Bonke abantu babone iziphrofetho ezizigcwalisayo ezimpilweni zabo, ezimeni eziningi kakhulu, abakaze babone noma bengazi ukuthi kwakumayelana nani ngempela. Isibonelo, ake ucabange ukuthi unengxoxo nomsebenzi, futhi ungaqagela ukuthi uzothola isikhundla ngenxa yokuzethemba okugcwele onakho kuwe. Ngenxa yalokhu, wenza ingxoxo enhle futhi uthole isikhundla.
Kepha lesi simo esifanayo singaguqulwa: ungaqagela ukuthi ngeke kukuhambele kahle ngenxa yokungazethembi kwakho, wenza inhlolokhono kabi bakunikeze lowo msebenzi.
Kungenzeka futhi kuwe ukuthi ngolunye usuku uzizwe ungaphumi bese ucabanga ukuthi kukhona okubi okuzokwenzeka uma ukwenzile, bese kwenzeka kanjalo, ekugcineni uba nesikhathi esinzima futhi uvele ufuna ukufika ekhaya bese phumula wedwa. Lokhu 'kubikezela' akusho ukuthi unamandla we-clairvoyance, kude nakho, kumane nje kuyiziprofetho ezizigcwalisayo, kodwa… ziyini ngempela futhi kungani zenzeka?
Siyini isiprofetho esizigcwalisayo
Isiphrofetho esizigcwalisayo ukuqagela okungamanga kwesimo esiguqula ngokungaziphathi isimilo somuntu nesimo sakhe sengqondo okwenza lokho 'ukubikezela' kugcwaliseke. Lapho ucabanga ngomphumela, isimilo siyalingiswa nezenzo zokufika kulowo mphumela oqondile, yize bekungeke kube njalo.
Igama elithi "ukugcwalisa isiprofetho" laqanjwa usosayensi wezenhlalo uRobert K. Merton ngo-1948. Ngakho-ke, isiprofetho esizigcwalisayo sibhekisa enkolelweni noma kulindelo umuntu analo ngomcimbi wesikhathi esizayo obonakala ngoba lowo muntu uwuphethe (Kuhle Ukwelashwa, 2015). Isibonelo, uma kusasa ekuseni futhi ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo uvuka ucabanga ukuthi usuku lwakho luzoba ngolwesabekayo, cishe luyoba njalo. Ngokungazi uzoziphatha ngendlela ezoqinisa inkolelo yakho, uzokushaya indiva okuhle okwenzeka kuwe futhi uzokhulisa konke okubi ... uzoba nesimo sengqondo esingeke sikuvumele ukuba ube nosuku olujabulisayo.
Umthelela wezinkolelo zethu
Njengamanje, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithole ubufakazi obuqinile bomthelela okhona ezinkolelweni nasekulindeleni kwethu ngemiphumela esiyitholayo, ikakhulukazi lapho siqiniseka ukuthi ukubikezela kwethu kuzobonakaliswa, noma ngabe kungaziwa ngokwazi ukuthi lokhu kulindela kugcinwa nokuthi ukukugcina kubeka ezenzweni zethu.
Isibonelo esivame ukuqondwa kahle sesiprofetho esizigcwalisayo kwi-psychology yilokho okwaziwa njengomphumela we-placebo. Lo mphumela ubhekisa ekuthuthukisweni kwemiphumela elinganiswe ngisho nalapho abahlanganyeli bengatholi ukwelashwa okubalulekile, okubangelwa yinkolelo yabahlanganyeli ekusebenzeni 'kokwelashwa' abakutholile.
Lo mphumela watholakala ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwemitholampilo yokwelashwa, futhi kungenzeka uqine kangangokuba kwasungulwa izinyathelo ezintsha zokuchaza umthelela wazo ekutholeni kocwaningo. Ukuhlolwa komphumela we-placebo kukhombisile ukuthi inkolelo yomuntu inamandla angempela ngemiphumela ayitholayo.
