"Isikhathi siyahamba" o "kubukeka ngathi izolo" ziyizinkulumo ezijwayeleke kakhulu esake sazizwa sonke, ngesikhathi esithile.
Siyakhula njengoba izinsuku zihamba, kodwa, Kungani sinomuzwa wokuthi isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha okukhulu lapho sikhula?
Ucwaningo oluningi lwenziwe ngombono wokuhamba kwesikhathi (owokuqala ngo-2005 nguM. Wittman noS. Lehnhoff futhi owokugcina ngoJulayi 2013 nguFriedman, Janssen noM. Naka) kanye no iziphetho asebefinyelele kuzo yilezi ezilandelayo:
-Ubudala buyisici esibalulekile, kepha ikakhulu lapho kukhulunywa ngezikhathi ezinde. Lapho ubuzwa ukuthi "ingabe le minyaka eyishumi edlule idlule ngokushesha kangakanani kuwe?", Abantu abadala bavame ukubaluleka ukudlula kwaleyo nkathi ngokushesha kunentsha. Kodwa-ke, lapho umbuzo ubhekise kusivinini sokudlula kwezinsuku noma izinyanga, ubudala akwenzanga umehluko omkhulu.
-Umuzwa we "ingcindezi yesikhathi"idlala indima ebalulekile. Ukwenza imisebenzi ngomnqamulajuqu ukuyifeza kuvame ukudala umuzwa wokuthi sihlale sinesikhathi. Lesi sici sizimele ngokweminyaka nangamasiko; imiphumela efanayo itholwe ngabahlanganyeli baseDashi, baseJalimane, base-Austrian, baseJapan nabaseNew Zealand.
Ubudala, ingcindezi yesikhathi, izikhawu zesikhathi… Ngeke sazi ukuthi kungani sinomuzwa wokuthi isikhathi sihamba ngokukhulu ukushesha? Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye zaphakamisa imibono emihlanu ethokozisayo ukuhlonipha:
1. Sikala isikhathi ngemicimbi engasoze yalitshalwa.
Ukulandela inkolelo-mbono uWilliam James ayiveza encwadini yakhe "Isimiso se-psychology"; njengoba sikhula, isikhathi sibonakala sihamba ngokushesha ngoba inani lemicimbi ebalulekile liyancipha. Lapho silinganisa isikhathi sokuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala (ukwanga kokuqala, imoto yokuqala, ukuthweswa iziqu ...) ukulahlekelwa kokuba nabo (njengoba sikhula eminyakeni yobudala), kungadala umuzwa wokuthi Iminyaka idlula ingenalutho futhi cishe ngaphandle kokuqaphela.
2. Isikhathi esidlulayo sihlobene neminyaka.
Ngenkathi eneminyaka engu-5 ubudala, unyaka owodwa yi 20% impilo yakhe yonke; kumuntu omdala oneminyaka engama-50, ngawo lowo nyaka umele kuphela 2% impilo yakhe yonke. Lokhu «Umbono wokuqhathanisa«, Yaphakanyiswa nguJanet ngo-1877 futhi iphakamisa ukuthi sihlala siqhathanisa izikhathi zesikhathi (izinsuku, izinyanga, iminyaka) nesikhathi esiphelele esesivele siphila kuso. Okungukuthi, uma sesiphile isikhathi eside, lezo zikhathi zisho “okuncane” empilweni yethu ngakho-ke, zibonakala zidlula ngokushesha okukhulu.
3. Iwashi lethu lezinto eziphilayo lizinciphisa njengoba sikhula.
Ukuguga kubonakala kuhambisana nokwehla kohlobo oluthile lwe-pacemaker yangaphakathi. Ingabe "Ukuqhubeka kancane" kwewashi lethu lezinto eziphilayo amathonya ngendlela yokuthi sibe nomuzwa wokuthi, ngokungazelelwe, izinsuku zihamba ngokushesha okukhulu.
4. Njengoba sikhula, asinaki isikhathi.
Ngenkathi siseyizingane, kusukela ngoDisemba 1 sasibala izinsuku kuze kube yilapho uSanta Claus noma abaSebenzi abathathu beletha izipho zethu. Kodwa-ke, njengabantu abadala, sigxile kakhulu emsebenzini, ezitolo zikaKhisimusi, ezokuvakasha, izikweletu nezinye izindaba "zabantu abadala". Lapho sinaka kakhulu imisebenzi efana nale, okuncane lapho sizobona ukuhamba kwesikhathi.
5. Ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka okwengeziwe.
Njengokutholakele ocwaningweni lukaWittmann noLehnhoff, umuzwa wokuthi asikho isikhathi esanele sokwenza izinto siyichaza kabusha ngomuzwa wokuthi isikhathi sidlula ngokushesha okukhulu. Abantu asebekhulile, ngokwesibonelo, bavame ukuba nalolu luvo ngenxa yesimo somzimba esingesihle noma ukwehla kwengqondo.
Yize umuzwa wokuthi isikhathi "sindiza" singenakugwenywa, mhlawumbe singanciphisa kancane lo Khisimusi. Ake sijabulele isikhathi nomndeni nabangane futhi ake sinake kakhudlwana lezo zikhathi ezivame ukunganakwa.