Izikhathi eziningi izithiyo azikho ngaphandle kodwa kuthina uqobo.
Igoli lingaba nzima kepha uma unakekela ulimi lwakho lwangaphakathi kuzobiza kakhulu. Ngemicabango ekhuthazayo efana nokuthi "Ngizoyenza," umgomo ubheka eduze.
Ukuhlelwa kwe-Neurolinguistic (I-NLP), elinye lamagatsha amasha we-psychology futhi elinikeza imiphumela emihle kangaka, lihlobene kakhulu nolimi lwangaphakathi. Eqinisweni, i-NLP isetshenziswa kakhulu ngumgqugquzeli omkhulu u-Anthony Robbins.
Lesi sithombe ngakwesobunxele sifingqa kahle kakhulu uhlobo lwemicabango yangaphakathi esingaba nayo maqondana nokufeza inhloso. Noma ngabe kunzima kangakanani umgomo ungalokothi ubeke izithiyo ngendlela yakho.
Hlela, hlukanisa leyo nhloso enkulu ibe yizinhloso ezincane futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, zikhuthaze ngolimi lwakho lwangaphakathi. Lapho inhloso ilukhuni ngokwengeziwe, izokunikeza ukwaneliseka okwengeziwe ukuyifeza.