Ukubhekana nobunzima obukhona akuthokozisi kunoma ngubani ngoba ungazizwa ukuthi konke kudilika ezinyaweni zakho ... Yize empeleni, umane nje ubeka yonke into endaweni yayo. Inkinga ekhona yaziwa nangokuthi ukukhathazeka okukhona yize umqondo ufana: impilo izizwa ingenamsebenzi. Kuzwakala sengathi ukuba khona akunayo incazelo, akukho mingcele ... Siyazi ukuthi sonke sizokufa ngolunye usuku ngakho-ke, iyini injongo yokuphila?
Ukukhathazeka noma ubunzima obukhona buvame ukuvela ngesikhathi soshintsho futhi kukhombise ubunzima ekulungiseni, okuvame ukuhlobene nokulahleka kokuphepha. Isibonelo, umfundi wasekolishi ohambisa indlu noma umuntu omdala odabula isehlukaniso esinzima angazizwa sengathi isisekelo impilo yabo eyakhelwe kuso siyabhidlika. Lokhu kungaholela ekubuzeni incazelo yokuphila.
Kuma-existentialists, inkinga ekhona ibhekwa njengohambo, ukwazi, isipiliyoni esidingekayo, nesimo esiyinkimbinkimbi. Kuvela ekwazisweni kwenkululeko yakho nokuthi impilo izophela kanjani kuwe ngelinye ilanga.
Izingozi ezingadala inkinga ekhona
Inkinga ekhona ivame ukwenzeka ngemuva kwemicimbi ethile yokuphila, kufaka phakathi:
- Ukuxilongwa kwesifo esibi noma esisongela impilo.
- Faka isigaba sobudala esibalulekile, esifana no-40, 50, noma u-65
- Ukuhlangabezana nesipiliyoni esibuhlungu noma esibuhlungu.
- Umsebenzi noma ushintsho lomsebenzi
- Umshado noma isehlukaniso
- Yiba nezingane
- Ukufa kothandekayo
Abantu abanezimo ezilandelayo zempilo yengqondo nabo bangahle bathambekele ekubeni nenkinga ekhona; noma lezi zinkinga zingabangeli inkinga ekhona:
- Ukukhathazeka
- Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu bomngcele
- Ukudana
- Ukuphazamiseka kokucindezela okubonakalayo
Wazi kanjani ukuthi unenkinga ekhona?
Ukwazi ukuthi ngabe unenkinga ekhona noma cha, kufanele wazi ukuthi kunezinye izimpawu ezingakusiza ukuthi uyithole. Ngesikhathi senhlekelele ekhona, ungahlangabezana nezimpawu ezahlukahlukene, kufaka phakathi:
- Ukukhathazeka
- Ukudana
- Soledad
- Ukukhathazeka ngokweqile
- Ngizizwe ngicindezelwe
- Ukuntuleka kwesisusa namandla.
- Ukuhlukaniswa nabangane nabathandekayo
Izinhlobo zezinkinga ezikhona
Inkinga ekhona yigama elijwayelekile, elingasetshenziswa ukuqoqa izinhlobo eziningi zezinkinga ezingadala ukuthi umuntu abe nenkinga ekhona.
Ukwesaba nokuzibophezela
I-Existentialism igcizelela ukuthi sonke sikhululekile ukwenza izinqumo empilweni, futhi ngale nkululeko yokwenza izinqumo iza nomsebenzi. Kodwa-ke, unikezwe indawo yokugcina yokufa, izenzo zakho zingabonakala zingenamsebenzi uma zibhekwa maqondana nesithombe esikhulu sempilo yakho.
Ngale ndlela, inkululeko iholela ekuphelelweni yithemba, futhi umthwalo wale nkululeko ubangela ukukhathazeka. Kukangaki ulwa nesinqumo futhi wesaba ukuthi bekungafanele? Lokho kwesaba ukwenza isinqumo esingalungile kukhombisa ukukhathazeka ngenkululeko ehlobene nokukhathazeka okukhona.
