Ukubekezela kungenye yezimfanelo ezibaluleke kakhulu kumuntu. Ukuba nayo nokuyigcina kuzokusiza uhlangabezane nezinhloso eziningi ozibekela zona empilweni. Kuyisici sabantu esizokusiza uphumelele.
Uma ubekezela, uzoba nokuzimisela ukusebenza kanzima ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokukhathalela izithiyo ongase uhlangane nazo. Kuqukethe ukuphikelela nokuba nesimo sengqondo esiqinile sokwenza okuthile futhi ungapheli amandla.
Ukubekezela kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo
Ukubekezela kukumlingiswa wakho, kepha futhi kuyithuluzi elihle ongalisebenzisa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi empilweni yakho. Kuqukethe ukuphikelela kokwenzayo, noma ngabe ukuphi, ngoba uma ubekezela, uzophumelela ... nakanjani!
Kusiphelekezela selokhu sazalwa, kuphela ukuthi sikhohlwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngenxa yakhe ufunde ukuhamba, ukukhuluma, ukubhala noma ukufunda… futhi uphumelele kulokhu! Manje, kuyo yonke imikhakha yempilo yakho, Kufanele futhi ubekezele ukuthola imiphumela emihle.
Lapho ubekezela kokwenzayo, uzokwazi ukuzwa ukwaneliseka ngokufinyelela ezinhlosweni zakho, ukuzethemba kwakho kuzoqiniswa futhi uzokwazi ukuthi ngamasu akho namandla akho, uzokwazi ukufeza noma yini oyibekile ingqondo yakho empilweni.
Qhubeka uye phambili
Ukuze uphumelele ngokukhuthazela kuzodingeka ukuthi uqhubekele phambili… ngoba ukuze uphumelele kufanele uqhubekele phambili. Uyakhumbula lapho wafunda ukugibela ibhayisikili? Mhlawumbe kube nezikhathi lapho ubufuna ukuyeka khona futhi kubonakale kuyinto enzima kunazo zonke emhlabeni, kodwa ukwenzile wakwazi ukufunda! Manje, ngemuva kwemizamo eminingi, uyakwazi ukugibela ibhayisikili futhi lokho kuyisibonelo esicacile sokubekezela.
Ukuze uqhubeke uye phambili futhi uphikelele, okusemqoka ukuthatha izinyathelo ezincane zokuthola imiphumela emihle. Awufuni ukwenza yonke into ngosuku olulodwa noma uzame izinyathelo ezinkulu ngasikhathi sinye. Izimpumelelo ezincane zizoholela empumelelweni enkulu. Kufana nokwenza iphazili, udinga ukubeka izingcezu eziningi ezincane ukuze uthole umphumela omuhle wokugcina!
Ukubekezela kuthatha isikhathi, ulwazi nokubekezela. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho ungaqhubeka uthuthuke ezinhlosweni zakho futhi ujabulele uhambo. Ngoba ukufeza impumelelo kubalulekile ukuthi uthokozele indlela eholela kuyo. Uma ungakwenzi, lapho-ke ungazishiya phansi izinhloso zakho kusenesikhathi. Khumbula ukuthi uzowenza amaphutha futhi uzowenza amaphutha, kodwa lokho kuyingxenye yempumelelo… kufanele wenze amaphutha ukuze ufunde emaphutheni akho!
Ungaba kanjani umuntu ophikelelayo
Mhlawumbe, uqaphele ukuthi ukubekezela kuyabonakala ngokungabikho kwayo empilweni yakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi ungumuntu olahlekelwa yintshisekelo masinyane noma uziqhathanisa nabanye bese ungakhuthazeki ngokungatholi izinto ngendlela efanayo nabanye. Okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi ukuqhathanisa kunenzondo nokuthi ngakunye kunesilinganiso sako sokuziphendukela kwemvelo, awufuni ukufana nabanye! Yini enye, Uma uphelelwa yintshisekelo masinyane, kungenzeka ngoba lezo zinhloso azikufaneli ngendlela owawucabanga ngayo ekuqaleni.
