Impela sonke sibe nezikhathi lapho sicindezelwe khona futhi sazizwa sikhungathekile,
ukukholwa kwethu kithi kunyakazisiwe, kwabuzwa, kwasongelwa. Lokhu kungabaza kungaholela ekuphelelweni yithemba, ukubhekelwa phansi, nasekucindezelekeni. Umuzwa wokuzenyeza wehlisa isithunzi futhi kunzima ukubhekana nawo.
UDalai Lama uhlangane neqembu labelaphi bezifo zengqondo baseNtshonalanga walibuza ukuthi inkinga yabaguli babo eyini kakhulu. Impendulo ibivume ngazwi linye: ukungazethembi. Ngokusobala iDalai Lama ikuthole kunzima ukukukholelwa, njengoba ukuzenyeza akuyona inkinga eyaziwayo eTibet. Sikhulume nomunye wabahumushi bakhe, manje ohlala nomkakhe nendodana eLondon. UTashi usitshele ukuthi izingane ezikhula eTibet zithandwa yibo bonke abantu nokuthi kubukeka kwehluke kakhulu kuye ngendlela izingane ezikhuliswa ngayo esikweni lethu eligxile kakhulu emndenini wenuzi.
Intatheli yethelevishini ye-CNN encane enesibindi yabuza uDalai Lama yini into yokuqala owawuyicabanga ngenkathi uvuka ekuseni. Sicabanga ukuthi umlamuli odume kakhulu emhlabeni angasho okuthile okujule kakhulu, okuthile okuhambisana nokuthembisa ukusindisa umhlaba ekungazini kwawo. Esikhundleni salokho, uDalai Lama umane waphendula wathi: "Ukubumba isisusa sami". Uthe wonke umuntu, kubandakanya naye uqobo, kufanele aqaphe ukuze izinhloso zethu zigxile ohlangothini olufanele nokuthi singakuthola kanjani ukugqugquzela kwakhe kumkhumbuze ukuthi Kufanele unikeze umusa wothando nozwela kubo bonke abanye. Isikhuthazo esinjalo sisusa ngaphezu kwethu ukuze singavinjelwa ukungazethembi noma ukuzethemba.
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Izindlela ezi-2 ezicace bha zokuthi ukuzindla kungasisiza kanjani ukuthi siguqule ukungazethembi kube ukuzethemba kwangaphakathi, ukuzamukela, nokuzethemba okunempilo:
1) Ukuzindla kusivumela ukuthi sihlangane, sibingelele futhi sizenzele ubungani. Siyazi ukuthi singobani futhi sizemukele njengoba sinjalo. Ngokushesha sithola ukuthi ukungabaza kwethu, ukungavikeleki, noma ukwesaba kumane nje kuyenzeka lapho siqala ukuxhumana nendawo ejulile yokuzethemba.
2) Njengoba siletha ukwamukelwa nomusa kuzo zonke izici zethu, kuyamangaza ukuthi singathola kanjani inkolelo ejulile yokuthi asifanele ukujabula, ukuthi asikholelwa ukuthi silunge ngokwanele, uhlobo lokuzilimaza ukucabanga. Noma kunjalo, ungaqeda kalula lowo mcabango bese uwuguqula ube uthando.
Ukuzindla kusenza siqaphele ukuxhumana phakathi kwethu ngamunye, ukuthi asisodwa lapha. Esikhundleni salokho, ubuntu bethu buyingxenye yale planethi enhle futhi lapho sikhula ngokwengeziwe kulo mbono lapho sizogxila kakhulu ekulinganisweni kwethu. Ukuthola ukuxhumana kwethu kusuka ekuzicabangeni kuya kokunye. UDalai Lama uthi umusa uyinkolo yakhe.