Ubusha buyinkathi enzima, isiyaluyalu enganeni eyeka ukuba injalo iqale emhlabeni ovuthiwe ngokwengeziwe. Yisikhathi esibucayi kakhulu lapho abazali kufanele babe khona ukuqondisa izingane zethu kule ndlela ehamba phambili. Ukubeka imikhawulo nokuqinisa ukuzethemba kwezingane yizinto ezi-2 ezinhle esingazenza.
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Kule ndatshana sizogxila kuyo ukuqinisa ukuzethemba ebusheni. Ngikushiyela okunye amathiphu lokho kungasiza imindeni kulo msebenzi.
1) Ukuxhumana okuqotho.
Kungenxa yokuxhumana nezingane zethu lapho sizonikela khona ngosizo lwethu. Funda ngaphezu kwakho konke ukulalela, ukubekezela nokwazi ukuthi ungazinikeza kanjani izeluleko izingane zakho ezidinga ukuzizwa.
Ukuxhumana okuhle phakathi kwabazali nezingane kungukhiye kule nqubo yokuzama ukwandisa ukuzethemba ebusheni. Intsha ivame "ukubukela phansi" abazali bayo. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ukwazi ukuthi bangakwethemba kanjani lokhu umuntu omusha lokho kuvele ekhaya lakho.
2) Kufanele kusungulwe imikhawulo emisha.
Umuntu osemusha ongenamkhawulo, ongenayo imithetho noma imigomo okufanele ayilandele, ngumuntu osemusha olahlekile futhi ozogcina ekhungathekile nokuzethemba kwakhe phansi.
3) Imidlalo yeqembu ikhuthaza ukuzethemba.
Ukudlala ibhola noma ukuzivocavoca okunesigqi kuyizibonelo ezimbili nje zemidlalo lapho uhlangana khona nontanga bakho ngendlela enempilo.
4) Nikeza izinselelo eziyinselele nezinselele.
Ngabe uthanda ukuchitha usuku lonke kukhompyutha? Phakamisa ukuthi babhale futhi uzothola imivuzo ngokuya ngemiphumela.
Ngabe uthanda ukuchitha usuku lonke ngemidlalo yevidiyo? Qhamuka nomdlalo wevidiyo ovuselela ubuhlakani babo. Akuzona zonke izinto ezizodutshulwa 🙂 Ingxenye yesikhathi abasinikezela kukhonsoli kufanele sinikezelwe ukuthuthuka kulo mdlalo wevidiyo wokudala.
5) Ukwazi ukwehlisa ijubane.
Abazali abaningi bavame ukuqinisa amantongomane ngaphambi kwezinguquko ezingazelelwe ezenzeka esigabeni sobusha. Lokhu futhi kungaphikisana.
Umuntu osemusha unomuzwa wokuthi udinga inkululeko enkulu yokubona wonke umhlaba wamathuba avulekile kuye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abazali bavame ukuyibekela imingcele ebukhali inkululeko yabo abayitholile. Lokhu kungaba nezingozi ekuzethembeni kwentsha. Sithe kuzomele ubeke imingcele kodwa ungancishi. Umaphakathi wezinto ulungile.
6) Qaphela abangane.
Ngalesi sikhathi, abangane bayinto ebaluleke kakhulu kwentsha, kepha qaphela. Kwesinye isikhathi intsha "ibhajiswa" kumbuthano wabangane obukela phansi ukuzethemba kwabo. Ukubanikeza lonke usizo lwethu ngisho nokushintsha izindawo, ukwenza imisebenzi emisha ukuze bahlangane nezingane ezintsha kungaba yisixazululo.
7) Ukunakekelwa ezikoleni noma ezikhungweni.
Impela ufuna okungcono kakhulu ezinganeni zakho, ukuthi zikhulele endaweni efanelekile ezithuthukisa ukuzethemba kwazo, okuhle ngokwazo. Khetha isikole esifanelekile esihlangabezana nalezi zinhloso.
8) Indlu kufanele ibe yindawo ephephile.
Ukuphepha kuyinto ingane okufanele izizwe. Yazi ukuthi kukhona umuntu okuthanda ngaphandle kwemibandela. Ikhaya kufanele linikeze lokhu kuvikeleka ukuze ingane izizwe isekelwa futhi ivikelekile.
9) Chitha isikhathi nezingane zethu.
Ukuthi sebevele ebusheni akusho ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza imisebenzi ndawonye: ukudlala imidlalo, ukuhambahamba noma ukuyodla isidlo nomndeni wonke. Ukubeka izinkathazo nezibopho zethu eceleni ukuchitha isikhathi nezingane zethu kuyinto ukuzethemba kwabo okuzosibonga ngakho.
10) Gwema ukuhlala wedwa ekhaya.
Indlu yindawo yokwabelana: injabulo, usizi, impumelelo, imizwa. Ukudla kwasemini nedina kungcwele. Kumele bajwayelane futhi bangabi nayo ithelevishini ngemuva. Kuyisibopho sabazali ukudala indawo efanelekile yokuxhumana okujabulisayo, okushelelayo, okumnandi, okuqotho nokuthembekile.
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Ngemuva kokufunda lesi sihloko sokukhula ngokomoya isikhashana, ngizwa ukuthula emoyeni wami.
Kuhle kakhulu. Njengoba ngisemusha, kuyasiza kakhulu. Noma ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele basinikeze izeluleko ezithe xaxa thina bantu abasha, hhayi abazali kuphela, lapho-ke kufanele benze ucwaningo ngamavidiyo omndeni. Mina kuphela nikeza umbono wami.
Ngivumelana nawe. Intsha iyazi nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzethemba okuhle.
Ngicabanga okufanayo no-amy ..
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"Njengalokho akusho kuwumqondo omuhle kakhulu kithina bantu abasha, kubaluleke kakhulu"
Sawubona, izeluleko zakho ezinhle zangempela, ezilula futhi ngibona abaphawulayo bengabantu abasha, lokho kulungile.
Babhalele. ukubingelela umama.
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Lolu lwazi lungisize kakhulu ukwenza isethulo sami esikoleni ……. Ngiyabonga kakhulu.
Iseluleko esihle sentsha. Lokhu kuzobasiza ukuthi babe nempilo, babe namandla futhi baphephe emoyeni.
Uthando nenhlonipho yabashadikazi ukwakha ikhaya ngokuya ngamanani, ukufeza umphakathi ohlukile umhlaba osifunayo, ngaphandle kwenzondo noma izifiso zamazwe athile aqeda iplanethi yethu ngezikhali ezibulalayo
I-athikili enhle kakhulu. Kungakuhle ukufaka abanye. Ngiyabonga.
Izeluleko ezinhle.