Wonke umuntu ucela ukubonisana lapho abantu kudingeka ukuthi bacabange futhi bazindle ukuze bafinyelele eziphethweni noma ezahlulelweni ezahlukahlukene zesimo esithile. Isizathu yingxabano yokuthi umuntu kufanele akwazi ukufakazela okuthile noma ancenge omunye umuntu ngezimpikiswano zabo. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuba nephutha empikiswaneni futhi kwesinye isikhathi, akuhlali kunjalo futhi banephutha.
Isizathu nokuziqhenya nakho kuyahambisana. Ezikhathini eziningi lapho abantu befuna ukulunga ngazo zonke izindlela, ukuziqhenya akubavumeli ukuthi babone amanye amathuba futhi bavala ibhendi ngaphandle kokukwazi ukubheka umbono. Isizathu futhi singaba imbangela enqumayo yokuziphatha kumuntu. Kulokhu besiyobe sikhuluma ngokubonisana futhi kunganciphisa (isiphetho sifakiwe endaweni) noma i-inductive (kuneziphetho mayelana nokuthile okuthile).
Isizathu
Lapho umuntu ethanda ukucabanga, usebenzisa izimiso bese ethatha ukuthi lokho akukholelwayo kuyiqiniso. Sebenzisa i-logic ukuthola imithetho yezizathu, njengokucabanga ngomgomo wobunikazi (umqondo ngumqondo), umgomo wokungangqubuzani (umqondo ofanayo ungaba futhi ungabi ngasikhathi sinye) noma umgomo okukhishiwe kwesithathu (ukuthi phakathi kokuba nokungabi ngumqondo, asikho isikhala sesimo esiphakathi). Ngalo mqondo, okufunwa yisizathu somuntu ukunikeza ukuhlangana kwezinto ngomqondo.
Ukucabanga kuvame ukucatshangwa ukuthi kuphambene ngqo nomuzwa. Isibonelo esijwayelekile se-intuition umbono wokuqala esiwenzayo lapho sihlangana nomuntu omusha. Kufika engqondweni ngokuzenzekelayo futhi ngokushesha futhi, ezimweni eziningi, asikwazi ukukhomba ukuthi kungani sicabanga ukuthi lo muntu muhle, kanti lo muntu mhlawumbe akekho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, lapho abantu becabanga ngokubonisana, bacabanga, ngokwesibonelo, ukuxazulula izinkinga zezibalo ekilasini: inqubo ehamba kancane, esebenzayo neqondayo. Abantu, okungenani abaseNtshonalanga, nabo bacabanga ukuthi ukucabanga kuvame ukusebenza kahle kune-intuition; Ngemuva kwakho konke, kungani udabula kuyo yonke leyo nkinga ukucabanga uma umphumela ungcono kunama-intuition?
Ama-intuition angabangani bokucabanga
Ama-intuition kufanele asheshe, angasebenzi, angaqulekile, ancike kakhulu kwimemori yokusebenza, futhi athambekele emaphutheni nasekucheleni. Ukubonisana kufanele kuhamba kancane, ngomzamo, nangokwazi okugcwele.
Ngenkathi ukwakheka kwama-intuition kungaphansi noma ngaphansi kwe-situ, lokho kokucabanga kusekelwe ekusetshenzisweni kokucabanga kokuzenzela. Cabanga ukuthi kufanele ubeke imemori. Ungacabanga ngokuzivocavoca okubukhali nokuzikhandla kokuzama ukukhumbula uchungechunge olude lwezinombolo ezingahleliwe. Noma ungacabanga ngememori ezenzakalelayo yokuthi ungafika kanjani endlini yakho noma ukuthi ungubani igama lakho.
Ama-intuition amaningi enziwa ukukhumbula, ukuhlunga, nokufuna inkumbulo yokusebenza: funda uma uzama ukuqonda umbhalo obhalwe kabi kakhulu, usesho olubonakalayo uma ufuna ubuso obuthile phakathi kwenani elikhulu labantu, njll. Uhlobo lwe-intuition yilokho okufanele sigxile kukho. Yindlela eyenza ukuthi uhlobo olufuna kakhulu lube nokwenzeka. Ngokulunga ekucabangeni, kufanele futhi sicabangele isisho sayo esilula, isinyathelo esincane kunazo zonke esingalungela ukucabanga.
Ukuze uyiqonde kangcono
U-Lucia noMarcos abavumelani nge-movie okufanele bayibone namhlanje kusihlwa. ULucia uthi, "Ukhethe i-movie ngesonto eledlule, ngakho-ke kuleli sonto yithuba lami." UMarcos uyaphendula: "Kulungile, ithuba lakho lokukhetha." Lokhu kushintshana kuyinto encane, kepha kusadinga ukubonisana. U-Lucia kufanele akwazi ukuthola isizathu sokuthi kungani kufanele kube nguye onquma ukuthi iyiphi i-movie azoyibuka. UMarcos kufanele akwazi ukuhlola lesi sizathu futhi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ulunge ngokwanele ukuthi anikeze ithuba.
Uma sibheka lokhu kukhonjiswa okuncane kokucabanga, siyabona ukuthi, empeleni, kubukeka kufana ne-intuition. Kwenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu: noLucía noma uMarcos abadingi ukuma imizuzu embalwa ukuze bacabange ngamandla athi "Ngesonto eledlule ukhethe i-movie, ngakho-ke kuleli sonto sekuyithuba lami." Akuthathi mzamo omkhulu noma inkumbulo yokusebenza ukuqoqa ingxoxo enjalo, ingasaphathwa eyokuyihlola. Okubalulekile, abantu abazi ngempela ukuthi kungani le mpikiswano ikholisa. Kususelwa emibonweni yokulunga esingenakupela yona kalula, nokuthi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zisazama ukuqonda. Noma isizathu sicutshungulwa ngokuqaphela, indlela okusetshenzwa ngayo igcinwa inganakile.
Ngaphandle kokuthi lingashesha, lingasebenzi, futhi lingazi lutho ngokwengxenye, ukucabanga kwabelana ngesinye isici esibalulekile ngama-intuition: iphethini yokusebenza kwayo. Esikhundleni sokungaphutha, isizathu singaphansi kokuchema okuhlelekile, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuchema kokuqinisekisa. Eqinisweni, ukucabanga kufana kakhulu nomuzwa wokuthi kunembe kakhudlwana ukusho ukuthi ukucabanga kunembile kakhulu. Noma, kunalokho, lokho kucabanga kususelwa kusethi yamandla: ukucabanga kudonsela kuma-intuition mayelana nokuthi yisiphi isizathu esihle sokwamukela isiphetho esinikeziwe. Sine-intuition yokuthi uma uMarcos akhethe i-movie ngesonto eledlule, U-Lucia angakusebenzisa lokho njengesizathu sokukhetha i-movie kuleli sonto.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukucabanga kanye nomuzwa kungaba ngabangani ababambana ngezandla, ngoba bobabili bayadingeka ukuze bakwazi ukuphendula empikiswaneni lapho izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zemicabango kufanele zivunyelwe ngokubonisana. Ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu kumele kwaziwe ukuthi ukuhlala ulungile akuwona umqondo omuhle, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi, ukuhlala ngokuthula nangokuzwana ngokwakho kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho dlala imidlalo yamagama ukuthola ukuthi ngubani oqinisile odabeni olunikeziwe.
