Asikhulisi izingane kuphela, sikhulisa abantu abadala bakusasa. Esikwenzayo njengabazali kudala umqondo wezinto ezijwayelekile ezinganeni zethu, okugxila imikhuba nokuziphatha okuholela ebudaleni. Vele, sifuna okungcono kakhulu ezinganeni zethu: ukuba nokuphila okujabulisayo, ukulungela umhlaba wangempela, noma ukuthuthuka nje esikoleni. Isikhathi esiningi sifuna baphumelele, Ngakho-ke njengabazali, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi nifune izeluleko ukuze nikufinyelele.
I-Psychology ingakusiza ngakho konke lokhu, futhi empeleni, kunezinto ezithile abazali abangazilingisa ukuze bakhulise kahle abantu abadala abasebenzayo nabalinganisela kahle. Ukufeza lokhu, isayikholoji ithi izingane kufanele zibone kuwe okulandelayo esikutshela kona.
Ukuzabalaza
Ungafihli izingqinamba zakho ukuze ubonakale uphelele. Kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane zibone ukuthi ulwa kanjani empilweni, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela uzokwazi ukudlulisa inani lempi. Vumela izingane zakho zikubone ulwa nobunzima, ukuthi uzenza kanjani izinto, uzinqoba kanjani, ukuthi uphumula kanjani noma ukuthi ulucela kanjani usizo.
Ekhala
Ungabi namahloni uma izingane zakho zikubona ukhala, Ngale ndlela bazofunda ukujwayela leyo mizwa enamandla kakhulu engasenzi sizizwe silungile. Ungayikhanseli imizwa yakho yokudabuka, izingane zakho kumele zazi ukuthi yonke imizwa isebenza futhi yonke iyasisiza ngezikhathi ezithile.
Qabula umlingani wakho
Ungahle ungafuni ukwanga umlingani wakho uma kwenzeka izingane zakho zinamahloni noma ukuze, uma sezikhulile, zingacabangi ngokwanga abanye abantu. Kepha empeleni, ukuqabula kuyadingeka ezinganeni ukuze zikwazi ukubaluleka kokudlulisa uthando oluzwayo kubantu esibathandayo. Ngisho nokuqabula okuncane esihlathini kuyasiza ukuletha abantu ndawonye.
Ukuzivocavoca
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kusiza ukugcina ingqondo nomzimba ophilile. Kujwayelekile futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi abantu bahambise zonke izinsuku zempilo yabo ukuze babe nempilo enhle. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zibone kubazali bazo isibonelo sokunyakaza nokuthi zingagcini ngokubona labo bazali abathi ngemuva komsebenzi baziphose kusofa babuke iTV badle namachips. Impilo yokuhlala nje nayo iyingozi empilweni njengokubhema, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuqala ukuhamba nokwenza izinto njengomndeni, njengokugibela ibhayisikili, ukuhambahamba, njll.
ufunde
Ezinye zezindlela zokuziphatha ezibaluleke kakhulu kumuntu oyisibonelo ziyaphikisana (njengokukhombisa umzabalazo noma ukukhala) futhi kungadala ukungezwani. Ukufakazela ukuthi ungumfundi impilo yakho yonke kungenye yalezi, ngoba kufanele ubeke isikhathi sokwenza.
Izingane zethu mhlawumbe zizoshintsha imisebenzi izikhathi eziningi, ngakho-ke zidinga ukuthola induduzo / amandla okufunda izinto ezintsha. Izingane ezibona abazali befunda zivame ukufunda kakhulu… isibonelo sakho nguthisha ongcono kunabo bonke.
Yiba nomusa kuwe
Abantu abasekela ukuzethemba kwabo emithonjeni yangaphandle, njengokuvunywa kwabanye, bavame ukuba nezinkinga eziningi zempilo yengqondo. Esikhundleni salokho, labo bantu abasekela ukuzethemba kwabo kwimithombo yangaphakathi, (inkhulumomphendvulwano yangaphakathi, amanani), bazoba namamaki angcono nokuncipha kwezidakamizwa, utshwala noma ukuphazamiseka kokudla.
