+45 Yankin ban kwana don sauƙaƙe sallamar wannan mutumin na musamman

Kamar yadda Gustavo Cerati ya taɓa faɗi "Samun damar yin bankwana shine girma", kuma wannan yana ba da ra'ayi cewa rabuwa tsari ne mai sauki. Koyaya, ba koyaushe muke shiri don waɗannan lokutan ba, ko kuma wajen, ba mu taɓa zama ba! Kalmomin ban kwana na iya zama mabuɗi, kuma yawancin masana halayyar ɗan adam sun sake jaddada mahimmancin “rufe hanyoyin” don ci gaban ɗan adam. Zamu iya tabbatar da cewa wannan wani aiki ne na karfin gwiwa, tunda ba abu ne mai sauki ba daga abin da ya kasance daga gaskiyarmu na wani lokaci. Da Abin da yawancin mutane suka yi ya ƙunshi riƙewa, a ƙoƙarin banza don kula da yanayin da har zuwa yanzu ya kasance ya daidaita a gare su..

Amma wani abu abu ne wanda ba za a iya musunsa ba, idan lokaci ya yi da za a yi ban kwana, mafi ƙarancin raɗaɗi shine 'yanci. Idan kun zaɓi tsawaita abin da ba za a ƙara tsawaita shi ba, wahala za ta kasance.

Saboda haka, muna raba mafi kyawun kalmomin ban kwana waɗanda ba a taɓa furta su ba.

Mafi yawan jimlolin ban kwana

Don sanya wannan lokacin ya zama abin tunawa, dole ne ku furta jumlar da zata taimaka wajen bayyana ƙarshen wannan lokacin, shi yasa muke gabatar da mafi kyawun jimloli don ban kwana:

Resistance

Wani lokaci lokacin bankwana yakan riske mu kuma ba ma shiri da shi, ga wasu jimloli da ke nuna shi:

• "Lafiya lau? Oh ba don Allah ba, ba za mu iya juya shafin kawai mu fara komai ba? " Winnie da beyar
• "Namiji bai taɓa sanin yadda ake faɗin ban kwana ba, mace ba ta san lokacin da za ta faɗi ta ba" Helen Rowland
• "Babu lokacin da ya dace don yin ban kwana" Chris Brown
• "Mutuwa ba sallama bane" Titte Kubo
• "Nisa da lokaci ba su san irin muguntar da ka yi wa zuciyata ba" Abel Pintos
• "Duk inda kuka tafi, ni zan tafi, inda kuma ya nufa ku zauna, ni zan zauna" Ruth 1:16
• "Ban taɓa yin bankwana ba, saboda bankwana yana nufin barin, kuma barin yana nufin mantawa" JM Barrie
• "Na yi ban kwana da kai, kuma wataƙila da wannan ban kwana, babban burina ya mutu a cikina ... amma ina ban kwana da ku har tsawon rayuwata, kodayake duk tsawon rayuwata na ci gaba da tunanin ku" José Ángel Buesa.
• "Zafin rabuwa ba zai misaltu da farin cikin sake haduwa ba" Charles Dickens
• “Ina son ku da numfashi, murmushi da hawaye na duk rayuwata! Kuma idan Allah ya yarda, zan so ku sosai bayan mutuwa. ”Elizabeth Barret Browning
• Ban kwana lafiya ba har abada ba. Ban kwana ba ƙarshen bane, suna nufin kawai: Zan yi kewar ku har sai mun sake haduwa. ”Ba a san shi ba
• "Duk wanda ya kirkiri nisa bai taba shan azabar dogon buri ba" Francois de la Rochefoucauld
• "Raina bai gamsu da rasa ta ba. Kodayake wannan shine azabar ƙarshe da take haifar min, kuma waɗannan ayoyin ƙarshe ne da nake rubuta mata "Pablo Neruda

Murabus

Idan muka kai ga wannan matsayin na daukaka wanda zai bamu damar fahimtar bukatar sallama, zamu iya nuna dacewar sallama.

