Abantu babonakala benekhono lokuzibekela imigomo, kepha asihlangani nayo njalo. Kukangaki uzibekele imigomo kodwa wangakwazi ukuyifinyelela ngoba ulahlekelwe yisisusa endleleni? Kulula kakhulu ukuzibekela imigomo kunokuyifeza. Konke kuya ngesisusa.
Kufanele sithembeke: abantu banezinkinga ezinkulu zokuhlala bekhuthazekile ezintweni esizenzayo. Kulula kakhulu ukuhlala ucabange ngezinto esizokwenza bese ungazenzi.
Ukusigcina sikhuthazekile, kwesinye isikhathi sidinga usizo oluvela ngaphandle. Kungakho-ke sizoxoxa ngezindlela ezithile zokuqhubekisela phambili izinhloso zakho ngokufunda ukuthi ungazikhuthaza kanjani. Asisho ukuthi kuzoba lula, futhi Asisho ukuthi kuzoshesha. Kepha sizimisele ukubheja ukuthi kuzokufanele. Nokwaneliseka okulethwa ukufeza eyodwa yezinhloso? Kwanele ukusigcina sithatha izinyathelo ezincane zibheke kukho konke okunye ohlwini.
Thola ukuthi kungani
Ukugcina umbono wezinto ofuna ukuzizuza, udinga ukubhala phansi ezinye izizathu zokuthi kungani ufuna ukufeza leyo nhloso (njengokulingana). Yize lokho kungazwakala kusobala, yisho izinto ezithile ofuna ukuzizuza, Njengokufika esitezi sesithathu ngaphandle kokuhefuzela, ukulala kangcono noma ukwehlisa ukudla okungenamsoco kuzokwenza kube lula ukulandelela inqubekelaphambili yakho futhi kukukhuthaze, kunokuba uhlose inhloso engabonakali efana nokuthi "Yiba nempilo" kungcono ukuba ukhonkolo ngokwengeziwe.
Udinga kuphela imizuzwana eyi-10
Isici esimangazayo sabantu ukuthi sizimisele kangakanani ukuhlala singenelisekile ngezimpilo zethu. Unombono omangalisayo oguqula impilo… bese ucabanga ngezizathu eziyi-100 ezahlukahlukene zokuthi kungani ungafanele ukwenze. Manje cabanga impilo lapho ngamunye wale mibono emangalisayo iba ngokoqobo.
Ungalandela umthetho wemizuzwana eyi-10: "Uma unesifiso sokusebenza kulokho okubhekiswe kukho, kufanele unyakaze ngaphakathi kwemizuzwana eyi-10 kungenjalo ubuchopho bakho buzoshayeka." Ekuqaleni, umzimba wakho uzonda isenzo, kepha uthola imiphumela. Ngokuzayo lapho unombono noma umuzwa wemvelo, bala uye eshumini bese wenza okuthile. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubhala lo mbono nje, kepha kufanele unamathisele ukunyakaza komzimba ekuthonyeni kwengqondo ... Isibonelo, qala ingxoxo nothile.
Yiba nohlu lwezinto ezikwenza umomotheke
Ake sithi awazi kahle ukuthi ufunani. Uma wazi nje ukuthi ufuna ukuqala ukuphila kangcono, gcina uhlu lwezikhathi ezikwenza umomotheke. Ungabhala ngesandla encwadini noma kuhlelo lwakho lokusebenza lwamanothi weselula. Ungabhala kuphela izinto ezikuthokozisayo, ezikuthokozisayo, ezikwenza uhleke kakhulu, ukhetha lokho ofuna ukukubhala. Cabanga ngalokho okukujabulisa.
Okwesikhashana, ngangimane ngibhale izikhathi osukwini lwami ezazingijabulisa ngempela, zangijabulisa, futhi zangifaka lapho ngikhona manje. " Uma ungaqiniseki ngokuphelele ukuthi umdlalo wakho wokuphela uyini, zama ukulandelela ukuthi yini ekujabulisa.
