Ukukhonzwa kwe-Egol kusekelwe ekuzincomeni umuntu angakuzwa ngaye, okungabonwa ngendlela elula ngokweqile ngoba kuphela ngokubheka ezinye izici abantu abazizwa bezethemba ngaphezu kwamanani ajwayelekile.
Ngokusho kwe- I-Royal Spanish Academy Incazelo ye-egomaniac inqunywa njenge: inkolo, ukuzihlonipha, noma ukuzithanda ngokweqile, okungathathwa njengenkinga yengqondo, ngoba abantu bavame ukuziqhayisa futhi bathathe izimo ezicasulayo maqondana nokuthi bakholelwa kangakanani ukuthi bayikho.
Abantu be-Egomaniacal bavame ukuba kakhulu ozikhukhumezayo, othanda izinto ezingekho emthethweni, ongafaki abanye nomoya omubi okuholela ekubeni ngumuntu ongafuneki emibuthanweni eminingi yomphakathi; ukuzazisa kungabonakala kumanani amakhulu omlando njengoNapoleon Bonaparte.
Ukukhonzwa kwe-Egol kungabonakala ngendlela elula kakhulu, futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abantu banezici ezithile ezijwayelekile phakathi kwawo wonke ama-egomaniacs.
Incazelo yokuzazisa
Incazelo yaleli gama inikezwa ukuba khona kwezici ezithile nezici umuntu angaziveza, kunqunywa yi-psychology.
I-etymology yaleli gama ivela olimini lwesiGreki ncamashi kusuka ku- "ego" elihunyushwe ngokuthi mina, futhi "latria" ukuba yincazelo yalo efanele noma ukuncoma. Abantu abazithandayo bavame ukuba ne- isimo sokuphakama ngaphambi kwanoma yimuphi omunye umuntu, ngoba bazizwa bencoma umuntu wabo kangangoba ezingeni lezengqondo kungathathwa njengokuphazamiseka noma ukugula.
Izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zokuzazisa
Ukukhulekelwa kweqanda kubhekwa kakhulu njengokuphazamiseka kwengqondo noma i-pathology, ngakho-ke kufanele kubonakale ngombono wobungcweti izimbangela eziholela kulolu hlobo lokuziphatha olubangela ukucasuka okukhulu kubantu abaseduze nomuntu o-egomaniac.
Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lunezimpande ezijulile ezingqondweni zabantu abethula izici ezithile; Izizathu eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani umuntu engenza ngale ndlela kungenxa yokuthi babengenalo uthando ngesikhathi sesigaba esiyinhloko empilweni yabo, ngakho-ke banquma ukuba nenkolelo yabo eyehlukile kunalokho empeleni kuyinto engajwayelekile kumuntu one umqondo olinganiselayo.
Kunomunye umbono we izimbangela zokuziphatha kobugovu ezihlobene nemikhuba yama-mercantilist efana nezimfashini eziholele ekutheni abantu bakholelwe ukuthi ngokugqoka okokugqoka okuthile kubanikeza ukuphakama uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye ezingenamandla okuzithola.
Yize ezimweni zombili zivame ukuhlobana nohlobo lokuzivikela olwenziwe ngabantu abahleleke ngendlela yokuthi bezwe ukuthi ngeke balinyazwe ngokwenza njengabantu ababaluleke kakhulu ebusweni bomhlaba.
Ungambona kanjani umuntu ozikhukhumezayo?
Njengomthetho wokuqala ukwamukela omunye walaba bantu kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi banjani, nokuthi benza kanjani ngoba banezici ezifanayo ezingase zihlotshaniswe kalula, ngoba abalingiswa abaningi emlandweni nanamuhla bangabomakhelwane, okusiza kakhulu ngomsebenzi wesikole. Endabeni yalabo bantu abahlobene nezwe lezokungcebeleka, ukuqhosha kungavela kube kuhle, ngoba yilokhu okususelwa emisebenzini yalolu hlobo.
Izici ezi-10 ezivamile
Ukuthola ngokunembile umuntu walolu hlobo, kuyadingeka ukwazi ezinye zezindlela zokuziphatha ezivame kakhulu nezimo zengqondo ezivame ukuziveza, ngakho-ke eziyishumi zazo zizokhonjiswa ngezansi:
- Abakubekezeleli ukugxekwa futhi lapho bethola umbono maqondana nomuntu wabo bangakuthatha kabi.
- Imizwa yabakhulu ihlale ikhona futhi banombono ngempilo yabo ehlobene nempumelelo.
- Benza ihaba maqondana nezimfanelo namakhono abawabeka ngaphezu kwalabo abanye abantu.
- Ungabona ifayili le- ukungabi naluzwela okuholela ekutheni babe nesimo sengqondo esingenabuntu ngokunikela usizo kwabanye.
- Bangabantu ababukisa kakhulu ngoba bazizwa bekhuphuka ekuzihlonipheni ngokubonisa wonke umuntu abaziyo ukuthi yini abayizuzile kukho konke ukuphila kwabo.
- Bangabantu abangenandaba nobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu ngoba ukuphela kwento abacabanga ngayo yinhlalonhle yabo yezomnotho kanye nempahla.
- Imvamisa hlanekezela iqiniso maqondana nombono wabo ngokwabo ngenhloso eyodwa yokuhlala bengaphezulu kokulindelwe ngabantu ababazungezile, futhi nangaphezulu kokudala imizwa yomona.
- Bajabulela ubuhle bezenhlalo, yize ngokuvamile bahlala bodwa ngoba isimo sabo sengqondo sihlukanisa abantu ababazungezile njengoba becasula kakhulu futhi becasula.
- Bazizwa bethandwa kakhulu kuzo zonke izici eziqinisa isithombe somuntu ophumelelayo, abazilandela njengenkolo.
- Intshisekelo yokuhlangana nabantu acabanga ukuthi ingakhuphula isikhundla sakhe senhlalo inkulu kakhulu.
Ukukhonzwa kwe-Egol kubonwe ngabantu abaningi bomlando yize bengaziwa ngempumelelo enhle impela kepha bayizibonelo ezinhle, phakathi kwabo kukhona: u-Adolf Hitler, uJosif Stalin, uGenghis Khan, noNapoleon Bonaparte phakathi kwazo zonke lezi zici ezingabonakala kubo ama-biographies.
Ukukhonzwa kweqanda ngenxa yemfundo embi
Lokhu kuziphatha kungabuye kwenziwe ngu ukunganakwa kwezingane zisencane kakhulu, kanye nokuyekelela okuningi, okuvame ukudala izingane ukuthi zingalaleli, kubenze bazizwe bephakeme ngisho nakubazali babo.
Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lungaba lubi kakhulu maqondana nalokho okuhlalisana emphakathini noma emphakathini, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi konke lokhu kuvame ukubacasula futhi kubacasule kakhulu abantu abakhona endaweni yabo yezenhlalo.
Abantu abazicabangela bona ngokwabo bavame ukuba bodwa yize lokhu kungabathinti kakhulu ngoba izinhloso nezinhloso zabo ziqondiswe ngqo ekuzithuthukiseni nasenhlalakahleni yezomnotho.