Ngake ngafunda isifundo somuntu owayekhathalela ukunakekela asebekhulile. Lowo wesifazane wathi abantu, lapho beshona, bamemezela ukuthi bafisa ukuthi babe nesibindi esithe xaxa sokuphila ngendlela ababefuna ngayo hhayi njengoba abanye abantu babelindele kubo.
Usenesikhathi soku phila impilo oyifunayo ngokwenza izinqumo ezifanele. Impela uzoba nokuthile empilweni yakho okungasebenzi kahle. Mhlawumbe isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokwenza ushintsho oluthile.
Zibuze lo mbuzo olandelayo: "Yini engahambi kahle ngempilo yami?"
Ingxenye enkulu yempilo yakho ingumphumela walokho obe ugxile kukho. Uma ungathandi okuthile, sekuyisikhathi sokukhetha okuhlukile. Ungesabi ukudedela izindlela zakho zakudala uqale phansi namhlanje. Kuyithuba elisha lokwakha kabusha okufunayo ngempela.
Ngikushiya lapha 5 izicupho ezingokomzwelo:
1) Ungaphumi endaweni yakho yokududuza.
Ngokuphuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka, uthola ukuthi yini okwazi ukuyenza ngempela. Izithiyo zimane zikubeke esivivinyweni. Khumbula ukuthi abantu abanamandla kakhulu yilabo abezwa ubuhlungu, babemukele futhi bafunde kubo. Emanxebeni abo bathola ukuhlakanipha nokukhula komuntu siqu.
Ividiyo: "Phuma endaweni yokunethezeka"
2) Ukuzisola ngesikhathi esedlule.
Ungazivumeli ulawulwe okwedlule. Mhlawumbe ubungakwenza ngokuhlukile, noma mhlawumbe ungakwenzi. Kunoma ikuphi ngeke usakwazi ukushintsha okwedlule ngakho gxila ekwenzeni ngcono okukhona manje. Xolela labo bantu abake bakulimaza futhi uzikhulule ebubini obukhulu kangaka.
3) Yenza izaba.
Ubuvila bungabonakala buhle, kodwa ukuzinikela nomsebenzi kuholela ekwanelisekeni nasenjabulweni yesikhathi eside. Uma ufuna ngempela ukwenza okuthile, uzothola indlela, futhi uma ungafuni ngempela, uzothola izaba.
4) Gxila kulokho ongenakho.
Awusoze waba nesikhathi esanele, izinsiza, noma imali eyanele. Ngokushesha noma kamuva uzokuqonda lokho Akubalulekile lokho oswele khona, kodwa ukuthi wenzani ngalokho onakho.
Abantu abajabule kakhulu futhi abaphumelele kakhulu akubona abanenhlanhla kodwa bamane bakusebenzise kangcono lokho abanakho. Isizathu esenza abantu abaningi balahle ithemba yingoba bagxila kulokho abangenakho.
5) Ukwesaba ukwehluleka.
Uma wesaba kakhulu ukwehluleka, awusoze wazuza okuthile okufanele ngempela. Isifiso sakho se phumelela Kufanele ukwazi kahle ukwesaba kwakho ukwehluleka.
Yamukela lokho onakho, beka eceleni ukwesaba kwakho futhi ube nokholo kulokho ongakufeza. Nakanjani uzoba namaphutha amaningi futhi uzozwa ubuhlungu obukhulu, kepha empilweni, amaphutha akwenze uhlakaniphe futhi ubuhlungu bukuqinisa.
Ngezansi: ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngamaphutha akho ngoba ezinye zezinto ezinhle kakhulu esizidala empilweni zivela kuzinguquko esizenzayo ngemuva kokwehluleka.
Sawubona Daniel,
Ngiyakuhalalisela ngeseluleko esihle osinika sona, kepha ungasisebenzisa kanjani? Kuyaziwa vele ukuthi kusuka kushiwo eqinisweni kunendlela ende! Okuthunyelwe okunemibuzo ngokufaka imibono emikhulu kungaba kuhle.
Ngiyabonga kakhulu futhi!
Sawubona Daniel!
Ngikuthande kakhulu okuthunyelwe kwakho. Ngokwami kunokuthile okungihlulekayo, futhi kuhlobene nendiza yokusebenza. Njengamanje angisawenzi umsebenzi wami futhi ngizizwa nginomuzwa wokuthi "ngikhathele" futhi nginesithukuthezi ngawo, yize izimo zami zokusebenza zingezinhle nakancane ... angikwesabi ukushintsha, noma ukwehluleka, noma ukulwela ukuzuza okuthile Futhi, ngilangazelele ... Kunenkinga eyodwa "encane" futhi lokho ukuthi angazi ukuthi ngifuna ukwenzani ...
Sawubona David, okokuqala, ngiyabonga ngokungibhalela.
Ngikholwa ukuthi kuyinto ejwayelekile, kuyo yonke imisebenzi, iqiniso lokuthi bonke abantu badlula ezikhathini zokunciphisa amandla lapho benza imisebenzi yabo yomsebenzi. Akunandaba noma ngabe umsebenzi wakho uthandeka kangakanani, kuyeza isikhathi lapho uyeka ukuzwa lolo thando nomdlandla osebenza ngawo. Ngikutshela ngoba kwenzeka into efanayo nakimi.
Bengisebenza kule bhulogi neminye imisebenzi ephathelene nokumaketha oku-inthanethi iminyaka eyi-6. Ekuqaleni, engikuzwile ngalo msebenzi uthando oluhlanzekile. Ngisukume into yokuqala engiyenzile bekuwukuthatha ikhompyutha bese ngiqala ukubheka ukuthi ngivakashele kangaki kubhulogi ngawo lowo mzuzu. Ngisakwenza namanje kepha hhayi ngesisusa esifanayo njengakuqala.
Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi uzame ukuthola izinselelo ezintsha noma izikhuthazo emsebenzini wakho. Ukusesha okuqhubekayo ukuzama ukuthola okuthile okukukhuthazayo. Ingabe unabantu osebenza nabo eceleni kwakho? Kungani ungaxoxi nabo bese uzama ukuzijabulisa ngenkathi usebenza?
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