Lokacin da yaron ya zama mai rikici ya zama dole a magance matsalar. A matakin farko akwai iyaye da malamai amma idan kuka ga cewa tashin hankalin yaranku ya fara zama babbar matsala Yi la'akari da neman taimako na musamman.
Amma menene dalilin halin tashin hankalin yaro? Rashin kulawar iyaye ko rashin halayen su wajan karanta kati? Shin yana da asalin jijiya? A kowane hali, ana iya magance wannan matsala tare da ingantaccen ilimi, aiki ga iyaye da malamai.
Bari muga menene mabuɗan mahimmancin magani game da zaluncin yara:
1) Gane cikin waɗanne yanayi ko tare da waɗanne mutane kuke tashin hankali.
2) Gano me yasa yaron ya amsa da karfi: Shin kuna jin takaici, baku san wani nau'in martani ba, kuna da mawuyacin hali, ƙasƙantar da kanku, kuna masu zafin kai ...? Akwai koyaushe me yasa. Aikin gwani ne ya sami amincewar yaro kuma ya yi ƙoƙari ya kai ga asalin matsalar.
3) Kyauta-azaba: A bayyane yake, kyawawan canje-canje da ke faruwa a cikin yaro dole ne a ƙarfafa su da ƙananan lada kuma duk wani mummunan hali da ba a hukunta shi ba.
Yi hankali da kyaututtuka! Zaku iya canza halayenku ne kawai saboda son rai. Guji ladar abin duniya.
4) Yi hankali da samfuran ku: dole ne a ƙarfafa yaro don yaba da mutanen da suka yi fice don halayensu. Wannan aiki ne mai wahala kuma yana buƙatar daidaito.
Gano duk wani nishaɗin kirki da kuke dashi kuma samar muku da kyakkyawan abin koyi alaka da ya ce sha'awa.
Idan kuna son finafinai masu tashin hankali ko wasan bidiyo suna ba ku ingantaccen abu wanda ke ƙarfafa ƙima mai kyau (akwai wasannin bidiyo masu ilimi da yawa tare da kalubale masu kyau don cin nasara).
5) Koya muku dabarun shakatawa.
6) Hada wasanni a rayuwarka.
Motsa jiki kyakkyawa ce mai kyau. Kuna iya amfani da ƙarfin ku don cin nasara ta wata hanyar kuma ku ji daɗi game da shi.
7) Hankali da abokai.
Akwai abota da ke karfafa tashin hankali. Sake wasanni ya shigo wasa. Akwai wasannin motsa jiki waɗanda babbar hanya ce don nemo sabbin abokai da ƙoshin lafiya.