Ngizokukhombisa Izinyathelo eziyi-11 ongazijwayeza ukuthuthukisa ukuzithiba kwakho futhi uphumelele empilweni yakho.
Ukuntuleka kwempumelelo empilweni akubangelwa yinoma ikuphi ukudalelwa kodwa kungenxa yethu thina uqobo ukuzikhuza komuntu siqu. Uma sesilivumile iqiniso singakhipha amandla amakhulu okwenza izinto ezinkulu empilweni.
Izimpilo zethu zilawulwa yithi uqobo, yizenzo zethu, namandla ethu. Kuyajabulisa ukwazi ukuthi singenza noma yini efika engqondweni ngokuziqeqesha, ngentando nangokholo. Kodwa-ke, into evame ukwehluleka kubantu ukuzikhuza.
Uma sikholelwa ukuthi asinakho ukuzikhuza, yini esingayenza? Singayithuthukisa.
Mhlawumbe alikho elinye ikhono elibaluleke kangaka ku- ukuzithuthukisa njengokuthuthuka kokuzikhuza. Kuyisihluthulelo sokuzithiba nokufezeka kwamaphupho akho. Manje, ake sibheke ezinye zezinyathelo ongazithatha ukukhulisa amandla akho.
Izinyathelo eziyi-11 zokuthuthukisa ukuzikhuza kwakho
1. Zibonele okwakho umthwalo wemfanelo. Vuma ukuthi uma uhleli nje ungenzi lutho ngeke uzuze lutho.
2. Zizwe ukumelana kuqhathaniswa nesifiso. Isibonelo, uma ungumfundi okufanele afunde futhi ungazizwa uthanda, ungasho okuthile okulandelayo:
"Angizizwa ngifuna ukufunda. Ngingathanda ukuntweza ku-inthanethi, ngiyozithwebula nje, ngibuke i-TV… Kepha esikhundleni sokubaleka, ngiyazivumela ukuthi ngizwe ukuthi ukumelana kuvela lapho ngifuna ukwenza okuthile kepha angikwenzi. Ngiyavuma ukuthi kufanele ngifunde. Kumele futhi ngithuthukise ukuzithiba kwami. Ukwenza engingakuthandi kukhulisa ukuzithiba kwami. Ngakho-ke, ngiyajabula ukuthola ithuba lokubulala izinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa (ngifundela ukuhlolwa kwami bese ngithuthukisa ukuzithiba). »
3. Ukuphefumula ngokujulile. khululeka nje nokudedela ukungezwani. Buka isenzo njengokungathi sesivele siqediwe. Funda isithombe sephrojekthi eseqedile engqondweni yakho isikhashana.
4. Manje isenzo. Ngemuva kokwenza njalo, uzozwa ukukhululeka lapho uzikhulula kuleyo nkinga ebakhona lapho ubeka umsebenzi obalulekile eceleni. Okwesibili, uzokwazi ukujabulela injabulo yokufeza okuthile. Okwesithathu, uzothola ukuthi umsebenzi bekulula ukuwenza kunokuba ubucabanga.
5. Sebenzisa i- ukukhululeka nenjabulo ukuthi uhlangabezana. Lokhu kuzoba umthombo wesisusa. Isisusa siyakhula njengoba senza kaninginingi lokho esingazizwa sithanda ukukwenza. Umphumela wokugcina ukwenziwa komkhuba.
6. Labo abangakawenzi umkhuba wokuziqeqesha bagwema imisebenzi ngoba bagxila emzameni odinga ukwenziwa. Ezingqondweni zabo, umzamo uyefana nokungakhululeki. Susa ukunaka kwakho. Lapho ubhekene nomsebenzi omusha, gxila enkululekweni nasenjabulweni ohlangabezana nayo. Gxila kumphumela wokugcina ozowuthola lapho wenza umsebenzi wesikole ngendlela efanele.
7. Qala ngalezo imisebenzi elula kuwe lapho uqala ukuqeqeshwa kwakho komuntu siqu ukuze uthuthukise ukuzithiba kwakho. Cabanga ukuthi usebenza ejimini okokuqala ngqa. Uma uqala ngokuzama ukuphakamisa ama-Kilos angama-50 ungahle uzizwe ukhungathekile futhi usheshe uyeke. Kepha uma uqala ngama-10 Kilos wesisindo, ukusebenzisa kwakho umzimba kuzoba lula ukukwenza futhi impumelelo yakho izokushukumisela ukuthi uqhubekele ezinseleleni ezinkulu.
8. Yiba muhle kodwa uqine nawe. Bhekana nomsebenzi wakho bese uwufeza. Qedela okuqalayo. Gxila emsebenzini owodwa. Musa ukusakaza ukunaka kwakho. Awudingi ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yakho khona manjalo, inqobo nje uma uqala ukuyenza. Ungasuki ku-zero uye kwikhulu ngomzuzwana. Qala kancane kodwa kancane kancane uthathe ijubane njengoba uthuthukisa amakhono akho.
9. Lindela ukulingeka ukuze ugweme imisebenzi. Umqondo wakho uzoza nezinkulungwane zezaba zokubeka kuze kube "kusasa" ongakwenza namuhla. Hlala phezu kwemizwa yakho futhi ufunde ukucabanga ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile. Sebenzisa isizathu sakho (ingqondo ehluzekile) hhayi imizwelo yakho yokuqondisa izenzo zakho.
10. Lapho usufunde ukwenza ngokushesha kuyo yonke imisebenzi, izibopho nezinselelo obhekene nazo, kuzofanele ukwenze Yiba sesimweni, uhlala ekulungele ukwenza okuthile. Yiba sesimweni ngamabomu ngokwenza izinto ongafuni ukuzenza, noma zingabalulekile. Iqiniso ukuthi akukho lutho olungabalulekile, ngoba uma wenza okuthile okuncane kuzokusiza ugcine ukuzithiba kwakho futhi lokho akuyona into encane.
Khumbula ukuthi kuyefana nokuzivocavoca ejimini. Funa amathuba emini "wokuzivocavoca."
11. Lapho usungakwazi ukugcina izinga lakho lokuzikhuza komuntu siqu, usukulungele ukudlulela ezingeni elilandelayo. Manje sesha ngenhloso izinselelo ezinzima nezinzima ukuthi ubunesibindi sokuphupha esikhathini esedlule kuphela. Manje njengoba usunakho ukuzithiba usulungele ukwenza lawo maphupho agcwaliseke. Usuvele uqale umzila wokukhula ongapheli.
Nquma namuhla ukuthi uthathe umthwalo ngempilo yakho futhi ube nekhono lokuzikhuza.
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