Bonke abantu bafuna injabulo ukuze baphile impilo ephelele neyanelisayo, yize kubonakala sengathi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukufeza. Abantu abaningi bahlushwa ukucindezeleka noma ukudabuka okungapheli futhi bakholelwa ukuthi injabulo yinto engenakwenzeka ukuyifinyelela. Kepha kulezi zimo, yisimo somqondo wakho kuphela esikwenza ukukholelwe lokhu, empeleni injabulo ingafinyeleleka kuwo wonke umuntu, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungalinganisa kanjani ibhalansi.
Iyini injabulo yakho
Uma othile ekubuza; Iyini injabulo yakho? Kungenzeka ukuthi nina bantu ningazi kahle okufanele niphendule, ngoba ungahle ungazi kahle ukuthi iyini injabulo noma ukuthi kufanele uzizwe kanjani lapho uzizwa ujabulile ngempela. Ungase ucabange ukuthi injabulo uzithola nsuku zonke, ufeza amaphupho, ujabulela impilo nabantu obathandayo, unesimo sokulinganisela lapho impilo yakho igeleza khona ngokuvumelana ... noma mhlawumbe awazi nakancane.
Injabulo iyisimo sokuzithoba, kepha yini eyenza ukuthi sijabule ngokwengeziwe? Ikhono onalo lokujabula, uhhafu waleli khono unqunywa ngofuzo. Lokhu ochwepheshe bakubiza ngokuthi: 'Iphuzu lakho lokuthokoza lenjabulo'. Abantu bangathuthukisa noma benze kube kubi ukuthambekela okungokwemvelo kokujabula kakhulu noma okuncane, kepha Njengasesisindo somzimba, uzohlala uthambekele ekubuyeni kwephakathi lakho.
Yize uhhafu wekhono lokujabula uncike kofuzo, kune-10% encike ezimweni ophila kuzo namuhla. Kepha kuthiwani ngama-40% asele? Ini Lokhu okungama-40% kuncike ekuziphatheni kwakho kwansuku zonke, ekugxileni kwakho nasekwahluleleni okubalulekile, ukuthi uphila kanjani futhi uzizwa kanjani ngempilo yakho nokuthi uzigweba kanjani wena nabanye. Injabulo eningi isezandleni zakho!
Yiziphi izakhi ezinikeza ukulinganisela kwakho kwenjabulo
Kunezinto ezithile zikakhonkolo ezinganciphisa ibhalansi yakho yenjabulo ngandlela thile noma enye. Ake sibheke amaqiniso athakazelisayo ekuphenduleni eminye imibuzo. Ngaphambi kokufunda impendulo yombuzo, sikukwazisa ukuthi uqale ucabange ngempendulo yakho bese uhlola iqiniso okushiwo ochwepheshe.
- Obani abajabula kakhulu: abesifazane noma amadoda? Abesifazane bavame ukujabula kancane kunabesilisa kodwa futhi bathambekele ekucindezelekeni okukhulu, ngokwesilinganiso baba sengozini kakhulu yemizwa emihle nemibi. Owesifazane oyedwa kwabahlanu uzoba nokudangala empilweni yakhe.
- Obani abajabula kakhudlwana: abashadile noma abangashadile? Akuwona umbuzo wesimo somshado, abantu abaphilile nabalingani babo bazojabula kakhulu. Yize kunezifundo ezikhombisa ukuthi kungcono ukuba wedwa kunokuba nenkampani embi.
- Ingabe imali ibalulekile ukuze sijabule? Imali ithonya injabulo ngaphansi kwezinga lokusinda, okungukuthi, uma ungenazo izidingo zakho eziyisisekelo ezihlanganisiwe. Kepha ngaphezulu kwezinga lokusinda, noma ngubani angajabula ngemali ethe xaxa noma encane. Noma imali ikhula, lokho akusho ukuthi injabulo iyanda.
- Ingabe impilo iyadingeka ukuze sijabule? Impilo inesisindo esilinganisweni senjabulo. Abantu bayakwazi ukunqoba izithiyo; kubantu abanqunywe ingalo baphinde bajabule esikhathini seminyaka emithathu.
- Ingabe umsebenzi ubalulekile ukuze sijabule? Umsebenzi uyinto ebalulekile ebhalansi yenjabulo, uma unomsebenzi izinga lakho lenjabulo liyakhuphuka ngoba izinga lakho lokuzimela nokuzethemba liyakhula. Ukusebenza eduze nasekhaya kuzokujabulisa ngokwengeziwe.
- Ungajabula yini uma uwine ilotho? Uma uwina ilotho uzizwa ushesha kakhulu i-adrenaline, kepha ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ubuyela emazingeni wangaphambilini enjabulo. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi 'yi-hedonistic habituation', abantu bajwayele izinguquko ezinhle nezimbi.
Ungayandisa kanjani injabulo
Njengoba wazi kahle, ukuze ujabule unokuningi okufanele ukwenze, ngoba ama-40% wokuzuza injabulo asezandleni zakho. Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungayikhulisa kanjani injabulo yakho? Ukuze wenze kanjalo, ungaphuthelwa iphuzu elilandelayo.
Hlukanisa phakathi kwezinguquko zangamabomu nezimo ezithile
Izinguquko zesimo Isibonelo, ukukhushulwa emholweni, ukukuthengela imoto noma ukuthenga indlu. Yizinguquko ezibonakalayo ozijwayela zisuka nje.
Izinguquko ngamabomu chaza umzamo owenzayo ukufeza inhloso noma ukuqala umsebenzi omusha. Lokho, kuhlobene nokufuna umgomo wesikhathi eside.
Abantu abakha ngamabomu izinguquko ezimpilweni zabo bagcina 'ukushesha' kwenjabulo okuletha lonke ushintsho ngokujwayelekile isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke isincomo sochwepheshe sokugcina injabulo ukuthi uhlanganisa izinguquko zezimo nezinguquko zangamabomu. Lezi zinguquko kufanele zibe nomthelela empilweni yakho esikhathini esiphakathi nesikhathi eside.
Thola injabulo yakho
Injabulo, ngakho-ke, ngeke ifane kubantu ababili ngoba sonke sihlukile ngezimpawu zethu kanye nezidingo zethu ezihlukile. Umuntu ngamunye kufanele alinganise injabulo yakhe ngaphandle kokubheka injabulo yalowo oseduze kwakhe. Ukuze ujabule kufanele uzibheke ngaphakathi kwakho futhi uyazi ukuthi yiziphi izidingo zakho ukugcina ibhalansi yenjabulo ilinganiselwa kahle.
Ngaphezu kokubhekela izidingo zakho, kufanele futhi ugcine okuthandayo engqondweni. Ngezikali zenjabulo yakho phambi kwakho, kufanele nje cabanga ngokuthi yini ezokunikeza inhlalakahle enkulu ngokomzwelo.
Ukufeza lokhu, kufanele uhlole ukuthi injani impilo yakho njengamanje nokuthi ngabe kukhona okuthile okudinga ukunakwa noma ukwenza izinguquko ezithile ukuze uthuthukise izinga lempilo yakho nempilo yakho engokomzwelo. Cabanga ukuthi sinempilo eyodwa kuphela okufanele siyiphile nokuthi zonke izinsuku zokuphila kwethu kufanelekile ukujabula ngazo. Cabanga ngezidingo zakho nezinto ozithandayo ... bese uzokufeza!
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