• "Wataƙila zan gaya muku wata rana na daina son ku, duk da cewa na ci gaba da ƙaunarku fiye da mutuwa, kuma wataƙila ba ku fahimta ba, a cikin wannan bankwana cewa, duk da cewa soyayya ta haɗa mu, rayuwa ta raba mu" José Ángel Buesa.
• "Babu abin da ya faru kwatsam, abubuwa asallan suna bin tsarin sirri, koda kuwa bamu fahimce shi ba" Platon
• "Kuma idan na tafi, waɗannan sune kalmata ta ƙarshe: Zan tafi, na bar ƙaunata a baya" Tagore.
• "Mu ba masu yin tarihi bane, mu masu yin tarihi ne" Martin Luther King jr.
• "Yaya na yi sa'a, ina da wani abu da ke sa ban kwana da wahala" Winnie beyar
• “Mutuwa babu ita, mutane suna mutuwa ne kawai idan suka manta da shi; Idan za ku iya tunawa da ni, koyaushe zan kasance tare da ku ”Isabel Allende.
• Ko da kun ji ciwo daga bankwana, sake dubawa a cikin zuciyar ku ya kamata ku ga cewa kuna kuka don abin da ya kasance babban jin daɗi ”Kalil Gibran
• “Yatsan da ke motsawa ya rubuta cewa; samun ci gaba na oda; ba tausayin ka ba ne, ko kuma wayon ka, zai sa shi ya koma ya danne rabin layi, kuma hawayen ka ba zai share kalma daya ba "Omar Jayyam
• "... a karshen, bayan duk muguntar da ka binne, kuma hakan ya cinye maka kwadayi, tsawon rai zai dawwama cikin farin ciki ta hanyar sumbatar mu baki daya" John Milton
• "Wannan ba alheri bane, wannan shine" na gode "Nicholas Sparks
• "Mafi wahala ba shine farkon sumba ba, amma na ƙarshe" Paul Géraldy
• "Babbar fasaha ce ta farawa, amma mafi girma shine fasahar kawo karshen" Henry Wadsworth
• “Ina matukar farin ciki, Jane. Ka tuna shi lokacin da ka sami labarin mutuwata, kuma kada ka sha wahala saboda ita. Babu wani abin da zan yi nadama ... hankalina ya kwanta '' Charlotte Brönte (Jane Eyre)
• "Babu sumban da ba farkon ban kwana bane, har ma da isowa" George Bernard Shaw
• "Wasauna tayi gajarta, kuma mantuwa tayi tsawo" Pablo Neruda
• "Duk bakin cikin da ke cikin duniya ba komai ba ne, lokacin da ban kwana ke gabatowa" Daniel Balavoine

Sake gyarawa

Wasu lokuta mukan kauce wa hakikanin abu saboda muna buƙatar komawa kan hangen nesa. A wannan halin, ba zamu ce gaisuwa ba, muna rufe kofa, muna yin ban kwana, amma mun bar kofa a sake domin dawowarmu:

• "Kasance daga lokaci zuwa lokaci, ka dan huta, domin idan ka koma bakin aiki, hukuncinka zai fi zama daidai" Leonardo Da Vinci
• "Sun yi ban kwana kuma a cikin bankwana tuni an yi maraba" Mario Benedetti
• "Za ku kasance koyaushe abin da na fi so, kuma mafi wuya gaisuwa" Cecelia Ahern

Sannu a cikin wakoki

Saboda waƙoƙi da yawa suna nuna jin daɗin waɗannan abubuwan ban kwana:

• "Babu abin da zai dawwama, yi haƙuri, ba zan iya zama cikakke ba" Cikakke, Shirye-shiryen Sauki
• "A'a, ba zan iya barinka ka tafi ba, kai bangarena ne, dandano na sumbatar ka ya kama ni" Hawan bango, Backstreet Boys
• "Ko da lokacin da na yi tunanin kun kusa, Ina bukatan ku can nesa, don gina sabuwar hanya" Warkarwa, Rayuwar Yamma
• “Kana barin Alfonsina da kadaicin ka, wadanne sabbin wakoki ka je nema? Tsohuwar murya ta iska da gishiri, tana sanyaya ranka, kuma tana dauke da ita. Kuma kun je can kamar a mafarki, Alfonsina tana barci, sanye da tufa ”Alfonsina da teku” Alfonsina da teku, Mercedes Sosa.
• "Wani abu ya tsaya cak kuma wannan shirun yayi matukar kyau, raunin zuciya ya yi kyau matuka, ragowar jirgin da ya gudu, ina son ku, ina kaunarku, ban san hakikanin abin da ya faru ba" Ban kwana, Fito Páez
• “Ka turo kaunata zuwa ga sabon masoyin ka, ka kyautata mata. Dole ne mu bar dukkan fatalwowinmu, mu ba yara bane, kuma "Ka aika da kauna (ga sabon masoyin ka) Adele
• "Barka da masoyi na, sannu abokina, kai kaɗai ne, kai kaɗai ne a gare ni" ban kwana da ƙaunata, James Blunt
• “Lokacin tafiya, sumba da ban kwana, a Ina son ku, shafa da ban kwana; kaya ne mai sauki don irin wannan doguwar tafiya, baƙin ciki yayi nauyi a zuciya "Kiss da fure, Nino Bravo.
• "Lafiya lau, yaya bacin ran da na ce da ku lokacin da zan tafi, ban daina kuka ba" Plácido Domingo
• "Me yasa ya tafi? Me yasa ya mutu? Me yasa maigida ya dauke ta? Ya tafi sama kuma domin tafiya, dole ne in zama mai ƙarfin kasancewa tare da ku, ƙauna. "Me yasa ya tafi, Leo Dan
• "Ya bar ni da rana, ba tare da yin magana ba, ba tare da ban kwana ba" Ya bar ni, Miriam Hernández
• "Shi ya sa zan tafi, abin takaici, amma wallahi, na yi ban kwana da kai zan tafi" zan tafi, Julieta Venegas
• "Babu wanda ya taɓa cewa wannan zai yi wahala, don Allah a dawo da ni farkon" Masanin kimiyya, Coldplay.