Siyakwamukela ku umsebenzi 11 kulenyanga kaJanuwari (ekugcineni kwendatshana uneminye imisebenzi eyi-10).
Izolo Senze ukuzivocavoca nge-surreal okusisizile ukuthi sigxile ezintweni esizifunayo ngempela. Izikhathi eziningi siyaphambuka endleleni futhi lolu hlobo lokuzivocavoca luvame ukuza kahle ukugxila.
Ngalo Januwari 11 sizokwenza kanjalo thola amagugu ethu. Usukulungele? 🙂
Sizokhomba ukuthi umeleni njengomuntu.
Ukukhonjwa kwamavelu akho.
Uyazi ukuthi yiziphi izindinganiso zakho?
Amanani yizimfanelo esizibheka njengezibaluleke kakhulu kithi. Isibonelo, ubuqotho, umthwalo wemfanelo nokwethembeka yizindinganiso kubantu abaningi. Ukukhuthala kuyigugu elibaluleke kakhulu kusiko lase-Asia. Ububele kwakuyigugu elivelele kuMama Teresa. Impumelelo nokwenza kahle yizindinganiso zabaphumelele njengoBill Gates noSteve Jobs.
Uma amanani akho eyi ukwethembeka, ubuqotho nothando Kusho ukuthi kufanele ulwele ukuba ngumuntu othembeke ngokuphelele kwabanye, ogcwele ubuqotho (ongaqambi amanga, othuka abanye, njll.) Nothando (ububele obukhonjiswa kukho konke okwenzayo; ukusabalalisa ubuningi nenjabulo). Uma amanani akho eyi isibopho, ukuphana nokuzidela kusho ukuthi uzolwela ukuba nesibopho ngokuphelele, uphe imizwa nezenzo zakho futhi ubeke abanye ngaphambi kwakho.
Wonke umuntu uneqoqo le- amanani asiqondisa ngokungazi empilweni nsuku zonke: kwesinye isikhathi siyabazi, kwesinye isikhathi asibazi. Indlela elula yokucabanga ngamanani akho ukucabanga nge Ngifanele.
Ngoba amanani akho amele okubalulekile kuwe, futhi kuyizinto ozozilwela, ngokulahlekelwa yikho konke okunye. Cabanga nje ngesosha elizimisele ukufela izwe lalo empini. Lelo inani le- ukuthanda izwe. Isisebenzi esivame ukusebenza isikhathi esengeziwe ukuze senze umsebenzi ongcono. Lokho ngamanani we ukukhuthala nokuzibophezela.
Amagugu ami empilweni (1) ukwenza kahle (2) uthando (3) ukuba ngubaba (4) ubuqiniso
1) Ukuvelela
Ukuvelela kungumongo wokuthi ngingubani nokuthi ngenzani. Ngakho-ke, ibhulogi ibizwa ngokuthi Ukukhula komuntu. Sonke, ngokwesibonelo, sinamandla amakhulu angenamkhawulo, kungaba yiphutha ukungazami ukwenza okusemandleni ethu.
2) Ukukhathazeka.
I-Passion imele ukugxila ezintweni engizithandayo. Phila, khula, usize abanye bakhule, yiba nezingane zami, phila. Ngicabanga ukuthi impilo imayelana nokwenza izinto ozithandayo, hhayi izinto ezikuphoqayo, ezingasho lutho noma ezingenalutho.
3) Ubaba.
Njengamanje, into ebaluleke kakhulu enginayo empilweni yizingane zami. Ukuba ngumzali kungishaye kabuhlungu futhi izingane zami sezintshontshe inhliziyo yami. Kimi kungumsebenzi ukuzama ukuba ngubaba ohamba phambili, enye into ukuthi ngiyakufinyelela 😉
4) Ubuqiniso.
Ngithanda abantu bangempela, basekuqaleni, abangajwayelekile, abangaphansi kokujwayelekile komphakathi.
Lawa ngamanani ayisisekelo ama-4 engiwabona empilweni yami futhi ayingxenye yosuku lwami usuku nosuku.
Ungazibona kanjani izindinganiso zakho?
1) Cabanga ngesiqu sakho "esihle": Kunjani? Amagobolondo ubuntu bakhe. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ubone amanani owafunayo ngempilo yakho.
2) Izikhathi zokucasulwa: Yiziphi izehlakalo esikhathini esedlule ezikukhathaze kakhulu? Kungani bekuhlupha?
Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ubone ukuthi yini ongayifuni empilweni yakho, yibo izimbangi.
3) Izikhathi zenjabulo: Ngabe kukhona umzuzu esikhathini sokugcina lapho ubujabule kakhulu / ujabulile / uziqhenya ngawe? Kungani? Yini le ekwenze wazizwa ngale ndlela? Lezi zimo yizo ezixhuma kumanani akho.
Yebo, ngineposi elibanzi futhi elibukwayo (lezithombe) engithemba ukuthi lizokusiza.
Ngikukhumbuza ngemisebenzi eyi-10 edlule:
1) Usuku Lokuqala: Phuza izingilazi eziyisishiyagalombili zamanzi
2) Usuku lwesibili: yidla izingcezu zezithelo ezi-5 ngosuku
3) Usuku lwesithathu: Yenza uhlelo lokudla
4) Usuku 4: Lala amahora angu-8 ngosuku
5) Usuku 5: Ungagxeki noma wahlulele abanye
6) Usuku 6: Vuka ekuseni njalo ekuseni
7) Usuku 7: Buyekeza futhi uqinise imisebenzi
8) Usuku 8: Yenza uhlobo oluthile lokuzivocavoca umzimba
10) Usuku lwe-10: Khuluma Nekusasa Lakho