Ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo bebukhona kwezinye zezikhathi ezinhle kakhulu emlandweni wesintu. Lapho uMartin Luther King ethula iphupho lakhe, wakhetha ulimi olwashukumisa izinhliziyo zezilaleli zakhe. Umlayezo onjalo ovusa amandla udinga ukwazi ukubona, ukuqonda, nokuphatha imizwa. UMartin Luther King ukhombise ikhono elimangalisayo ekulawuleni imizwa yakhe futhi wakwazi ukujabulisa izilaleli zakhe.
Omunye wabaholi ababenethonya elikhulu ngekhulu lama-20 wabona amandla emizwa futhi wafunda ngemiphumela yemizwa yolimi lomzimba wakhe. Lokhu kwamvumela ukuthi abe yisikhulumi sasobala esithakazelisa ngokuphelele. Igama lakhe kwakungu Adolf Hitler.
Kusukela kushicilelwa kakhulu ngonyaka ka 1995 Ubuhlakani Bomzwelo NguDaniel Goleman, lesi sici esingokomzwelo sobuhlakani sibukwe ngosopolitiki kanye nothisha njengesixazululo sezinkinga ezahlukahlukene zenhlalo. Uma singafundisa izingane zethu ukuphatha imizwa bazoba nenhlalakahle enkulu ngokomzwelo. Uma sikwazi ukuhlakulela ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo phakathi kwabaholi nodokotela, sizoba nomphakathi onakekelayo nokunakekelwa kwezempilo okunesihawu.
Ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo kubalulekile kepha kunohlangothi olumnyama. Lapho abantu bethuthukisa amakhono abo angokomzwelo, baba nekhono lokukhohlisa abanye. Uma ukwazi ukulawula imizwa yakho, ungafihla imizwa yakho yangempela. Lapho wazi ukuthi abanye bazizwa kanjani, ungadonsa izinhliziyo zabo futhi ubakhuthaze ukuba benze okuphikisana nezinjongo zabo.
Ososayensi bezenhlalakahle sebeqalile ukubhala lolu hlangothi olumnyama lokuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo. Uphenyo kukhombisile ukuthi lapho umholi enikeza inkulumo ethinta imizwa, izethameli bezikhumbula okuncane kokuqukethwe kwenkulumo. Ababhali bakubiza kanjalo umphumela wesimanga ('umphumela omangele').
Ukunxenxa kukaHitler kwakususelwa ekhonweni lakhe lamasu okudabula izinhliziyo zezilaleli zakhe futhi wachitha noma yiluphi uhlobo lokucabanga okugxekayo ngokumelene nenkulumo yakhe.
Abaholi ababusa imizwa bangasiphuca amandla ethu okucabanga. Uma izindinganiso zabo zingahambisani nezethu, imiphumela ingaba mibi kakhulu. Lapho abantu benezisusa zobugovu, ukuhlakanipha kwemizwa kuba yisikhali sokukhohlisa abanye.
Vele, abantu abahlali basebenzise ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo ngezinjongo ezimbi. Basebenzisa amakhono abo angokomzwelo njengamathuluzi wokufeza izinhloso. Le ngxenye enhle yokuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo yilokho okufanele kufundiswe ezikoleni ngendlela elawulwayo.
I-athikili ethokozisayo, ngisho nangokwengeziwe umqondo wokuyethula njengesifundo ezikoleni, ngalokhu sizoba nezizukulwane ezizayo ezinokuqina, zijabule futhi ziqiniseke ukuthi zihamba endleleni ezozilethela ukwaneliseka komuntu siqu nobuchwepheshe.