Ga wasu mutane, yada labarai wata hanya ce ta rashin mutunta wadanda ke gabansu. Hanya ce ta maza su zauna tare da kafafuwansu a warwatse kuma ga wasu, wannan ba za a iya jurewa ba. Ga waɗansu, matsayi ne kawai ba tare da ƙari ba. Abin da ya bayyane shine cewa yada labarai yana haifar da rikici kuma yana da mahimmanci a fahimci menene shi kuma me yasa yake faruwa ...
Ya kasance a cikin 2014 lokacin da wannan lokacin ya zama sananne, amma wannan matsalar an san ta tsawon wasu shekaru, inda da alama cewa maza sun mamaye sarari fiye da yadda ake buƙata su zauna, musamman a cikin jigilar jama'a don yaɗa ko miƙe ƙafafunsu sosai. Ana kara tattaunawa game da wannan halayyar, kuma ga alama dai hankali ne cewa idan akwai wuri kaɗan kuma akwai mutane biyu da za su zauna, dole ne ku tattara kaɗan don kowa ya dace. Bayan haka, Yaya batun yada labarai kuma me yasa yake haifar da wannan hargitsi?
Shin da gaske matsala ce?
Ga wasu, da gaske ana ɗaukarsa matsala, musamman a cikin jiragen ƙasa ko jiragen ƙasa. Da alama kusan fiye da kashi ɗaya bisa uku na yawan maza da ke yawo a cikin jirgin ƙarƙashin ƙasa idan sun zauna… ba tare da sun sani ba. Ba sa yin hakan a matsayin tsokana kuma ba sa son su ɓata wa wasu fasinjoji rai a cikin jigilar jama'a. Kari akan haka, akwai 5% na mata wadanda suma suke jin hakan kuma basa yin hakan don 'cutar da' yawan maza. Wannan kawai hanya ce ta zama.
Wanne ne gaskiya, cewa idan akwai fasinja wanda ke zaune da kafafunsa a shimfide ba tare da sauran fasinjojin ba kuma idan wasu fasinjojin suka zauna kusa da shi ba sa gyara matsayinsu duk da cewa motar na cike da mutane, to rashin girmamawa da ilimin boko ga wasu.
Akwai binciken da ya nuna cewa mutanen da suka fi saurin yadawa suna tsakanin shekaru 30 zuwa 49. A cikin tsofaffin shekaru kashi yana da kyau kuma a cikin ƙungiyoyi sama da shekaru 50 an ma ƙara raguwa.
A halin yanzu akwai yaƙe-yaƙe don ƙoƙarin kawar da wannan ɗabi'a ko matsayi yayin zaune a wuraren taruwar jama'a, amma da alama wannan ba ya da wani amfani sosai. Har yanzu akwai maza (da mata) waɗanda ke zaune suna faɗawa cikin faɗaɗa mutane.
Me ya sa ya faru
Akwai wadanda suka yi bayanin cewa yada labarai wata dama ce wacce aka tanada ga maza saboda suna son karin sarari a cikin yanayi daban-daban, suna tunani game da jin daɗinsu da barin jin daɗin wasu. Wato, Suna kira zuwa ga gaskiyar cewa mutanen da suke yin irin wannan halin lokacin da suke zaune a wuraren taruwar jama'a suna son kai da kuma wayewar ilimi.
A cewar wasu, wata hanya ce ta bayyana ikonsu ga wasu, bisa ga hangen nesan mata, hanya ce ta alakanta matsayi da mahaifar dangi, hanya ce ta mallakar karin sarari don jin tsufa da girma fiye da wasu, hanyar zama fifikon wasu kuma hakan yana ba ku damar jin daɗin daɗi.
Wasu kuma suna cewa ga wasu mazajen da ke zaune tare da rufe ƙafafunsu na iya zama mai raɗaɗi saboda ilimin motsa jiki na namiji. Har ila yau, akwai masu binciken da ke bayyana karara cewa maza kan zauna a haka sau da yawa saboda da kafaɗunsu fiye da kwatangwalo idan aka kwatanta da mata, wannan hanyar zaune tana fitowa kusan ta halitta kuma ba ta son kowane abu na ciki da dole ka gani da ƙarfi ko sallamawa wasu zuwa gare su. Wannan yana nufin cewa sararin da ya rage tsakanin gwiwoyi ya dace da sararin da yake kusan tsakanin kafadu don haka kusurwa ta fi faɗi.
Hakanan, ta hanyar buɗe ƙafafun suna ɗaukar ƙaramin sarari a cikin keken domin layin ya kasance ya fi 'yanci motsi fiye da idan sun bar ƙafafun a layi ɗaya da na gaba, wanda ke da ƙarin sarari kuma zai iya damun fasinjojin yayin wucewa.
Wataƙila yana da wani abu mafi al'adu?
Tabbas babu wata hujja bayyananniya wacce zata bayyana abinda yafaru yadawa, kawai wani abu ne da yake faruwa kuma yake cigaba da faruwa saboda akwai shi. