Ungaba mkhulu kanjani empilweni

Lo mbhalo uchaza izici zokuba yiqhawe.

Sikhuluma ngobuqhawe. Ubukhulu. Lokho okukhethekile okuthola ukunconywa, ukukhulekelwa, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho ubuso bakho esitembu sokuposa.

Amaqhawe angabonakala ephelelwe yisikhathi kulesi sikhathi sokungathembeki lapho kubonakala sengathi sikujabulela ukubhubhisa izithombe.

Sidinga amaqhawe Sengathi bangasifundisa, basithumbe ngamazwi nangezenzo zabo, basikhuthaze sibe ngabakhulu. Ngamunye wethu - thina uqobo, abangane bethu, ngisho nezingane zethu - unekhono lobuqhawe. Futhi kuningi esingakwenza ukuthuthukisa lobo bukhulu obungasetshenziswanga.

Isithombe seqhawe

Noma amaqhawe ethu ehlukile, sonke siba nombono ofanayo wokuthi iqhawe liyini. E-University University, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo UFrank farley uqoqe izici zobuntu okufanele iqhawe libe nazo.

UFarley ukholelwa ukuthi bachaza ingqikithi yobuqhawe. Akuwona wonke amaqhawe anakho konke. Kepha lapho unakho okuningi, kungcono. Ngakho-ke uma ufuna ubukhulu, kungaba kuwe noma ezinganeni zakho, kungakuhle uhlakulele lezi zici zobuntu:

1) Isibindi namandla: iqhawe alilona igwala noma idelakufa. Amaqhawe agcina ukuzinza kwawo - futhi achuma - ebunzimeni.

2) Ukwethembeka: ukukhohlisa kwephula umqondo wethu wobuqhawe.

3) Unomusa, unothando, unomusa: Amadoda amakhulu angakulwela kanzima lokho akholelwa kukho, kepha anesihawu uma impi isiphelile - ebhekise kumngani nezitha ngokufanayo. UGeneral George S. Patton wayeyindoda yezempi ekhaliphile, kodwa isimo sakhe sobuqhawe sathinteka lapho eshaya obala elinye lamasosha akhe ebusweni. "Umphakathi waseMelika wavukela ngenxa yalokho," kusho uFarley. "Ubengenamusa emadodeni akhe." Yize abaningi bethathwa njengeqhawe ngabaningi, akazange abuye athandwe.

4) Ikhono, isipiliyoni, ubuhlakani: Kuze kube manje, iqhawe lethu le-archetypal linesibindi, linomusa, lithembekile - okungukuthi, lifana kakhulu neForrest Gump. Kepha iForrest isilela ngesilinganiso esisodwa: Impumelelo yeqhawe ingumphumela wethalente lakhe nobuhlakani bakhe. Akulona ithuba elimsulwa, yize, ngenxa yesizotha, iqhawe lingathi impumelelo yalo ibe yinhlanhla.

5) Ukucatshangelwa kwezingozi: "Yize abantu abaningi bengazibeki engcupheni empilweni yabo, bayakuthokozela ukuzifaka engcupheni komunye umuntu," kusho uFarley. Okuningi kocwaningo lwakhe kugxile kubuntu bohlobo lwe-T - ukulambela imizwa njalo. UFranklin Delano Roosevelt, ngokwesibonelo, wazibeka engcupheni enkulu yezepolitiki ngokuphonsela inselelo iqembu lakhe. UMartin Luther King Jr. wabeka impilo yakhe engcupheni ngenxa yezinjongo zakhe.

6) Okuthintekayo: ukunconywa akwenele, amaqhawe kufanele anqobe izinhliziyo nezingqondo zethu.