Ezinsukwini lapho kufanele wenze okuthile okungakugqugquzeli kakhulu kepha kufanele ukwenze, bheka lolu hlu bese ukhetha omunye waleyo misebenzi oyibhalile. Yenza okufanele ukwenze noma ngabe uzizwa ungathandi futhi bese ukhuthazeka futhi uklomelise umzamo wakho ngokwenza ezinye zalezo zinto ezikuthokozisayo.
Thatha okugeza okushukumisayo
Lapho usebenzela ukufinyelela umgomo, kulula ukubanjwa yisicefe sokufinyelela leyo njongo. Uqala ukusebenza kanzima futhi kanzima futhi usondele, usondela kakhudlwana kulelo phupho… futhi ngaphambi kokuthi wazi, usulahlekelwe ukubona ukuthi yayiyini inhloso yakho kwasekuqaleni. Unokulahlekelwa yisisusa, unciphise ukucindezeleka okukhulu, usike ukuqeda ukukhathala komuntu siqu.
Ukuze unqobe noma isiphi isimo esingesihle nokuthi ugqozi lwakho lungalahleki endleleni, kuyadingeka ukuthi "ugeze" njalo ezintweni ezikukhuthazayo. Kanjani? Dala ibhodi lakho lokubona ngamehlo ukufeza lokho obukuhlelile empilweni futhi ungakubona noma kunini lapho ufuna khona.
Ibhodi yokubonisa iqoqo lezitatimende, izithombe, nezingcaphuno ozigcina ngokugqamile ekhaya lakho ukuze ukwazi ukuzibona noma nini lapho uzidinga khona. Kufanele ubheke leli bhodi nsuku zonke ukuze uzikhumbuze njalo ukuthi kungani wenza lokhu okwenzayo.
Thuthukisa ukubonga
Okwamanje lapho sivula amehlo ethu, siyakwazi konke okufanele sikwenze ngalolo suku. Ukuze uzigcine ukhuthazekile, maka izinto ezimbalwa ozibongayo usalele.
Lapho siphaphama, sivame ukusindwa yilokho okumele sikwenze nokuthi yini okufanele siyilungise, futhi ukugxila kwethu kuba yilokho. Ngemuva kwalokho, Ukushintsha lowo mcabango ngokushesha, ukubona nje okuhle, kukubeka engqondweni engcono yokubhekana nosuku.
Qala kancane
Yonke ingcweti esikhulume nayo sincoma ukusungula isisekelo sokuthi iqiniso lakho liyini ukuze ukhombe enqubekweni ongayenza empeleni. Ngokwesibonelo, Angisho ukuthi vuka ngo-6 ekuseni lapho uzonda ekuseni ... Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukusetha i-alamu yakho imizuzu eyi-15 ngaphambi kokuthi uvuke, uthathe uhambo olufushane nsuku zonke, noma ungeze imifino entsha esidlweni sakho sakusihlwa. Slow and steady… uwina umjaho.
Sebenzisa isibali sikhathi
Lona umdlalo omncane wobuchopho esiwuthanda kakhulu. Setha isibali sikhathi imizuzu engama-30 bese wenza noma yini okugwemayo, ngejubane eliphezulu. Akunandaba noma yini, hlala kude nalowo msebenzi. Kungcono ukuthulisa ifoni yakho ukuze ungaphazanyiswa.
Lapho isibali sikhathi sihamba, thatha ikhefu lemizuzu eyi-10 wenze noma yini oyifunayo. Asinandaba, vele ukuthole kahle. Lapho-ke leyo mizuzu eyi-10 isiphelile, yenze futhi. Qhubeka usebenza imizuzu engama-30 bese kuphumula imizuzu eyi-10, Kuze kube uqeda noma yini oyenzayo
Ngalezi zeluleko zokuhlala ukhuthazekile futhi usebenza ngempela, ungenza noma yini ngomdlandla ongaphezulu ... Yize isinyathelo sokuqala sifuna ukukwenza, ngabe uzokwazi? Yebo kunjalo!