Ungabhekana kanjani nobuhlungu nokuhlupheka

«Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi yini esemqondweni womuntu ogxuma esuka esitezi esingu-30 noma 40 futhi owaziyo ukuthi ngeke asinde.

Kuyinhlanganisela yokwethuka futhi kuyinhlanganisela yokungabi nalusizo: ukwazi ukuthi akukho esingakwenza. Kungukukhetha phakathi kokufa uwele esikhaleni noma ukufa ushile emlilweni ozayo. "

Ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka ngoSepthemba 11

ULuis Rojas Marcos Bengilapho. Lo Sevillian ngokuzalwa ngaleso sikhathi wayengumqondisi wezibhedlela zomphakathi eNew York. Ngangizohambela umhlangano kwenye yeTwin Towers. Ngemuva kokuphahlazeka kwendiza yokuqala, ithuba lamenza ukuthi ahlangane nomshayeli womlilo.

Udokotela wezifo zengqondo wayefuna ukushayela ngeselula sakhe futhi ngabona ukuthi ayisebenzi. Omunye umtshele ukuthi akaye ocingweni lwasendlini oluseduze. Kwakungaleso sikhathi, lapho umbhoshongo uwa.

“Kamuva, ngithole ukuthi umphathi wezomlilo, ebengikanye naye, wayefile. Wayefile ngoba babekhona lapho ngangikhona, ngoba lapho umbhoshongo wokuqala wehla, wawela kuleyo ngxenye. Kwakunzima lokho.

Ukuqina ukumelana nobuhlungu nokuhlupheka.

Ithuba libaluleke kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu. Akekho umuntu osindisiwe noma ubuhlungu noma ukuhlupheka. Kepha yizenzo ezingumphumela wodlame lwabantu, ezisivivinya kakhulu ngokungabi nabulungisa kwabo. Ngenhlanhla, isifo sengqondo sithi iningi lethu lingalulama osizini. Lelo khono libizwa Ukuqina Futhi ukuxubana kwamandla nokuguquguquka.

Kodwa-ke, ososayensi bezenhlalo bathi umkhawulo wethu yizenzakalo ezi-2 ezihlukumezayo, akusekho.

“Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, kuyiqiniso ukuthi kunabantu okuthi uma bebhekene nesimo abasibona singenakwenzeka, banqume ukuphonsa ithawula. Kodwa-ke, namuhla siyazi ukuthi iningi labantu linakho lelo khono lokulingana, simelane futhi sibuyise isimo esedlule esasinaso.

Yize kwaziwa lokho ukuhlupheka akukuhle kunoma ngubani. Kukhona ithuba lokuthola ukukhula okukhulu kwangaphakathi lapho ubhekene nobuhlungu obukhulu.

“Kuneqembu labantu elibhekana nezinkinga ezimbi ezake zanqoba bathi bathola izici ababengazi ukuthi banazo. Bazizwa benamandla kunalokho ababecabanga ukuthi banakho. Abanye bathuthukisa ubudlelwano babo nabanye, abanye bakutshele ukuthi bayakwazi ukuhlukanisa okubalulekile kokungabalulekile nokuthi baqala ukujabulela izici zempilo ebezingabaniki ukubaluleka kwazo phambilini. "

ULuis Rojas Marcos

Khona manje, ULuis Rojas Marcos unguprofesa wezifo zengqondo eNew York University futhi uyilungu lomkhandlu elibhekele ukufundisa ngokunakekela okunciphisayo. Enye yezinsika zokuqina ukuthola izizathu zokuphila.

«Uma nje ngikwazi ukuzwana nabantu abangithandayo futhi engibathandayo, inqobo nje uma ngingasebenzisa ulwazi lwami ukusiza (ngoba ngenkathi uzisiza, uyazisiza), Ngizoba nezizathu zokuphila. Bese kuba khona ukwesaba ukufa. Umqondo wokushiya lo mhlaba, angihlekisiwe.

Enye yezinto engizifundile ngomhlaka 11/XNUMX ukuthi angizigubhi izinsuku zokuzalwa. Ngigubha usuku lokuzalwa ngoba nganoma yisiphi isikhathi singabhekana nesimo esingenakwenzeka. Ngiyigubha nsuku zonke. Nsuku zonke kufanele sibe nekhekhe nekhandlela bese sigubha lolu suku. "

Usuku olujabulisayo.


Shiya umbono wakho

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.