Siphila emphakathini wokuncintisana ngokwemvelo lapho kubonakala sengathi onamandla kunabo bonke yibo ozophumelela empilweni. Kepha ababuthakathaka, kubonakala sengathi bayohlala bevaleleke ekhoneni ... kepha lokhu akudingeki kube yiqiniso labantu nhlobo. Ukuncintisana akudingeki kube yinto engeyinhle noma enobuthi, inqobo nje uma abantu befundiswa kahle kusukela besebancane.
Izingane zifana nezipanji ezimunca yonke into, ngakho-ke ukugqugquzela ukuncintisana okunempilo ezinganeni kuyadingeka ukuze babe ngabantu abadala abaphumelelayo, abangenabuthi. Kungumsebenzi wabazali nabantu abadala abasondelene nezingane ukuzifundisa ukuthi yini umncintiswano onempilo ezinganeni zabo futhi ukhohlwe ngezindlela ezimbi, njengalokho okuhlale kubonakala emidlalweni yebhola.
Ukuncintisana okunempilo
Ukuncintisana akukhona nje ngokuwina noma ukwehlulwa. Ezinganeni, kusho ukufunda ukwabelana nokushintshana. Ukuncintisana okunempilo kufundisa izingane uzwela, ukuziqhenya okuza nokusebenza kanzima, nokuzethemba kokwazi ukuthi benze konke okusemandleni abo. Kepha lezi zimfanelo ezihloniphekile azikhuli ngokushesha, zidinga ukwenziwa nokuholwa.
Abazali nabanye abantu abadala abazungeze izingane bangakhuthaza ukuncintisana okunempilo ezinganeni. Kunezindlela ezithile zokwenza futhi ukufeza lokho, kubalulekile ukubeka amandla ukuze, Lapho umfutho ufuna imikhuba emibi, vele kungenzeki.
Uzwela
Ukunqoba kuhle, kepha ukukhohlwa imizwa yabanye kungashesha ukudala isimo lapho ingane ithathwa njengononya. Ukuncintisana okunempilo kusho ukuba ngumngani omuhle nokweseka abanye, noma ngabe balahlekile.
Into eyodwa izingane okufanele zibuzwe ngesinye isikhathi ukuthi: 'Uma ulahlekile, ubuyozizwa kanjani?' Nabazali bangadlala indima encane. Ungathi: 'Ngizoba umuntu olahlekile, Yini ongangitshela yona ukuze ngizizwe ngingcono futhi yini engingakutshela yona uma uhlulwa ukwenza uzizwe ungcono? '
Umsebenzi wethimba
Ngokuncintisana, izingane zifunda ukwabelana nokushintshana. Kepha kunezindlela zokuzilungiselela lokhu ekhaya. Ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi njengezithandani noma njengeqembu kuyindlela yokufundisa izingane ngokusebenzisana nokubekezelela ukukhungatheka abangakuthola ngesikhathi sokulahlekelwa. Lezi zikhathi zingamagugu okufanele zisetshenziswe njengamathuba okufunda nokukhula komuntu siqu.
Uma useqenjini, mazise: 'Kazi lowo ozodlala naye angazizwa kanjani uma ungamdlulisela ibhola, kungamjabulisa kakhulu.' Ukwabelana ngenjabulo yomdlalo kuyabasiza baqonde ukuthi bayingxenye yeqembu nokuthi iqembu lonke kufanele lisebenzisane.
Yiba inguqulo engcono ngokugqugquzela
Izingane ezinomqondo ophilile wokuncintisana zifunda zisencane ukuthi kufanele zenze konke okusemandleni azo futhi zinikele ngakho konke kukho konke ezikwenzayo. Kepha kuthiwani uma bengazizwa ngaleyondlela? Faka izingane ezinamandla okuncintisana Kusho ukubabuza ukuthi ziyini izinhloso zabo ngokwabo, hhayi ukuthi othisha noma abazali babo bafuna ini.
Uma ingane yakho ingazami kanzima, zama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani. Imvamisa inkinga iba nezimpande, njengokuhlukunyezwa noma ukuxhashazwa. Khuluma ngokwenzekayo. Futhi uma ingane yakho ingenalutho ngempela, kuzofanela umbe ujule kancane.
Ungasebenzisa ikusasa njengesibonelo ngemisho yohlobo olulandelayo: 'Uneminyaka eyi-10 nje manje, kodwa ngelinye ilanga uyoba umuntu omdala, yini ofuna ukuyenza? ' Ungakusebenzisa lokho ukusebenza emuva ukubashukumisela ukuthi bafike lapho.
Kukushukumise
Njengabantu abadala, izingane zithanda ukusebenzela ukufinyelela umgomo. Noma ngabe ihora elengeziwe lesikhathi sesikrini noma into enhle, ukuhlobanisa ukuncintisana nokuwina okuthile abakufunayo kuyindlela enhle yokwenza izingane zijabule ngokusebenza kanzima. ikakhulukazi uma usebenza nezingane zakini.
Uma kunenkinga phakathi kwezelamani, kufanele ubacele ukuthi basebenzisane ukuze bathole umklomelo esikhundleni sokuqhudelana. Uma bencintisana ngempela, batshele ukuthi bakhokhelane ngokuncoma esikhundleni sokuklolodelana noma ukuthukana. Lapho zilungile, zithola iphuzu, futhi uhlelo lwamaphoyinti luholela kumklomelo wabo.
Kwenze kube indaba yomndeni
Ezinganeni ezidinga ukuzijwayeza okwengeziwe, indawo ehamba phambili nenethezekile yokusebenza ekhaya. Indlela enhle yokwenza leyo mizwa yokuncintisana igeleke ngokusingatha ubusuku bomdlalo womndeni.
Kwenza wonke umuntu ashintshane futhi asebenzise lezo zindlela ezibalulekile zenhlalo. Ngincoma imidlalo ethile ebandakanya ukwabelana, ukushintshana, nokukhuthaza inkhulumomphendvulwano ngemizwa, njenge-Connect 4 noma i-Monopoly. Ukwakha lesi sisekelo sengxoxo kuzosebenza kwezinye izimo zokuncintisana ezimpilweni zabo zonke.
Akudingeki ube nekhono kukho konke, futhi lokho kuhle!
Ukunqoba akuyona yonke into futhi ukuzama ukuwina kukho konke kungakhathaza futhi kushiye izingane zizizwa sengathi zingaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu. Ingxenye yokuba nomqondo ophilile wokuncintisana ukuqonda ukuthi ngeke ube muhle kukho konke, futhi kulungile.
Ukusiza izingane ezicasulwe ukuthi ziyazama kodwa zingenzi kahle njengabanye, abazali bangathi: Ungcono ku-X, futhi sonke sinezinto ezihlukile esisebenza kahle kuzo, futhi yilokho okwenza umhlaba ujikeleze.
Umlayezo engihlala ngiwuthumela inqobo nje uma benza konke okusemandleni abo, ngakho-ke akunandaba ukuthi ungcono yini. Okubalulekile ukuhlala ulwela ukwenza okusemandleni akho.
Ngalezi zeluleko nangesibonelo sakho esihle, izingane zakho zingafunda ukuba nomncintiswano onempilo ozozisiza ziphile impilo ephelele futhi ejabule kakhudlwana. Ukuncintisana okunobuthi kufanele kugcinwe ngaphandle kwanoma yimuphi umuntu noma umndeni.