Mayelana nesihloko samaphupho, izinto eziphazamisa ukubonakaliswa kwazo zixhunywe kokuhlangenwe nakho, ukubona kanye nokuthambekela kokuqonda; Ngalesi sizathu, ekuchazelweni kwayo, lezi zici ezinomthelela ohlukile kumuntu ngamunye kufanele zibhekwe. Phupha ngomntwanaIsibonelo, kuyisimo esivame kakhulu kwabesifazane ngenxa yemvelo yabo yomama; Yize kungagcini kubo kuphela, ngoba kunamacala amaningi amadoda athe aseke aba nalolu hlobo lwamaphupho ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yawo.
Uyazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuphupha usana?
Ngokuya ngesimo sempilo lapho umuntu ophuphe amaphupho ezingane, kungabhekwa njengezincazelo ezahlukahlukene. Endabeni yabesifazane, isibonelo, ukucatshangelwa okukhulu kufanele kunikezwe lapho ukhona esikhathini sakho sokuya esikhathini. Iqiniso lokuba sezinsukwini zakho ezivundile, ezingenanzalo noma ezinsukwini zokopha, lizoba nomthelela omkhulu esimweni sakho esingokomzwelo nangaso, isihloko samaphupho akho.
Ngokunjalo, njengoba usanda kwenza ucansi (noma ungazivikeli), kungadala lezi zinhlobo zamaphupho; ngoba kuyinto evame kakhulu ukubakhona emqondweni wesifazane. Kungaba njalo kuhlotshaniswa nesifiso sokuba ngumama, akunakwenzeka ukuba noma kamuva nje bathole isimo sabo sokukhulelwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, emadodeni kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa namaphrojekthi womsebenzi nokwesaba ukuba ngubaba.
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Lokhu kungenye yezinhlobo zamaphupho ezesatshwa kakhulu. Uma umuntu onaye kungowesifazane noma owesilisa olindele ingane eyeyakhe, noma umuntu osondelene naye njengabangani noma umndeni, lokhu kungabangelwa ukwesaba okuhambisana nokuzalwa. Lokhu kwesaba kungenzeka kudalwe yisimo esingajwayelekile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma kokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambilini lapho kwenzeka khona umcimbi ofanayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukufika kwezinsana kuhlobene kakhulu namaphrojekthi amasha, ukufuna umsebenzi omusha noma nje inhloso yokuzikhulisa. Kujwayelekile ukuzizwa ukhathazekile noma wesaba ngezinguquko, nokuningi uma kunamandla emvelweni. Kulokhu, i- ukuzalwa kwengane enganyakazi kungamela ukwesaba ukwehluleka kuphrojekthi ojabule ngayo.
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Ukukhala bekulokhu kuhlotshaniswa nezingane ezisanda kuzalwa. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyabacasula abanye abantu, yize labo asebevele bengabazali ngokuvamile befunda ukubhekana nakho futhi bakuhumushe. Abanye bakwenza ngenxa yendlala, abanye ngoba babhekane nokwesaba, abanye ngoba bezizwa kabi, phakathi kwezinye izimo eziningi. Kodwa-ke, bonke labo okukhulunyiwe bayavumelana ngento eyodwa, eyi isidingo sokunakwa.
Ngakho-ke, uphupha ukuthi ingane iyakhala kungaba wuphawu lokuthi njengamanje sizizwa singanakiwe. Yize kuyinto ebonakala kakhulu empilweni yansuku zonke, kungahle kube nokufihlekile okungokomzwelo noma okokusebenza okungahambi kahle emqondweni womuntu onalezi zinhlobo zamaphupho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingabuye ihunyushwe njengokubonakaliswa kwesici sobuntu; Lapho lapho ubhekene nezinkinga noma izimo ezahlukahlukene okuhlangatshezwana nazo, ukuphelelwa yithemba nokukhala kuvame ukwenziwa, njengoba kwenza izingane ezincane.
Phupha ngengane esanda kuzalwa
Ukufika kwempilo entsha kuleli zwe ngokuvamile kubangela injabulo. Kodwa-ke, ngombono ongokoqobo, izingane zivela endaweni ephelele (esizalweni sikanina), lapho zazinezimo ezifanele esigabeni sokuqala sokukhula kwazo, futhi kufanele zibhekane nendawo entsha. Ebhekene nezinguquko eziyinkimbinkimbi, ikakhulukazi lezo lapho sisuka enhlalakahleni nasekuzoliseni, siye ezinxushunxushwini. Labo abakuqonda ukuzalwa ngale ndlela bangaphupha ngengane esanda kuzalwa.
Njengoba sekushiwo, izingane ngokuvamile zamukelekile kakhulu, futhi zisebenza njengesikhuthazo sokubhekana nokuvuthwa; zihleleke ngokwengeziwe futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzwelana ngokwengeziwe nabanye abantu. Ukuba ne- amaphupho nezinsana Kungabuye kuhunyushwe njengesidingo sokuzinza, ukuguqula indlela yokuphila noma isifiso sokuqala umndeni.
Ekugcineni, ukuvela kwala maphupho kungahle kube ngenxa yokusondelana nabangane noma amalungu omndeni asanda kuqala njengabazali; noma futhi ngaphambi kokukhumbula ubuntwana noma ukuzalwa komfowenu. Futhi ngenxa yokufunda okuthile noma ifilimu lapho kugcizelelwe noma kwashiwo khona.
Ngiphuphe ingane ezandleni zami
Izinyanga zokuqala neminyaka yokuphila kuqukethe izigaba zobumsulwa obukhulu kumuntu. Njengoba sikhula, ulwazi oluthile nolwazi lutholwa ngokuya ngezimo ezahlukahlukene esidlula kuzo. Abaningi balahla ubumsulwa babo ngokuphelele, ukuze bathuthukise intuthuko yabo ngempilo; kuyilapho abanye benza konke okusemandleni abo ukungakuvumeli. Zombili izindlela zokubona impilo nazo zingadala lezi zinhlobo zamaphupho.
Okushiwo phupha ingane ezandleni zakho Kungasondelana kakhulu nesidingo noma isifiso sokugcina izindinganiso, izimiso, noma ubumsulwa. Ingabuye ihunyushwe njengesidingo sikamama, noma isici sokuvikela esinezimpande ezijulile ebuntwini bomuntu lowo.
Ezinye izincazelo zamaphupho afaka umntwana
Kunokuhlukahluka okuningi kwamaphupho lapho ingane ingabonwa khona; njengalezo ozozibona ngezansi. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yenani elikhulu lamaphupho angaba khona, sizokhuluma ngamagama ambalwa ukuwagcwalisa.
- Ukuphupha ingane yomfana: Leli phupho livame ukuhlotshaniswa nokungazethembi nezinkinga eziveza imizwa noma imizwa.
- Ukuthi nginengane: Uma unengane emaphusheni akho, imvamisa ukwesaba ukuba ngumama noma ubaba.
- Phupha ngengane yentombazane: kuleli cala itolikwa njenge-naivety, yize ibuye ibangelwe ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene.
- Ingane elahliwe: kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe ulahliwe noma ulahle umuntu. Kubandakanya nezinkinga zobuntwana ongase ungazikhumbuli.
Siyethemba ukuthi izincazelo ezibonisiwe zisizile kuwe ukuthi uqonde ukuthi iphupho lakho belimayelana nani. Uma uke waba nephupho elihlukile kulabo okukhulunywe ngabo kulo lonke i-athikili, sikumema ukuthi ushiye amazwana ngokuhluka kwakho ukukusiza ukuhumushe ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
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