Ukuzindla nokugula kwengqondo

Phakathi kolwazi oluye lwavela mayelana  U-Aaron Alexis (Oneminyaka engama-34 ubudala), indoda esolwa ngokubulala abantu abangu-12 ngesikhathi kudutshulwana ezikhungweni ze-United States Navy, edolobheni laseWashington, yaqokomisa eyodwa: wayengumuntu ozindla njalo.

ukuzindla nokugula kwengqondo

Umuntu owenza umsebenzi wokuzindla, okufanele ngabe ufundile ukugxila emqondweni wakhe, ohlotshaniswa nokwehla kodlame lokuziphatha, kunokuba alukhuthaze, enze kanjani izenzo u-Alexis asolwa ngazo?

U-Alexis wayenomlando wokuziphatha ngobudlova. Ubaba wakhe uthe izinkinga zendodana yakhe zidalwe yintukuthelo ehlobene nengcindezi eyenzeke ngemuva kwenhlekelele, wahlupheka ngemuva kokubamba iqhaza emizamweni yokutakula ngesikhathi kuhlaselwa ngoSepthemba XNUMX eNew York City. Owayengumphathi wakhe, owahlangana no-Alexis ethempelini lamaBuddha edolobheni laseTexas iFort Worth, uthe wayengumuntu ophuza kakhulu futhi wayehambela imikhuba yokuzindla njalo yalesi sikhungo.

Iningi labantu libona ukuzindla kuyinto eyisicefe futhi engenangozi., kepha njengoba izifundo, kubantu abakwenzayo, ziqala ukukhombisa ukuthi lo mkhuba ungasiza kanjani ekulweni nengcindezi, umfutho wegazi, ukulutheka nezinye izifo eziningi zengqondo nezomzimba, futhi kuya ngokuya Kuliqiniso Ukuzindla akuhluphi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ikakhulukazi uma kusetshenziselwa umongo lapho kukhona ukugula kwengqondo.

Umagazini i-Time ubike ukuthi: Abantu abanokucindezeleka noma okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu bangakhathazeka ngokwengeziwe ngesikhathi sokuzindla, noma imikhuba yabo ingagcwaliswa ngemicabango, imizwa, nezithombe zangaphambilini.

Kungakho ifayili le- Umcwaningi wase-University of Washington uSarah Bowen uphakamisa ukuthi abantu abanezinkinga zokudangala noma zokuhlukumezeka, abafuna ukuzuza ngokuzindla, kufanele ibhekane nokuholwa ngongoti. "Uma unamathela kwezinye izizindlo, kunezindlela zokusebenza nalokho," esho, "Kubalulekile ukuba nothisha abajwayelene kakhulu nokuzindla ukuze bakuqondise kulo mkhuba." Ochwepheshe bangazisa abantu ukuthi yini abangayilindela, futhi banikeze ukusekelwa okungokomzwelo ukubasiza bakwazi ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima.

Isazi sezinzwa zeBrown University uDkt.Willoughby Britton, oshicilele i- ucwaningo olubonisa ukuthi ukuzindla kungasetshenziswa kanjani ekwelapheni ukucindezelekaUqhuba lokho akubiza ngokuthi yiphrojekthi ye- "Dark Night", ehlola izingxenye ezinzima zomkhuba wokuzindla.

UBritton uphefumulelwe ukuthi enze ucwaningo lwakhe ngeziguli ezimbili azelaphe ngenkathi ehlala engqondweni, zombili ezazibamba iqhaza ekuzindleni futhi kwadingeka ukuthi zilaliswe esibhedlela ngenxa yezimpawu ezaziba nazo ngenkathi zisebenza. Kamuva waya e-retreat, wazibonela ukuthi kunjani ukulandela ukuzindla nokumletha esimweni sengqondo esedlulele nesibuhlungu. Njengoba achaza kwinhlolokhono: “Bengicabanga ukuthi ngilahlekelwe yingqondo, ukuthi benginokuphazamiseka kwemizwa. Ngangingazi ukuthi kungani ngangikuzwa konke lokho ngokuzumayo, ukwesaba ngaleso sikhathi kwakuyisibonakaliso sami esikhulu "

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi wakufunda lokho ukukhathazeka ngokweqile, ukwesaba, nobuhlungu obungokomzwelo kungaba yizigaba ngaphakathi kokuzindla, ezaziwa kakhulu eMpumalanga, kepha ukuthi lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo kungaholela ezimpawu ezinzima ngokwanele ukuqinisekisa ukuxilongwa kwengqondo.

Yize ucwaningo lukaBritton lungakashicilelwa, kunama-anecdotes anele mayelana nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okumnyama, emibhalweni yokuzindla, ukuphakamisa ukuqapha ekunikezeleni lo mkhuba kwabagula ngengqondo kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuqondiswa okufanele.

Yize kungenzeki ukwazi umthelela okungenzeka ukuthi waba nawo, kepha kuyaziwa ukuthi kunakho, umkhuba wokuzindla ngezifo zengqondo zika-Alexis. Kuyacaca ukuthi iningi lama- izindlela zokwelapha nemikhuba enamandla anele okuba nemiphumela emihle nayo iyakwazi ukwenza okubi uma zisetshenziswe ngokungeyikho nakubantu abangazilungiselelanga, noma ezingakhonjisiwe kulo mkhuba.

Lapho sibhekene nomkhuba wokuzindla, isimo sethu sengqondo akudingeki sehluke esimweni sengqondo esinaso nganoma yini enye empilweni. Empilweni yethu yansuku zonke uma senza okuthile okungasenzi sizizwe kahle, siyayeka ukukwenza bese sibheka enye indlela, noma siyilahle; Enkambisweni yokuzindla akudingeki yehluke: umuntu uzinqumela yena ukuthi ngabe akwenzayo kumlungele yini futhi ufuna ukuqhubeka nokukwenza. Yize kunconywa iseluleko somuntu ochwepheshe noma uchwepheshe kulo mkhuba, asisoze sathatha indawo yethu. Fuente

[11/10/2013 0:00] alvaro gomez

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