Ungakuhlehlisa kanjani ukukhiqiza?

Namuhla ngithanda ukuhlanganyela nawe isibonelo esikhombisa lokho ukubaluleka kwencazelo esiyinamathisela esimweni, ngaphandle komlingiswa ovame ukukhawulwa ngamanye amagama noma izincazelo. Ingqondo yethu inamandla amakhulu kangangokuba kuye ngesimo lapho sithatha isinqumo sokucabanga khona ngesimo esithile, umthelela ongokomzwelo wokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ungahluka cishe ngokweqile kuye kokunye. Futhi njengoba sazi, imizwa yethu inquma kakhulu indlela esiziphatha ngayo.

Namuhla, okubalulekayo ukusebenza kahle okuphezulu nokukhiqiza okutholakele ngezikhathi zokurekhoda. Ayikho ifilosofi noma ukugqolozela uvemvane ngefasitela. Sifuna isenzo esisheshayo nemiphumela. Ukuhlehlisa izinto, okungukuthi, isenzo sokuhlehlisa imisebenzi esalindile, ngakho-ke kubukwa ngeso elibi, ngabantu abavilaphayo ... futhi nanjengokungaziphathi kahle! Kepha okufanele uzibuze lokhu okulandelayo: Ngabe ukuzindela ngokwako uqobo yikhona okubangela ukungakhululeki noma incazelo esikunikeza kona? Ngoba okwenzekayo ukuthi ezimweni eziningi, sizizwa sinecala lokuhlehlisa izinto size sigcine sikhubazekile kulokho kukhathazeka, sicwile emicabangweni engemihle futhi singakwazi ukwenza lutho. Yilapho-ke lapho singena khona emjikelezweni ononya futhi simi ndawonye.

Ngakho-ke, umbono oqinile futhi ozijezisayo ungalimaza isithombe sethu futhi ugcine usidikibalisile futhi usicindezele. Esikhundleni salokho, ucwaningo lwakamuva lukhombisile ukuthi lapho ukukhuluma kwethu kukodwa kuthethelela ngethoni, ngokumangazayo sigcina sizizwa sinekhono futhi sikhiqiza kakhulu. Yebo kunjalo. Yini ekugqugquzela kakhulu? Crush wena nazo zonke izinto ukuthi kumele yenza futhi wenzani, futhi ikukhumbuze ukuthi awusebenzi kangako, awunamsebenzi futhi uyisidima kangakanani Noma ukutshela ukuthi mhlawumbe ingqondo yakho kanye / noma umzimba wakho ufuna ukukutshela into efana nokuthi udinga ikhefu ngokwesibonelo? Kungani ukuzinakekela kungathathwa njengesidingo esibalulekile nesisemthethweni? Ngezikhathi zamaGrikhi, izazi zefilosofi zazikuhlonipha ukuzindela. Yile ndlela imibono emihle eza ngayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubambezela akusisizi nje kuphela ekuthatheni izinqumo ezingcono kepha kusivulela nethuba lokuba sibe nobuciko.. Ugqozi alufiki lapho siphazamiseka njalo, kepha uma singenzi lutho futhi singaxhumana nathi. Eqinisweni, abaculi abaphumelele kakhulu bavamise ukudala ubuciko babo ngezikhathi zokwehla.

Ngakho-ke, ngokungafani nenkolelo evamile, isenzo sokuhlehlisa, uma siphathwa ngobuciko, singaba nezinzuzo ezimangazayo. Okusemqoka ukuhlehlisa izinto ngendlela ehlelekile.

Kubhalwe ngezansi Amathuba ayisishiyagalombili ukuhlehlisa kusinikeza:

  1. Iya ejimini. Ungalokothi ube nesikhathi sokuzivocavoca umzimba? Leli yithuba elihle. Futhi ungazikhohlisi ngokucabanga ukuthi uzinikeza ukunethezeka, kunalokho, kuyinto eza kuqala. Futhi noma ngabe kuyisigamu sehora, uzozizwa unamandla, ungacindezelekile futhi ukugxila kwakho kuzothuthuka ngokusobala ngemuva kwalokho.
  1. Hlanza futhi uqoqe igumbi lakho. Imfucumfucu amehlo akho ayibonayo ayibonisi imfuhlumfuhlu ekhanda lakho kuphela kodwa futhi angayondla. Uma ufuna ukucabanga kahle, ukuqala ngaphandle akuwona umqondo omubi.
  1. Hlela. Thatha ithuba lokwenza okuthile, uhlele amafolda akho, ukhokhe izikweletu zakho, njll. Futhi iqiniso lokubhala nokukhipha yonke into okufanele uyenze ephepheni lisiza kakhulu ukuyeka ukuzungeza amahlandla ayinkulungwane ekhanda lakho futhi kuzonciphisa ngokwengxenye umuzwa wokuntuleka kokulawula.
  1. Lungisa isidlo sasemini sangempela noma isidlo sakusihlwa. Ucwaningo luya ngokuya lukhombisa ukuthi esikudlayo akugcini nje ngokuba nomthelela onamandla empilweni yethu yomzimba kepha nasempilweni yethu yengqondo. Abanye baze bathi siyikho esikudlayo. Uma ngabe ubungadli kahle isikhashana, leli yithuba lokunakekela impilo yakho.
  1. Funda iphephandaba futhi ubambe okwenzekayo emhlabeni, noma funda i-athikili esihlokweni osithandayo. Akusoze kwaba ukuchitha isikhathi ukuzilimela.
  1. Lesi yisikhathi esihle soku bhala, shayela, noma "skype" nomndeni noma nabangane uke waba nokuthile okunganakwa muva nje. Noma kungabonakala kungaphuthumi, ukugcina nokugcina ubudlelwano obuhle kubaluleke kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu. Izikhathi ezijabulisa kakhulu esizikhumbulayo ezimpilweni zethu zivame ukuba, ezimeni eziningi, izikhathi ezabiwe nabanye ababalulekile.
  1. Futhi uma ukwazi uhlale nabo, wasebenzise ngokunenzuzo lo mcimbi. Ngeke sihlale sinethuba lokukwazi ukwenza njalo.
  1. Buka i-movie, idokhumentari noma ividiyo ehlobene nalokho okukuhlehlisayo.

por UJasmine murga


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  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
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  1.   UJorge Wong kusho

    Izindatshana ezinhle kakhulu. Halala. Ilukuluku nje. Bazenza kanjani izindatshana, noma iyiphi indlela yokukhetha nokuzithuthukisa?

    1.    UJasmine murga kusho

      Sawubona Jorge,

      Ngiyabonga! Kuya ngesimo. Ezinye izindatshana zivela olwazini lwami engiziqongelele eminyakeni edlule (izifundo, izincwadi, isipiliyoni, njll.), Ezinye ezivela ocwaningweni lwakamuva engizihumusha zisuka esiNgisini kanti ezinye ziyingxube. Lapho ngidonsa okuthile ekhasini lewebhu, kwenye indatshana, noma encwadini, umthombo uvela ekugcineni kwendatshana. Ngiyethemba ngiwuphendulile umbuzo wakho.

      Ukulawula,

      Jasmine