UViktor Frankl wahlupheka kakhulu empilweni yakhe. Wayengumsunguli we "logotherapy," ukufuna incazelo kanye injongo yempilo lokho kuhlukile futhi kucacisiwe kumuntu ngamunye, ikakhulukazi phakathi kobunzima.
UViktor Frankl, udokotela nodokotela wezengqondo onozwelo waseViennese bathunjwa ngamanazi ngo-1942 ngokuba ngumJuda. Wayeshade nentokazi enhle, wayenomsebenzi, izimpahla, nomholo. Kwakufanele anikele ngakho konke. Lolu uhlobo lokulahlekelwa okubuhlungu olungaguqula abantu babe ngabantu abakhulu kakhulu.
Ngemuva kokuboshwa kwakhe, bamfaka esitimeleni esigcwele kanye nabantu abangu-1500 XNUMX. Uhambo oluthathe izinsuku nobusuku obuthile. Lapho beya khona kwakuyikamu lokuhlushwa elikhulu, elinezinqaba zokubuka futhi elizungezwe ngocingo oluhlabayo. Bekuyi I-Auschwitz.
Iziboshwa ezintsha bekufanele zishiye yonke imithwalo yazo esitimeleni. UFrankl, emanqikanqika ukunikela ngakho konke, wagcina umbhalo wesandla oyigugu wencwadi yakhe entsha yokwelashwa kwe-logotherapy. Wathunyelwa eceleni ukuba ayojoyina iqembu leziboshwa ezinempilo. Amaphesenti angama-90 asele athunyelwa kwenye indawo, ngqo ukufa.
Iqembu likaFrankl kwakudingeka ligijime linqamule insimu liye esiteshini sokuhlanza lapho latshelwa khona ukuthi lisuse amawashi alo nobucwebe. Ukuze asindise impilo yakhe, uFrankl wagcina ewushiyile umbhalo wakhe oyigugu. Amakamelo kagesi, indawo yokushisa izidumbu, nokubulawa kwakuyinto yakhe yangempela.
UFrankl uchaza encwadini yakhe "Ukufuna Komuntu Injongo" indlela amasosha abayale ngayo ukuthi bakhumule zonke izingubo zabo. Izinwele zabo zomzimba wonke zazigundiwe, kubandakanya namashiya. Ngemuva kokugeza okuncane, babenezinombolo ezidwetshwe ezandleni zabo, ngakho-ke balahlekelwa ngisho negama labo. UFrankl ukwazile ukugcina izibuko nezicathulo zakhe, kodwa konke okunye kwacekeleka phansi.
Yonke imisebenzi yomndeni kanye nezinhloso empilweni zashintshwa ngesihluku. Okuncane kwasala ngobuntu, kwesithunzi. Sethemba ukuthi akukho okufana nalokhu okwenzekayo futhi.
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Kodwa-ke, namuhla kunabantu abahlangana izimo ezifanayo, yize kungenjalo ngaphansi kwemibuso yengcindezelo.
Cabanga nje, ngokwesibonelo, sihlala ngokuthula endaweni bese ngokuzumayo sivakashelwa indlala, ukuzamazama komhlaba, i-tsunami, isiphepho, isikhukhula noma enye inhlekelele yemvelo.
Noma zicabange utshelwa ukuthi unesifo esisongela impilo, esikhubazayo nesikhubazayo, njenge Umdlavuza. Kuzofanele uye esibhedlela uyohlinzwa, ukwelashwa ngemisebe noma ngamakhemikhali. Bebengakunika ingubo yasesibhedlela, bakufake isongo lepulasitiki engalweni negama lakho kanye nenombolo yakho yokurekhoda.
Ungalahlekelwa yizo zonke izinwele zakho ngenxa yokwelashwa, kufaka phakathi amashiya akho. Ubezwa ubuhlungu, isicanucanu, nokunye ukuzwa okungathandeki komzimba.
Noma zimbi kangakanani lezi zimo, lezi yizimo eziletha okuhlangenwe nakho koguquko noma ukukhula ngokomoya kwabanye abantu. Kungani?
Kuphuciwe konke esikuthandayo sithintana nobuntu bethu beqiniso, singasho, ngomphefumulo wethu. Sishiywe nokuthile okuyiqiniso nokumsulwa. Sihlala kumzuzu wamanje, sinokwazi: ngokuzizwa ngokomzimba, ngomuzwa ongokomzwelo, ngamandla okucabanga, ukucabanga, nobuciko. Lolo hlobo lokuqwashisa ngokomoya lungaba ngumthombo wokuzola, isibindi, ugqozi nethemba.
UFrankl uthi kuyamangaza ukuthi amanye amadoda eshaweni bancokola bahleka. Uphucwe konke, umoya womuntu usengakhanya ngamandla amakhulu nokubekezela. Ukuhleka kuhlale kungukukhululeka okubalulekile nokuxhumanisa phakathi kweshwa.
Futhi, ngalobo busuku bokuqala ekamu, UFrankl uthathe isinqumo esiqinile futhi esenziwe ngamabomu sokungazibulali. Wakhetha impilo. Ephendula lowo mbuzo omkhulu, ophakathi nendawo owaphakanyiswa uHamlet kaShakespeare, uFrankl wanquma ukuthi "abe."
Kamuva, lapho lonke ithemba lokuhlangana seliphelile, uFrankl waba nombono womkakhe (owayesaba, wayeseshonile). Kungaleso sikhathi-ke lapho aqiniseka khona ukuthi, kuwo wonke umuntu, uthando kungumgomo wokugcina nophakeme kakhulu esingafisa ukulufuna.
Uthando lokuziphindiselela phakathi kwalezi zithandani lwalukhulise ngaye lwaba uthando lomhlaba wonke lwesintu nokudalwa. Kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okujulile wathi:
"Ngiqondile ukuthi indoda engenalutho emhlabeni isengayazi kanjani injabulo." (Ukufuna Komuntu Injongo)
UFrankl wasinda empini futhi waphila iminyaka engama-50 ethe xaxa, efa eneminyaka engama-92 ngoSepthemba 1997.
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