Ukuhlehlisa izinto yinto sonke esihlangabezane nayo esikhathini esithile noma kwesinye sezimpilo zethu. Uma kwenzeka, abantu bahlehlisa imisebenzi okufanele yenziwe futhi bayihlehlise imisebenzi ebalulekile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ukuze ukuziphatha kuqondwe njengokuhlehlisa izinto, kufanele kuqondwe njengokuphikisayo, okungadingekile nokuthi ukubambezela noma ukubambezela leso sikhathi kuyingozi ngandlela thile. Imayelana nokulibazisa ngokuzithandela isenzo esihleliwe ngaphandle kokuthi lokhu kubambezeleka nokungasenzi isenzo kunemiphumela emibi kunokukwenza.
Imiphumela yokuhlehlisa izinto
Abantu abahlehlisa izinto bazozwa ukuthi bachitha isikhathi sabo nokuthi abakwazi ukwenza izinto ngendlela efanele. Lokhu kungadala ukucindezeleka, imizwa yecala futhi uzizwe unenkinga ethile yomuntu siqu. Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, uzizwa ulahlekelwe kakhulu ngumkhiqizo womuntu siqu, ukungamukelwa emphakathini kanye nezinkinga zomsebenzi zokungahlangabezani nezibopho noma ukuzibophezela. Ukuhlehlisa izinto kungadala ukuthi umuntu angene emgodini ngakho-ke ukubambezeleka kwesikhathi kuba okujwayelekile.
Kubhekwa njengokujwayelekile ukuthi abantu bahlehlisele emuva kuze kufike iphuzu elithile, kepha lapho behlehlisa okungaphezulu kokudingekile, noma ngabe bazama ukunika izizathu ezingaki, imiphumela idala ukukhathazeka okukhulu nengcindezi. Ezimweni ezingavamile, le mizwa emibi ingaholela emizweni yenkuthazo yokuqedela umsebenzi osusondele. yize ukulungiswa kokubambezeleka kuqinisa uhlobo olufanayo lokuziphatha ngokuzayo.
Umuntu ohlehlisa izinto kumele aqonde ukubaluleka kwezinto eziseqhulwini ukuze akhiqize ezimpilweni zabo. Abantu abahlehlisa izinto bahlangana nabantu abavilaphayo nabangakhathali, abantu abangenazo izifiso empilweni.
Kungani kunabantu abahlehlisa izinto
Ukuhlehlisa izinto ngokuvamile kuyinkinga yokuxhumana ngokomzwelo, okungukuthi, abantu abahlehlisa izinto bavame ukuba nezinkinga zokukhathazeka, ukuzethemba okuphansi kanye nomqondo wokuzilimaza abanenkinga yokuwulawula. Futhi, kungahle kube nokungazethembi noma ukuthi umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye umane angawuthandi umsebenzi futhi uziphethe kabi (ngoba akawuthandi umsebenzi, uthi uzowenza kepha akwenzi njengendlela yokubonisa ukungeneliseki kwakhe ngalo msebenzi).
Kungaqondakala njengegebe phakathi kwenhloso nokwenza. Abantu abahlehlisa ukwenza kanjalo ngenxa yokwehluleka ukuzithiba. Uyakwazi okufanele ukwenze, kepha awukwazi ukukwenza.
Izinhlobo zokuhlehlisa izinto
Alukho uhlobo olulodwa kuphela lokuhlehlisa izinto, empeleni kunezinhlobo ezimbili: abahlehlisi abangapheli kanye nabahlehlisa isimo. Abokuqala banenkinga engapheli yokuqedela imisebenzi kanti abokugcina benza kanjalo ngokuya ngomsebenzi abawenzayo.
Umuntu onezinga eliphakeme lokuziphatha okungathatheki futhi ongenakho ukuzithiba nokuziphatha uthatha isikhathi eside kunalabo abanezinga eliphakeme lokukhula kulezi zici ezithile. Ngandlela thile kuhilela ukulawula ukuzazisa nokwenqaba umthwalo wemfanelo, ukuthethelela nokwenza izaba zokubambezela okufanele kwenziwe. Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi lezi zizathu zinenhloso: qhubeka nokuzindela ngokunciphisa imiphumela ebonakalayo yezenzo ezisenza sizizwe sihle.
Ungakuphatha kanjani ukuhlehlisa izinto
Ngokwesifundo esivela eStockholm University, kubonakala sengathi ukuhlehlisa akuyona inkinga yokuphathwa kwesikhathi kuphela, kepha futhi kungahle kube nezizathu ezingokomzwelo zokudala le nkinga. Kukhona labo abacabanga, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi basebenza kangcono ngaphansi kwengcindezi, kepha lokhu kubhebhethekisa ingcindezi nokungaphatheki kahle kwabo.
