"Njengazo zonke izimfanelo, ukuzidela kweqiniso akuvamile."
I-Altruism ingathathwa njengokuvikela i-Ego, uhlobo lwe-sublimation lapho umuntu ebhekana khona nokukhathazeka ngokusiza abanye. Ngokugxila ezidingweni zomunye, abantu abanemisebenzi yokuzidela njengomuthi noma abafundisayo babeka izidingo zabo emuva, ngaleyo ndlela bagweme ukubhekana noma ukuzazisa. Ngale ndlela, abantu abanakekela asebekhulile noma abakhubazekile bavame ukuzwa ukukhathazeka okukhulu nokucindezeleka lapho indima yabo njengomnakekeli inyamalala.
Lokhu kuzidela, okuqondwa njengokuvikela i-ego, kufanele kwehlukaniswe "nokuzidela kweqiniso." Okokuqala, ngaphezu kwakho konke, indlela yokumboza imizwa engakhululekile; okwesibili, esikhundleni salokho, kuyindlela yokufinyelela enjongweni yangaphandle, njengokunciphisa indlala noma ubumpofu.
Izenzo zokuzithandela zingaba nentshisekelo:
1) Ngoba anciphisa ukukhathazeka,
2) ngoba ziletha imizwa emnandi yokuziqhenya nokwaneliseka,
3) ngoba zinikeza ukulindelwa kokuhlonishwa noma ukuphindisela noma
4) ngoba zinikeza inkolelo yokusiqinisekisa indawo ezulwini.
5) Uma kungengenxa yezizathu ezingenhla, mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi, okungenani, badambisa imizwa engemihle yecala noma yehlazo ngokungangenzi lutho.
Yize izenzo zokuzidela zivame ukuqondiswa ububele, akudingeki ukuthi kube njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
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