Kuyini ilukuluku, ukuthi ungalikhuphula kanjani futhi yiziphi izinzuzo zalo?

"Isizungu silashwa ngokufuna ukwazi. Ilukuluku ngeke liphulukise noma yini. " UDorothy Parker

Ilukuluku luyisidingo solwazi, luphathelene nokusetha okuhle kwemizwa, imizwa kanye nezisusa, ezihlobene nokuhlonza kanye nokusesha okwenzekayo okushas. Ngokufuna ukwazi, kukhuthazwa ulwazi lokuhlangenwe nakho okusha okuletha inselelo.

Ilukuluku lomkhuba limayelana nezitayela ezijwayelekile, ilukuluku lombuso lihlobene nomzuzwana othile osheshayo.

Ku-a uphenyo waseGeorge Mason University, owenziwa nguT Todd Kashdan kanye nalabo asebenzisana nabo, ababambiqhaza abangama-90 (abesilisa abangama-45 nabesifazane abangama-45) babuzwa ukuthi ngabe bayavumelana yini nemisho efana nokuthi “Ukuba nentshisekelo entweni ethize, akunzima kimi ukuphazamisa”. Ngalolu cwaningo, kuphethwe ukuthi abantu abanelukuluku babenamazinga aphezulu okweneliseka ezimpilweni zabo, ukuze abantu abanamazinga aphezulu okufuna ukwazi babonakale bethola injongo enkulu empilweni yabo ngakho-ke bagcwala ngokwengeziwe, futhi baphinde baxhumane kangcono nabantu. Ngokuphambene nalokho, labo abanamazinga aphansi elukuluku bathola ukwaneliseka kokuzijabulisa okudlulayo ngemisebenzi abayenzile.

Abantu abanelukuluku bavame ukuzungezwa yimisebenzi emisha nezisusa, lapho bavuzwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, njenge bahlala bemangazwa ukuthi yini entsha futhi lokhu kudala ukwaneliseka okukhulu.

Ilukuluku liyaziwa ukuthi lithinta nezempilo. Ngo-1996, a ukutadisha ephephabhukwini i-Psychology nokuguga, lapho abantu abadala abangaphezu kwe-1,000 5 babamba iqhaza, ababengaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu yokubukwa, Kutholakale ukuthi abantu abanelukuluku lokwazi kakhulu banesilinganiso esiphakeme sokuphila, laba bantu bathambekele ekutheni baphile isikhathi eside kunalabo abangafuni ukwazi kangako.

Emkhakheni wobudlelwano bezenhlalo, abantu abanamazinga aphakeme okufuna ukwazi ngokuvamile baba nempumelelo enkulu, ngoba bakhombisa intshisekelo enkulu kanye nokuvuleleka ekuhlanganeni nabantu abasha futhi bazi ukuthi bangayigcina kanjani le ntshisekelo kubantu esivele saziwa abafuna ukuqhubeka nokuhlangana nabo. Okuningi. Kulula futhi ukuxhumana nabantu abafuna ukwazi kakhulu, ngoba babuza imibuzo futhi banentshisekelo ekusebenzisaneni nabanye.

Enye inzuzo yokuba nobuntu obunelukuluku impilo egcwele futhi ejabulisayo, bathokozela okwengeziwe, banamandla amakhulu okubavulela futhi bahlale bemangele, baphinde bahlobanise kangcono nabantu futhi lokhu kwenza kube lula ngabo ukuba nobudlelwano obusondelene nokuhlangana nabantu abasha. Konke lokhu kuqinisa ithonya elihle lokufuna ukwazi ezimpilweni zethu, ngoba kuthuthukisa injabulo.

Ilukuluku lihlobene kakhulu nempumelelo yezifundo, ukuyiqonda njenge ukomela ukufunda nolwazi olusha, ilukuluku lisikhuthaza ukuthi sandise isiko lethu Ngemininingwane emisha, kuyasiza ukukhuphula impumelelo yezifundo.

Abanye abantu bathambekele kakhulu ekufuneni ilukuluku kunabanye futhi abakubeka ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ilukuluku yinto engathuthukiswa, okungukuthi, umuzwa wethu wemvelo wokufuna ukwazi ungasetshenziswa. Ukufuna ukwazi okwengeziwe kuya ngesisusa sethu, Kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke okwengeziwe ezihlokweni ezivusa intshisekelo yethu futhi sizitshale kuzo, ukuze sithuthukise ukuvezwa kwezinselelo ezintsha kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okusicebisa kakhulu.

Ukuze sithuthukise ilukuluku lethu, kubalulekile balahlekelwe ukwesaba ukungaqiniseki nokungaziwa. Kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukuzama ukufunda ukujabulela ukungaqiniseki, Kubukeka kuyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba kungokwemvelo kuveza ukukhathazeka futhi ukuqiniseka kusenza sizwe ukuthi sizovikeleka futhi sinethezeke ngokwengeziwe. Singaziqeqesha ukuthi siphelelwe ukwesaba ukungaqiniseki uma sihlala sizichaya emisebenzini emisha enezinselelo ezincane nakithi.ukuzwa ukumangala nenjabulo kuzosenza sizizwe siklonyelisiwe futhi sabona ukuthi akukho okumele sesabe kokungaziwa.

Akufanele sivumele ubandlululo lwethu lusikhawulele, omunye umsebenzi othakazelisayo wokuthuthukisa ilukuluku, ukuthola okungaziwa kulokho okwaziwayo, ngoba lokhu kusebenza ukukhohlwa ngokulindelwe, izahlulelo, imiqondo kanye nemibono yangaphambi kokuzivumela ukuthi simangale futhi.

Khumbula ukuthi ngenkathi siseyizingane, imvelo yethu uqobo yasikhuthaza ukuthi sibe nelukuluku, sibuze yonke inhlobo yemibuzo, sifune ukuhogela, ukuthinta, ukuzwa nokubona konke, sasifuna izinzwa zethu zihlole imvelo yethu, ukomela kwethu ukufunda kwakubonakala kungasuthi . Njengoba sikhula siya ngokuya siphelelwe yilo lukuluku, ngoba sijwayela izinto eziningi lapho sizithola khona kakhulu, kepha kungathokozisa uma sizama ukubuyisa amandla ethu okumangala, ngaphandle kokuvumela impilo yabantu abadala kanye nempilo ejwayelekile iqede amandla ethu okumangala futhi fisa ukwazi,