Kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi, abantu abaningi bajwayelekile, abanye bayesabeka, kanti abanye bahlukile. Yini eyenza umehluko?
Eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu edlule, ucwaningo luhlolisise ukuthi abantu baba kanjani ochwepheshe beqiniso noma ngabe kwezemidlalo, i-chess, umculo, ubudokotela, ...
Akukona okuphathelene nethalente.
Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kudinga ithalente elikhethekile ukuze ufaneleke kakhulu endaweni ethile. Kunobufakazi bokuthi i-IQ imvamisa iyinkomba efanelekile yokusebenza komsebenzi.
Noma kunjalo, kunobufakazi bokuthi Ukusebenza okuphezulu kudinga ukwenziwa okubanzi futhi ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi abantu abakhethwe "njengabajwayelekile" ngokukhethekile bangaba namakhono aphakeme emikhakheni eminingi ngokuqeqeshwa okufanele.
Isiphetho ukuthi ukuze uphumelele kufanele ubheke kulokho okungathuthukiswa, esikhundleni sokukhathazeka ngokuthi sinamakhono anele yini noma cha.
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abantu abaningi bahlala bethuthukisa ukusebenza kwabo kwemisebenzi phakathi neminyaka yabo yokuqala yokuqala yesipiliyoni sendima ethile endimeni ethile. Ngemuva kwalokho, abanye abantu bayaqhubeka nokuthuthuka, abanye bayama, kanti abanye baqala ukuzizwa bebi kakhulu.
Kungani abantu beyeka ukuthuthuka? Ukuzijwayeza akuwenzi njalo uchwepheshe:
- Ukuzilolonga kufanele kube njalo futhi kufune ukuthuthuka. Uma uhlala wenza izinto ngendlela efanayo, lapho-ke uzoma. Abantu abaningi bafinyelela ezingeni lokusebenza "elamukelekayo" futhi bayeke ukwenza imizamo ngamabomu yokuthuthuka. Umphathi, yena akabagqugquzeli abasebenzi bakhe ukuthi benze kangcono.
Isihluthulelo sokwenza kahle: umkhuba ofuna ukuthuthuka.
Lowo mkhuba ohlale ufuna ukuwuthuthukisa uzokusiza ukuba ube nguchwepheshe. Wenza amakhono akho ezingeni eliphakeme kancane, ngokuqhubekayo uziphonsela inselelo yokwenza kangcono. Kubonakala ngezinhloso ezithile, umeluleki omuhle, ukuqhubeka ngokuhlelekile, nezimo ezivumela inqubekela phambili:
1) Izinhloso ezithile:
Nquma kahle ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyithuthukisa nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ukuyifeza. Izinhloso zakho kufanele zehlukaniswe zibe yizinyathelo ezincane ongazizuza esikhathini esifushane futhi ngaleyo ndlela ugweme ukudumazeka kwengqondo.
2) Umeluleki omuhle.
Umeluleki omuhle okuhlinzeka ngolwazi olusheshayo, olubambekayo nolunembile kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni okuqhubekayo, futhi akulula ukuthola.
Emsebenzini, lo meluleki kunalokho ubhekisa kozakwabo onolwazi owaziyo ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukusebenza kahle. Ngeshwa, akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthola abantu obathembayo abazokunikeza imininingwane eyiyo yokuthi uthuthuka kanjani futhi bazokukhuthaza.
3) Ukuqhubeka okuhlelekile.
Lapho wazi kahle indawo, sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo esilandelayo. Le nqubo yokuvuselela kufanele ibe njalo futhi yiyo ezokuholela ekufinyeleleni kwezinhloso zesikhathi eside.
Ividiyo, i-baseball batter, ileveli yochwepheshe 😀