Ngabe ufuna ukuzibambela wena? Akulula, futhi kuyisifiso esingatholakali kuwo wonke umuntu. Kodwa-ke, kungumgomo ongaba nomvuzo omkhulu kwabanye abantu.
Nawa amanye amathiphu wokukusiza ukuthi ube ngumphathi wakho.
1) Thola ukuthi yini oyithandayo.
Kungaba okuphelele uma ukwazi thola uthando lwakho ulubeke ekusebenzeleni abanye abantu. Thola okuthile okwazi kahle futhi okwengeza inani kwabanye.
2) Gxila kokuthi "kungani."
Cabanga, kungani ufuna ukuziphathela. Kufanele ube nesizathu esiphoqelelayo, esizwakalayo, nesomuntu siqu sokukusiza ukhuthazele lapho kufika izikhathi ezinzima.
Ngeminye imininingwane yokuthola ukuthi kungani, hlola le nkulumo ye-TED kaSimon Sinek.
3) Yiba owesabekayo umphathi wakho wesikhathi.
Kubalulekile ukuthi uhlele ukuthi uzosisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sakho ngokunenzuzo. Kubalulekile ukuthi izinsuku zihambe nokuthi ibhizinisi lakho liqhubekele phambili, esikhundleni sokubanjwa "ukukhubazeka ngokuhlaziywa" okungakhiqizi.
Indlela elula yokuqalisa ukuthuthukisa amakhono akho okuphatha isikhathi ukuchitha imizuzu embalwa ubhala ubusuku ngabunye uhlelo lokuzama usuku olulandelayo. Lokhu kungakusiza uhlale ulandela imigomo yakho futhi unciphise isikhathi osichitha ezintweni ezingabalulekile.
4) Lungiselela ukuthatha isenzo.
Abantu abaningi basibukela phansi isenzo esidingekayo ukuze baphumelele ebhizinisini labo. Uma uzimisele ukuba ngumphathi wakho, lungiselela ukuthatha isinyathelo maqondana nezinhloso zakho (thatha isinqumo bese wenza okuthile).
Kuzofanele wenze lapho wesaba, lapho ukhathele, lapho uzizwa ukhungathekile futhi nalapho uzingabaza.
Ungaba nemibono emihle, kepha uma ungathathi isinyathelo, ngeke uwafeze amaphupho akho.
5) Yiba nesiko lezezimali.
Ukuze ube ngumphathi wakho, kubalulekile ukuthi ube nokuqonda okuhle kwezezimali. Ukuqonda isimo sezezimali sebhizinisi lakho kungakusiza wenze izinqumo zebhizinisi elihlakaniphile. Yini enye, Ukulandelela ukubalwa kwezimali kwakho kuzokusiza ukuthi unqume lapho unganciphisa khona izindleko, ungagxilisa kuphi imizamo yakho nokuthi iziphi izinsizakalo zakho ezinenzuzo enkulu.
6) Thuthukisa umqondo wokuphumelela.
Kuzofanele uphume endaweni yakho yokududuza kaninginingi. Kuzofanele ufunde ukwenza yize unokwesaba, funda ukukhuthazela lapho ulwa nobunzima, futhi ucabange kahle.
Kuzofanele ufunde ukubhekana nokuhlehlisa izinto futhi wenze izinto ezikwesabisayo. Ukwakha umqondo ophumelelayo kungathatha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo, kepha kungathuthukisa kakhulu ibhizinisi lakho.
7) Yakha ubudlelwano obuhle namakhasimende akho nabalingani bakho.
Kubalulekile ukugxila ekusebenzeleni abanye nokwakha ubudlelwano namakhasimende akho nabalingani bakho. Ukuletha inani elikhulu ngesevisi enhle yamakhasimende kuzokusiza wakhe ibhizinisi lakho.
Ukuphumelela kwakho kule mpilo kuncike kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bakho nabanye. Uma lobu budlelwano buhle, indlela yakho yokuphila nokwenza kwakho kuzothuthuka kakhulu. Fuente