Sanya kanka cikin mafi munin na iya samun kyakkyawan yanayi. Idan ka sanya kanka cikin mafi munin sannan kuma babu abin da ya faru, farin ciki zai kasance nan take. Wasu suna tunanin cewa idan koyaushe kuna tsammanin mummunan abu ba za ku taɓa jin kunya ba.
Koyaya, akwai waɗanda suke yin tunani ba haka ba:
* Idan ka ci gaba da tunani mara kyau, tunanin ka zai yi aiki don aikata abin da kake fata zai faru. Ba tare da ka sani ba, kana aiki ne da kanka. Sabotage kai ne.
* Idan kana tsammanin abubuwa zasu tabarbare kuma daga karshe suyi kuskure, ba zaka yi mamaki ba. Za ku kawai girgiza kafadu kuyi tunani, "Na sani shi." Za ku ji cewa damuwarku daidai ne. Wannan wani misali ne: zaku iya zama da mummunan rauni a nan gaba saboda hujjoji sun tabbatar muku da gaskiya. Hakanan, hanya ce ta rashin sani don shirya kanku don zama mai hasara.
* Kila da wuya ka karaya.
* Ba zakuyi fada da dukkan kokarinku don cin nasara ba saboda wani sashi daga cikinku yana fada muku cewa zaku gaza.
* Damar samun tabin hankali ya fi yawa saboda, ta wata hanyar, akwai rashin fata.
* Zaka rasa dama.
* Haƙiƙanin ku zai yi furfura saboda hankalin ku yana cikin mummunan yanayi.
Dangane da wannan jigon na bar muku babban magana daga babban mai ba da dariya Luis Piedrahita: