Ulaka isenzo ngenhloso yokulimaza umuntu, Kungaba ngokuhlaselwa ngokomzimba noma ngamazwi, ukuthukwa noma ukusongelwa, kubukeka futhi kuyindlela yokugcina ukuthula emphakathini phakathi kwezinhlobo eziningi zezilwane.
Kunezinhlobo ezimbili ulaka: la insimbi futhi inzondo, eyokuqala iqondiswa ukufinyelela enhlosweni bese inzondo ifuna ukulimaza omunye umuntu.
Ukuzithiba kubalulekile ekhonweni lokulawula ukusebenza futhi ikhono lokuvimbela izenzo eziphazamisa umgomo, liqala ukwakha cishe iminyaka emibili yokuphila Kuyikhono elibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yansuku zonke futhi liyisisekelo ekuhlalisaneni nomphakathi. Ukuntuleka kokuzithiba kuhlotshaniswa namazinga aphezulu obudlova.
Ufuzo nemvelo kunquma indlela umuntu aziphatha ngayo, kuvela enhlanganisweni phakathi kwalokhu, ngakho-ke isimilo esinolaka sinezimbangela zofuzo nezemvelo:
Izisekelo zezinto eziphilayo:
-Uhlelo lwe-Hipothalamus idlala indima ebalulekile ekuhlaseleni, ngokusho kophenyo oluningi, ukugqugquzela endaweni yaso eseceleni kungadala ukuhlukunyezwa futhi ukuvuselelwa endaweni yaso yangaphakathi kungadala ulaka oluthintekayo, kanye nolunye endaweni yalo engasemuva, kungadala impendulo yendiza.
-Lamalakaa ihlobene nokuziphatha okuvikelayo, okufana nentukuthelo noma ulaka, ukulimala kule ndawo kudala ukwehla kobudlova nokuthokozela okungokomzwelo.
-Ama-hormone we-Gonadal njenge-testosterone, nazo zihlobene kakhulu nolaka.
-I-Serotonin ngemithamo ephansi kunciphisa imithamo ephansi ye-serotonin yehlisa ikhono lokuphatha ikhono lokulawula izimo ezingokomzwelo, kukholelwa ukuthi ngokunciphisa le neurotransmitter, Kuphinde kunciphise amandla okuzwela uzwela, okusiza ukulawula izifiso zodlame.
Isazi sokuziphatha uLorenz ukhuluma ngemvelo ekuziphatheni kwezilwane, uthi ihlobene nezinkomba ezine eziyinhloko okungukuthi ukwesaba, indlala, ulaka nobulili nokuthi lezi zimoto ziyahlukahluka phakathi kwezinhlobo.
Fabalingisi bezemvelo
Hay imibono yokuthi khombisa ukuthi isimilo esinolaka sifundwa ngezici ezahlukahlukene ezinjenge inhlangano, (impendulo yokukhuthaza yokufunda), isimo sokusebenza noma sokusebenza (imivuzo yandisa impendulo eyodwa), aUkufunda ngomphakathi (Ngokubheka o mbumbulu), oaUkufunda kwengqondo.
Ngokusho kukaBandaura, ukubonakaliswa kobudlova kuyahluka kuye ngeminyaka. Abasafunda esikoleni bavame ukushaya, ukuluma noma ukukhahlela, bayadelela, bayaphikisana, bayabhubhisa futhi ababekezeleli. Amazinga okuhlukumezeka ancipha ngeminyaka yobudala cnini izingane ziba nozwela ngokwengeziwe.
Abesilisa bavame ukusebenzisa kakhulu uhlobo lokuhlukumeza ngokomzimba, kuyilapho abesifazane besebenzisa kakhulu ukuhlukumeza ngamazwi nobudlelwano.
SUyazi ukuthi ulaka lunezimbangela eziningi. Ezinganeni, kubalulekile ukugxila ezintweni zokuvimbela, njenge: ukukhuthaza inhlonipho kwabanye, ukulinganisa umehluko, gcina ubuhlobo be inkhulumomphendvulwano nge kubo, baqaphe izinhlelo zethelevishini abadalulwa kuzo, bakhuthaze imisebenzi enempilo yokuzijabulisa futhi babafundise ukulawula imizwa yabo enolaka.