Uma ufuna ukubekezela kakhulu kusukela manje ukufeza izinhloso zakho futhi ujabulele ukunambitheka kokunqoba futhi ukwazi ukugxila emgwaqeni ... Ungaphuthelwa yilezi zeluleko ezilandelayo zokukufeza. Uzokwazi ukuba nokubekezela okuningi kakhulu empilweni yakho kusukela manje kuqhubeke!
Yiba nethemba
Yize izinto zingahambi ngendlela yakho, ukugcina isimo sengqondo esihle kubalulekile ukuheha izinto ezinhle empilweni yakho. Uma ubhekene nezinselelo ezingalindelekile noma izinto nje azenzeki ngokushesha noma kalula njengoba ungathanda… kulungile futhi. Uma uhlala impilo ende, maningi amathuba okuthi ubone ukuthi izinto zingenzeka kanjani ngokuhlukile kunalokho obukulindele futhi kusasebenza. Yehlisa umoya futhi ugcine isimo sengqondo esinethemba.
Gcina umgomo engqondweni
Ukuze uphikelele, kumele wazi ukuthi kungani uphikelela. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ugcina umgomo ofuna ukuwufinyelela engqondweni yakho futhi uma kunesidingo, uwubhala phansi esiqeshini sephepha bese ukubheka nsuku zonke. Lokhu kuzohlwanyela imbewu yempumelelo engqondweni yakho futhi kugxilise ukunaka kwakho ezintweni ezizokusiza ufeze inhloso yakho. Qaphela ukuthi ufiselani ... ngoba kungagcwaliseka!
Sebenza kanzima
Uma uhlala kusofa futhi ulinde izinto ukuthi zize zodwa, vele ngeke zifike. Uma ufuna ukuzuza okuthile, kufanele uzame kanzima ukukufeza. Ungalindeli ukuthi abanye bafeze izinhloso zakho ngoba lapho-ke ngeke kube imigomo yakho noma uzozwa ukwaneliseka kokwenza izinto kahle.
Kuzofanele usebenze kanzima, uhlele ukuthi wenzeni nokuthi ungakwenza kanjani… Kuthatha amahora ayi-10.000 wokuzijwayeza ukuba nguchwepheshe. Umbuzo wakho uwukuthi: "Uzimisele ukusebenza malini?"
Lokho kukhathazeka akukuvimbi
Ukukhathazeka kungonakalisa inhloso yakho, ngakho ungavumeli ukukhathazeka kukunciphise ijubane. Bonke abantu bayakhathazeka futhi kujwayelekile futhi kunempilo. Icebo ukunciphisa isikhathi phakathi komcabango wakho wokuqala okhathazekile nesenzo sakho sokuqala ukuwuhlasela.
Khumbula, ukukhathazeka kwakho okuningi kusekelwe ezinkingeni ezisengqondweni yakho, hhayi ngokoqobo. UMark Twain wake wathi: “Ngibhekane nezinhlekelele eziningi empilweni yami. Iningi lazo alikaze lenzeke ”.
Uma uthatha isinyathelo esisodwa emuva, bese uthatha ezimbili phambili
Ukuthuthuka kunezikhathi lapho kufanele ubuyele emuva kuqala. Uma ubuyela emuva, ungakhathazeki noma ubambe ongezansi, khumbula ukuthi ubutha umfutho ukuze ukwazi ukweqa ezinye izinyathelo ezimbili phambili. Lezi zingqinamba zivamile futhi kufanele nje zikwenze ufunde ukuthi ungathuthukisa kanjani ngokuzayo.
Hambisa imicabango yakho nezenzo zakho kulokho ofuna ukukufeza, futhi uzokufeza. Kepha ungavumeli ukubuyela emuva kukwenze uphonse ithawula noma uchithe wonke umsebenzi osuwenzile kuze kube manje. Gcina ingqondo yakho igxile ezinhlosweni zakho nangomzamo wakho, izinhloso zakho zizofika zodwa ... kepha ungakhohlwa ukujabulela indlela yokuzifinyelela!