Yimuphi umqondo obaluleke kunayo yonke esinayo thina bantu? Mhlawumbe ukukwazi ukucabanga ngempilo esizungezile, ukuzwa umsindo wengoma noma othile okhulumayo, ukujabulela ubumnandi bomhlaba? Noma, mhlawumbe, kungenzeka ukuthi kufanele sijabule futhi sibone iphunga, ubuhle nokunotha kwemvelo?
UDavid Schwartz uyaqonda ukuthi okuyigugu kakhulu kwezinzwa zethu "Ukubona kwengqondo", okungukuthi, amandla okubona okuqukethwe ezimpilweni zethu ngendlela eyanelisa kakhulu.
Kodwa Lo mbono wengqondo udlulela ngalé kweqiniso nje lokubona impilo yomuntu ngokugcwele ngokuphelele; kwakha isimo sengqondo esibalulekile, uhlelo lokusebenza. Imayelana nephupho kanye nekhono lokwenza lifezeke.
Bambalwa kithi abazi ukuthi sifunani. Futhi, ngisho nangaphansi, sesithuthukise isu lokukufeza.
Kodwa-ke, ngaphandle kwecebo lokusiqondisa, impilo yethu ayithokozisi kangako, sizifeza ngezinga eliphansi kakhulu futhi sithola uphumelele okuncane kakhulu kunalokho ebesingakuthola.
Ukwaneliseka komuntu kuholela empumelelweni
Njengoba uDkt.Schwartz esitshela, impumelelo yomuntu nokweneliseka komuntu yinto efanayo.
Lokho okubonayo ngawe, umsebenzi wakho, ubudlelwano bakho nabantu nomhlaba wonkana kuyakusiza noma kukuzwise ubuhlungu ekufezeni impumelelo yakho.
Umbhali wethula abantu abazuze impumelelo njengo- abantu ababhekana nosuku ngalunye olusha ngomdlandla, ukuzethemba kanye nethemba. Laba bantu bayazwana nabo, banelisekile ngempilo abakhethe ukuyiphila.
Bayazi ukuthi ukuze ube nakho konke empilweni kufanele uzinikele ngokuphelele kukho. Kungashiwo ukuthi "Bathanda uthando futhi bathanda umsebenzi". Laba bantu bathanda ukuhambisa abanye futhi bathokoze kakhulu babelana ngenjabulo elethwa yimpumelelo yabo.
Bayabakhathalela futhi bazinikele kwabanye, babaphathe kahle futhi, futhi, nabo, babaphatha kahle.
Ngenxa yokubona kwabo ngokwengqondo bayakwazi lokho umsebenzi, izinselelo kanye nokuzidela kuyingxenye yempilo, futhi banekhono lokuguqula ubunzima obuzayo bube ngamathuba okuzithuthukisa.
Abantu abaphumelelayo banqoba ukwesaba ngokubhekana nakho futhi banqobe ubuhlungu ngokukuzwa. Banesipho sokugcwala izimpilo zabo zansuku zonke ngenjabulo nokusabalalisa leyonjabulo kubantu abanenhlanhla yokuba nabo. Ukumamatheka kwakhe okujwayelekile kungubufakazi bamandla akhe angaphakathi kanye nesimo sakhe sengqondo esihle ngempilo.
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