Muna zaune a cikin jama'a wanda ke ba mu matashi a matsayin mafi kyawun kyawawa: Mun gan shi a talabijin, a talla, a cikin fina-finai ...
Muna kewaye da misalai waɗanda ke gabatar da mu ga kyawawan yara da samari don haka muna ƙarancin cinye ƙwayoyin bitamin, mayukan fuska da tiyatar gyaran jiki yi ƙoƙari mu nuna kamar ba mu bane.
Kuma duk wannan a zahiri ne, saboda a cikin halayyar halin da ake ciki yana da ɗan wahala. Tsufa ba makawa sai mun girma.
Menene balaga?
Ta hanyar balaga zamu iya fahimtar abubuwa da yawa: haɓaka, haɓaka ... Duk da haka, ma'anar da zata iya mana aiki sosai kamar shigarwar shine girma cikin shekaru da hukunci. Abubuwa ne daban-daban guda 2:
1) A gefe guda zamu iya magana akan balaga na shekara-shekara, ma'ana, shudewar lokaci, na ranar haihuwa. Koyaya, wannan nau'in balaga baya nuna nau'I na biyu wanda shine:
2) Balagagge na ilimin halin dan Adam: Wannan balaga sakamakon tunani ne. Yawancin lokuta muna amfani da kalmar "don balaga da tunani." Menene ma'anar wannan? Wannan dole ne muyi tunani ko tunani akan wani ra'ayi.
Saboda haka, balaga ba mamaye bane na halitta. Sakamakon tunani ne da motsa jiki na son rai.
Rayuwa ba abin da ke faruwa da mu bane amma abin da muke yi da abin da ya same mu, fahimtar "aikatawa" azaman tunani, ƙwarewar motsin rai da aikin da ke biyo baya daga waɗanda suka gabata.
Balagawa hanya ce ta ci gaba. Muna balaga ne idan muka yi aikin don haɗawa da kyawawan abubuwan da raɗaɗi da rayuwa ta kawo mana.
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