Usuku lwe-10: Khuluma Nekusasa Lakho

Uyemukelwa kule Nselelo ngezinsuku ezingama-21 zokuqala zikaJanuwari.

Namuhla nguJanuwari 10 futhi lona ngumsebenzi weshumi okufanele uwengeze kokudlule: khuluma nomuntu wakho wesikhathi esizayo.

Zilungiselele, uzozithola amathiphu amahle kakhulu wokuthi ungaphila kanjani impilo ephelele kusukela esandleni sokuthi ngubani okwazi kangcono: ngokwakho. Uzothola izeluleko ezivela kuwe ngokuzayo.

Isinyathelo 1: Zibone ngeso lengqondo eminyakeni engama-20 noma engama-30 kusukela manje.

Thola indawo ethule nephephile, lapho ungeke uphazanyiswe khona:

Ake uzicabange uneminyaka engu-70 ubudala. Kube impilo yonke futhi uthole ulwazi, ufunde emaphutheni owenzile futhi wafunda ukugxila ezintweni ezibaluleke ngempela. Uzuze konke lokho kuhlakanipha ngemuva kokuphila iminyaka engama-70.

Zibone ngemininingwane enkulu: isitayela sakho sezinwele, uma unezinwele ezisele 🙂, izingubo zakho, ubuso bakho, ukubukeka kwakho, ukubukeka kwakho,… Uzibona kanjani? Yini lowo muntu akudlulisela kuwe?

Isinyathelo 2: Khuluma nomuntu wakho wesikhathi esizayo.

Ukuba kwakho kusukela esikhathini esizayo kunakho ukuhlakanipha okudingekayo ukukululeka ngokuhle noma okubi kuwe, okufanele ukugweme nokuthi yini okudingeka ukwenze.

Qala ukukhuluma naye noma naye ukuze uthole iseluleko usebenzisa imibuzo elandelayo njengesiqondiso:

1) Ngabe ukwazile ukuphila impilo egculisayo? Uwafezile amaphupho akho? Yini oyenzile ukufeza amaphupho anjalo? Kungani ungakafiki ezinhlosweni ezithile ozibekele zona?

2) Yini okhiye bokuzuza impilo oyifunayo? Yini okufanele ugxile kuyo?

3) Ngabe kufanele ngiguqule noma yikuphi ukuziphatha? Yisiphi isimo sengqondo okufanele ngibe naso ukuze ngizizwe nganelisekile?

4) Ngabe ufuna nginakekele ngokukhethekile okuthile ngokukhethekile?

Ngalolu hlobo lokuzivocavoca uyaqaphela yini ebaluleke ngempela empilweni futhi uyabona ukuthi kufanele ushintshe imikhuba ethile engakulimaza. Uthatha umbono omusha ngempilo.

Yebo, kuze kube manje umsebenzi wesikole wanamuhla. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi I-Loles saiz (enginaye enginaye ku-Facebook) uzothanda lo msebenzi wokuzazisa 😉

Ngiyakukhumbula imisebenzi eyi-9 edlule:

1) Usuku Lokuqala: Phuza izingilazi eziyisishiyagalombili zamanzi

2) Usuku lwesibili: yidla izingcezu zezithelo ezi-5 ngosuku

3) Usuku lwesithathu: Yenza uhlelo lokudla

4) Usuku 4: Lala amahora angu-8 ngosuku

5) Usuku 5: Ungagxeki noma wahlulele abanye

6) Usuku 6: Vuka ekuseni njalo ekuseni

7) Usuku 7: Buyekeza futhi uqinise imisebenzi

8) Usuku 8: Yenza uhlobo oluthile lokuzivocavoca umzimba

9) Usuku 9: Ukuzindla