Ukusebenza kanzima akusho ukwenza umsebenzi onzima. Kusho nje sebenzisa isikhathi ngendlela efanele ukufeza izinhloso zakho.
Umhlanganyeli wethu kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-vlvaro Trujillo usikhombisa kule vidiyo ukuthi singafunda kanjani ukuphatha isikhathi sifeze izinhloso zethu.
Ngemuva kwevidiyo uzoba nemininingwane eminingi ngokufunda ukuphatha isikhathi, kodwa ngaphambi kwalokho, ake sizwe ukuthi u-Álvaro uthini:
[Uma unanoma iluphi uhlobo lwenkinga noma ukukhathazeka noma umane ufuna ukufunda ukuphatha isikhathi sakho ngendlela eqondene nawe, ungavakashela ihhovisi lika-Álvaro Trujillo eliku-inthanethi lapha]
Cabanga ukuthi unengane. Uzochitha isikhathi esiningi ushintsha amanabukeni. Kepha lowo akuwona umsebenzi onzima kakhulu; kuyindaba yokwenza umsebenzi ofanayo kaninginingi kaningi ngosuku.
Kunemisebenzi eminingi empilweni engenzima kangako, kepha ngokubambisana idinga i- utshalomali olubalulekile lwesikhathi. Uma ungenaso isiyalo sokukwenza, impilo yakho ingagcina isiyinxushunxushu. Cabanga nje ngazo zonke izinto ezincane okufanele uzenze: ukuthenga, ukupheka, ukuhlanza, ukuwasha izingubo, ukukhokha izikweletu, ukunakekela ikhaya, ukugcina izingane, njll. Futhi lokhu kwenzelwa ikhaya kuphela. Yizinto okufanele zenziwe.
Ukuzikhuza kudinga ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokuchitha isikhathi lapho lidingeka khona. Izinkinga eziningi zidalwa lapho senqaba ukuthatha isikhathi sokwenza okudinga ukwenziwa.
Kwesinye isikhathi kuyacaca ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe. Kwesinye isikhathi akucaci nakancane. Kepha ukungayinaki imfuhlumfuhlu ngeke kusize. Uma ungazi ukuthi wenzeni, isinyathelo sokuqala ukukuqaphela. Lokhu kungadinga ukuthi uzifundise. Ukuqala le bhulogi ezinyangeni ezimbili ezedlule, bekufanele ngithole uchungechunge lolwazi phakathi nonyaka wonke. Ngizinike isikhathi sokuziqeqesha ngokufunda amanye amabhulogi nokuhlola amathuluzi ahlukahlukene ukuze ngithole okuningi kubhulogi yami. Kwakungekho nzima kimi, kepha kudingeka isikhathi esiningi sokutshala imali.
Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi
Kunezinkinga eziningi empilweni lapho isixazululo ikakhulu kungukutshala isikhathi. Uma uhlelo lwakho lwansuku zonke lugcwele ngokweqile, lokhu akuyona inkinga enzima. Ngiyaqinisekisa ukuthi unenhlokodolobha yezobuchwepheshe edingekayo ukuyisingatha. Kuyindaba nje yesikhathi.
Uma ungathola indlela yokugwema ukulungiswa kwesikhathi esisodwa futhi uthole indlela esheshayo noma engcono yokudlula noma yokuqeda inkinga, yisebenzise ngokunenzuzo. Phathisa abanye, yenza okusemandleni akho ukususa umthwalo wesikhathi. Kepha uma wazi ukuthi kuyinto engeke yenziwe ngaphandle kokutshala kwakho isikhathi sakho, mane ukwamukele futhi ukwenze. Ungakhonondi. Ungakhonondi. Kufanele nje ukwenze.
Thuthukisa umkhiqizo wakho
Isikhathi asihlali njalo, kepha ukukhiqiza kwakho uqobo akunjalo. Abanye abantu basebenzisa amahora ezinsuku zabo ngempumelelo kakhulu kunabanye. Kuyamangaza ukuthi abantu basebenzisa imali ethe xaxa ukuthenga ikhompyutha esheshayo noma imoto eyonga uphethiloli, kepha abalokothi banake ukuthuthukisa umkhiqizo wabo. Ukukhiqiza kwakho kuzokusiza kakhulu kunekhompyutha noma imoto. Uma sinika ikhompyutha eneminyaka engu-10 kuhlelo lwekhompyutha olusebenza isikhathi, uzothola okuningi kulo phakathi nonyaka kunomqambi wezinhlelo ovilaphayo onobuchwepheshe obusha bamuva.
Ngaphandle kwabo bonke ubuchwepheshe futhi amagajethi ukuthi sinakho futhi okungasenza sisebenze kahle, umkhiqizo wabantu ufinyelela emazingeni aphansi kakhulu. Musa ukusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe ukukhiqiza kakhulu, kuzosiza ukufihla imikhuba yakho emibi. Kodwa-ke, uma usuvele usebenza kahle ngaphandle kobuchwepheshe, kungakusiza ukuthi usebenze kakhulu. Cabanga ngobuchwepheshe njengamandla aphindaphindayo.
Zama ukuthuthukisa umkhiqizo wakho. Impela uzoba nezinsuku ezingakhiqizi kakhulu kepha ekugcineni ukubekezela kwakho kuzokhokha. Ngicabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi badonseleka emcabangweni wokukhiqiza ngokwengeziwe. Akudingi ukuhlakanipha okuningi ukwazi lokho uma usebenzisa isikhathi sakho kahle uzokwazi ukuqedela imisebenzi eminingi, ngakho-ke imiphumela efiselekayo kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila kwakho izokwanda. Ukukhiqiza komuntu siqu kukuvumela ukuthi wakhe isikhala esanele empilweni yakho ukwenza zonke izinto ozizwa sengathi udinga ukuzenza: udle uphilile, uvivinye umzimba, usebenze kanzima, ujulise ubudlelwano, ube nempilo enhle emphakathini, futhi wenze umehluko. Ngaphandle kwezinga eliphezulu lokukhiqiza komuntu siqu, kuzodingeka ulahle okuthile okubalulekile kuwe. Uzoba nezingxabano phakathi kwempilo nomsebenzi, umsebenzi nomndeni, umndeni nabangane. Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi esihle kungakunika amandla okujabulela zonke lezi zinto, ngakho-ke ngeke kudingeke ukhethe phakathi komsebenzi noma umndeni, noma okuphambene nalokho. Ungaba nakho kokubili.
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