Izazi ezikhona zikholelwa ukuthi sinakho lokhu kukhathazeka noma usizi ngoba ayikho indlela "elungile" futhi akukho mhlahlandlela wokusitshela okufanele sikwenze. Ngamafuphi, ngamunye wethu kumele abe nengqondo ngempilo yakhe. Uma lo mthwalo uzizwa umkhulu kakhulu, singabuyela emuva ezinhlotsheni zokuziphatha ezisivikelayo kulo muzwa wokukhathazeka.
Injongo yokuphila
Uma ulwa nokukhathazeka okukhona, ungazibuza, "Yini iphuzu lokuphila?" Njengoba uhamba phakathi nezinguquko empilweni yakho futhi ulahlekelwa ukuphepha komongo ojwayelekile nesakhiwo, ungabuza iphuzu lempilo, uma ekugcineni, umphumela uba ukuthi uyafa. Kungani wenza izinto?
Amandla okuba nentshisekelo yalokho okungathathwa njengokungenangqondo impilo akhombisa ukwazisa ngempilo uqobo. Uma ungayeka ukuzama ukuphilela ukuphela, noma "umgomo," bese uqala ukuze uphile ngesenzo sokuba "uqobo" uqobo, lapho-ke uzoqala ukuphila impilo yakho ngokuphelele.
Ubuqiniso
Inkinga ekhona ingakuholela ebuqinisweni, okuzokulethela nokukhathazeka. Ungaba nemicabango ngokudlula kwesikhathi sobukhona bakho nokuthi uphila kanjani. Lapho uyeka ukucabanga ukuthi uzovuka uphila nsuku zonke, ungahle ube nokukhathazeka, kepha ngasikhathi sinye uzothola incazelo ejulile kuyo yonke into.
Ungaqaphela ukuthi zonke izinkinga zemihla ngemihla ezikukhathaza kakhulu azisabonakali zibalulekile, nayo yonke imicabango, Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka ngokujwayelekile kuyanyamalala, ngoba ubhekene nenkinga enkulu kakhulu. Ekupheleni kwempilo yakho, ngabe kukhona kwalolu daba? Ngabe kunendaba ukuthi ukhethe muphi umsebenzi, unemali engakanani, noma ushayela yiphi imoto?
Isigaba sempilo
Abantu abaningi babhekana nenkinga ekhona lapho bedlulela esizukulwaneni esisha: kusuka ebuntwaneni kuya ekubeni ngabantu abadala noma kusukela ebudaleni kuya empilweni yobudala. Izenzakalo ezibalulekile zokuphila, kufaka phakathi iziqu, ukuqala umsebenzi omusha noma ushintsho lomsebenzi, ukushada noma ukuhlukanisa, ukuba nezingane nokuthatha umhlalaphansi, nakho kungadala inkinga ekhona.
Ukufa nokugula
Ukulahlekelwa ngumlingani, umzali, umfowethu, ingane, noma omunye othandekayo kuvame ukuphoqa abantu ukuthi babhekane nokufa kwabo futhi babuze injongo yokuphila kwabo. Ngokufanayo, uma ubhekene nokugula okubi noma okusongela impilo, Ungaba nobunzima obukhona obukucindezela ngemicabango yokufa nenjongo yokuphila.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ubhekene nobunzima obukhona kodwa ungazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nakho noma ucabanga ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukukunqoba, funa ukwesekwa ngokushesha. Ukudlula enkingeni ekhona kuvame kakhulu kunendlela ocabanga ngayo futhi akudingeki nokuthi ubhekane nayo wedwa.
Ungafuna ukusekelwa emndenini nakubangane, kepha uma ubona kunesidingo, funa usizo kochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo ukuze uthole ukuholwa kulokho ongakwenza ukubuyisa ibhalansi yangaphakathi. Ngale ndlela uzophinda futhi uyazise impilo onayo futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzoba nguwe futhi. Sinempilo eyodwa kuphela futhi kubalulekile ukukuphila ngokubonga ithuba lokuba nguwe nsuku zonke lapho ukhona.