Imizwelo engemihle ivame ukuvela emicabangweni engemihle edonsa amandla okubhekana nayo. Okuthile okufanele ukwenze, beka umthwalo eceleni bese wenza ezinye izinto ocabanga ukuthi zikwenza uzizwe ungcono njengokulala kusofa noma ukubukela ithelevishini ... ucabanga ukuthi ngemuva kwalokho uzozizwa ungcono ukubhekana nobunzima, Kepha lokhu akuvamisile ukwenzeka, njengoba ungazizwa uphatheke kabi ngokuhlehlisa umsebenzi.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukuphathwa kwesikhathi nezindlela zokwelapha akusizi kangako kubahlehlisi abangapheli ngoba abazi ukuthi bangakushintsha kanjani ukucabanga kwabo. Imfihlo ukuguqula indlela yokucabanga ngakho-ke isimo somqondo ukuze izinto ezidinga ukwenziwa zingahlehliswa. Ngokulandelayo sizochaza ukuthi ungayiphatha kanjani le nkinga ngendlela elula.
Kungani kwenziwa
Kumele uqale uqonde ukuthi kungani uzibamba ekwenzeni lokho okumele ukwenze. Yimiphi imizwa evela lapho uzama ukubhala isiphakamiso noma uba nengxoxo enzima? Yini wesaba ukuthi kungenzeka uma ungayenza empeleni? Yiliphi icala elibi kakhulu? Kwabaningi, uma kungenjalo, ukukhathazeka yikhona okufanele kusolwe. Ukukhathazeka ngokuxakekisa umsebenzi noma ukungawenzi kuholela ekutheni siwubekise kuze kube, kuyindida ukuthi, asikwazi ukuwuthola kahle noma ushiywe unomphela.
Funa umvuzo kunokugwema
Uma imizwa yakho yehla ngokulindela ukuthatha isinyathelo, kuzomele uthuthukise imizwa yakho kuqala. Uma ufuna ukwenza okuthile, noma ngabe kuyini, zinike umvuzo omncane kamuva.
Qaphela iphuzu leqhwa
Unemibono eminingi ngokuthi umhlaba owakheka kancane kancane ekhanda lakho usebenza kanjani nokuthi kufanele usebenze kanjani, uqala ngenkathi usemncane kakhulu, kepha awubaboni neze njengoba becwile ngaphansi kobuso bomzimba wakho: ngokwazi. Sizibiza ngezinkolelo zeqhwa, futhi zingaba yinkinga, ngoba mhlawumbe awazi ukuthi zikuthinta kanjani ukucabanga kwakho.
Isibonelo senkolelo yeqhwa esengozini yokuhlehlisa izinto ngukuthi, "Kufanele ngenze yonke into iphelele" (kuzwakala kujwayelekile?). Lesi sidingo sokuba nezinto ngendlela ethile ngaphambi kokuthatha noma yisiphi isenzo sizophazamisa intuthuko yakho futhi sikugcine unamathele. Wazi kanjani ukuthi ubhekene neqhwa? Izimpawu zifaka amagama anjengokuthi "Kufanele" noma "Kufanele" engqondweni yakho.
Shintsha indlela ocabanga ngayo
Ukuthi usibona kanjani isimo kuzonquma ukuthi usabela kanjani kuso futhi ekugcineni ukuthi wenzani. Okwenzeka kwabaningi bethu ukuthi sibanjwa izingibe zokucabanga, noma izindlela zokucabanga ezingasishiyi ndlela yokuphuma noma inqubekela phambili.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi, "Le projekthi inzima kakhulu, angisoze ngayenza," kungaba ingilazi yokukhulisa kanye nesinciphisi, okwenza izici eziyinselele kakhulu zomsebenzi zibe zimbi kakhulu futhi zinciphise nezinzuzo, ezibulala isisusa sakho. Esikhundleni salokho, uma ucabanga noma uthi: "Lokhu kuyinselelo, kepha kuyenzeka, futhi nemivuzo yokuqalisa ikufanele" ... izinto ziguquka kakhulu emqondweni wakho.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi, "angisoze ngakwenza lokhu ngingedwa," noma, "Angikaze ngikwazi ukwenza lolu hlobo lwento," kungenzeka ukuthi i-customizer eyeqile noma i-generalizer, ekhomba ekuzethembeni okuphansi. Ngoba awukholwa ukuthi uyakwazi ukukwenza, futhi uzitshela ukuthi, yebo, uyakwenza, futhi ukwesaba kwakho kuba yiqiniso lakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ucabanga noma uthi: “Engizama ukukwenza bekungeke kube lula kunoma ngubani. Ubani ongcono kunami ukubhekana nayo? Ubani omunye ngaphandle kwami ozimisele ukubhekana nakho?