Ngamanye amagama, umhlaba wangaphandle uletha izinselelo ezanele ekuzihlonipheni kwengane yakho, ngakho-ke udinga ukwenza imodeli yokuziphatha okuhle nawe, ngoba uma singaphathani kahle, ngubani ozokwenza? Yize kulula ukusho kunokukwenza, kungenzeka.
Yiba ocabangayo
Lokhu kungabonakala ngokusebenzisa ingokomoya noma ngokuthatha nje isikhathi sokucabangisisa nokuzihlola. Iphuzu ukuphikisana nokugxila ekuphumeleleni nasekutholakaleni. Ungabonakala ulwa nesifiso sokubasiza baphumelele, Kepha kusiza izingane ukuthi zithole ingxenye ejulile yalokho okushiwo ukuba ngumuntu.
Yenza ubuciko
Izingane zinobuciko ngokwemvelo, nabantu abadala futhi, kepha kwesinye isikhathi zibonakala zikhohlwa. Ngalo mqondo, njengomzali, zama ukuthola umkhuba wokuqala wokuthi kujabulisa kangakanani ukukwakha izinto ezintsha kugxile ezinganeni zakho. Akukhona ukufeza okuthile, kepha kumayelana nokuveza nokuzizwa ngenkathi kusakhiwa.
Jabulela isikhathi
Lesi yisisekelo sakho konke. Kufanele uchithe isikhathi nezingane zakho njalo, ube nentshisekelo ezintweni abazithandayo nezinkinga zabo, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, lalela abakushoyo. Ngeke nje ufunde okuningi ngobuntu bendodana noma bendodakazi yakho obuhlukile, Esikhundleni salokho, izenzo zakho zizonikeza isibonelo sendlela yokubonisa ukunakekela nokunaka abanye.
Xazulula izinkinga ngaphandle kokuzibalekela
Isibonelo, uma indodana yakho ithatha isinqumo ngokuzumayo ukuthi ifuna ukuyeka ukuzijwayeza ibhola, yibuze ukuthi kungani ichaza ukuthi kungani ifuna ukwenza lokho, kanye nezibopho enazo kozakwabo. Uma esafuna ukuyeka, msize athole okuthile okusha okuzokhipha izinkanuko zakhe.
Bonga ngomsebenzi wesikole
Abantu abajwayele ukukhombisa ukubonga kungenzeka ukuthi bazwele abanye, baphane kakhulu, futhi bathande ukusiza. Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukwenza isethi yemisebenzi yansuku zonke ingane yakho engakusiza ngayo ekhaya, ongayibonga ngayo kuzo zonke izigaba zosuku. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zincoma nokuvuza izingane ngokukhombisa kwabo umusa wangempela nomzamo abawenzayo ekusizeni wena.
Ukubhekana nemizwa engemihle
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi ikhono lokukhathalela abanye licindezelwa yimizwa emibi efana nentukuthelo, inzondo, amahloni nomona. Ngokusiza izingane ziqonde le mizwa emibi, uzozicindezela ukuxazulula izingxabano zazo zangaphakathi. Ukuzihlaziya kwalolu hlobo kuzokubeka endleleni ende yokuba ngabantu abanozwela nabakhathalelayo. Kubalulekile futhi ukusungula ukuzinza kwengqondo.
Qonda ukuthi umhlaba mkhulu futhi uyinkimbinkimbi
Ngokuya ngocwaningo olwenziwe izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, cishe zonke izingane zinentshisekelo kuphela ezweni elincane lomndeni wazo nabangane. Kubalulekile ukuthi futhi bafunde ukukhathalela abantu nemicimbi engaphandle kwalo mbuthano onqunyelwe, ongahluka kulokho abakwaziyo ngokwezenhlalo, amasiko, kanye nezindawo. Ungasiza izingane zakho ngalokhu ngokufunda ukuba yisilaleli esihle esingazibeka ezicathulweni zomunye umuntu futhi sizwe uzwela, kungaba ngama-movie, izithombe noma izindaba.
Ngiyabonga izeluleko ezinhle kakhulu.