Umqondo wesiprofetho sokuzifeza uhlobene eduze nokucabanga okuhle nokubi namandla engqondo yomuntu. Isebenza ngokusekelwe enkolelweni elula: indlela esicabanga ngayo inomthelela ekuziphatheni kwethu nasezenzweni zethu (ngokuya ngalokho esikucabangayo) okugcina kuthinte ukusebenza kwethu. Ngamagama alula, lo mbono usebenza ekukholweni ukuthi izinhlobo zemicabango esiyifaka ezingqondweni zethu (ezingezinhle noma ezinhle) zizosithonya ukuthi sikwenze lokho ngokuthonya imizamo yethu nokuziphatha futhi ekugcineni senze ukubikezela kufezeke.
Izibonelo ezaziwayo zeziphrofetho ezizigcwalisayo
Umlando we-Oedipus complex
Indaba yendaba ye-Oedipus ihlangana ngani nesiprofetho sokuzigcwalisa? Ngaphezu kwalokho ongakucabanga. Kule ndaba edumile yamaGrikhi, ubaba ka-Oedipus, uLaius, uxwayiswa ukuthi ngelinye ilanga indodana yakhe izombulala. Ukuvimbela lokho kungenzeki, ushiya indodana yakhe ayidedele ife. Kodwa watholakala futhi wakhuliswa yizithandani futhi wacabanga ukuthi bangabazali bakhe bangempela. Usuku olulodwa, U-Oedipus naye uthola isexwayiso: uzobulala ubaba wakhe ashade nonina ongumfelokazi.
U-Oedipus, ecabanga ukuthi abazali bakhe abamtholayo yibo bangempela futhi akafuni ukuthi leli bhadi lenzeke, ushiya ikhaya lakhe nabazali bakhe bokutholwa bese eya edolobheni. Lapho, uhlangana nomuntu bese egcina elwa naye. U-Oedipus ubulala le ndoda engajwayelekile futhi, ngenxa yezimo, ushada nomfelokazi, owayengunina empeleni. Lapho umama ethola ukuthi yindodana yakhe, uyazibulala futhi u-Oedipus ususa amehlo akhe kukho konke okwenzekile futhi ugcine ezulazula emigwaqweni yaseGrisi.
Bobabili uLaius no-Oedipus baqinisekise ukuthi lesi siprofetho siyabonakala, basenza isiprofetho esizigcwalisayo.
UHarry Potter kanye ne-Star Wars
Lo mqondo walukwa njengomqondo oyisisekelo kumafilimu amaningi. Izibonelo ezidume kakhulu nguLord Voldemort ochungechungeni lukaHarry Potter noDarth Vader ochungechungeni lweStar Wars. Ngalesi sikhathi, uma uwazi womabili amafilimu, ungahle uqale ukuhlanganisa ukuthi kungani siphawula ngalokhu.
Bobabili batshelwa ukuthi bazonqotshwa futhi ukugwema lokhu babezimisele ngokucekela phansi abantu abathintekile. Kodwa-ke, kwakuyimizamo yakhe yokucekela phansi abantu eyadala izimo lapho umlingiswa ovelele aqhamuka khona wabahlula, okwenza lesi siprofetho sibe yiqiniso.
Isiphrofetho esizigcwalisayo ngakho-ke singamandla amakhulu kakhulu engqondo nezenzo zethu. Kuyadingeka ukuthi wazi ukuthi sikwazi ukuyisebenzisela thina futhi esikhundleni sokugxila ezimweni ezingezinhle ezimpilweni zethu, kungcono ukugxila ezintweni ezinhle futhi ngokuziphatha noma ngokungaziphathi kokuziphatha ukuze sikufinyelele. Ngale ndlela futhi cishe ngaphandle kokukuqaphela, uzokwazi ukujabulela impilo ephelele futhi eqaphele kakhudlwana.