelwa indawo yimikhawulo yakudala evimba impumelelo yabo noma izinhloso zakho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, izindlela zokucabanga ezingezinhle zivuselela imizwa yomuzwa omubi, ekhipha amakhemikhali anobuthi aqeda amandla futhi zibulala amangqamuzana obuchopho ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Ngingumfundi nomfundisi wempilo
Abantu abajabulayo bayabona ukuthi, ngokwazi noma ngokungazi, impilo imayelana nokufunda nokukhula, futhi ngokungazibandakanyi noma ngokungazi, umuntu ngamunye osizungezile uyisibonelo. Bafuna ukuba yizibonelo ezinhle kwabanye futhi, ikakhulukazi, kubantu abadala abasebancane nezingane.
Ngifuna ukuzwana nokulinganisela ezinqumweni engizenzayo
Abantu abajabulayo bayawaqonda amandla okukhethwa umzuzwana kuya ezingeni labo lenjabulo, impilo nempilo enhle. Imayelana nokulinganisela nendlela yokucabanga eyenza imizwelo efanelekile ngomzuzu othile, ibavumele ukuthi baxhumane nomqondo wabo wokuzikhethela, bathembe amandla abo okwenza izinqumo ezifanele, futhi futhi bafunde emaphutheni, njengoba "enengqondo" kokuhlangenwe nakho kwempilo.
Angilindeli lutho, ngivele ... ngizakhele owami amathuba
Mhlawumbe utshelwe kaningi ukuthi “cha” kuphrojekthi noma esicelweni somsebenzi. Kunokwenqatshwa okuningi okungenzeka ukuthi ucabanga ukuphonsa ithawula… Uma ukuthanda ngempela okwenzayo, UNGAKULAhli Ithawula! Mhlawumbe bakutshele u-100 cha Kepha mhlawumbe isikhathi se-101 yisona esikumangaza futhi une "yebo" olinda kakhulu.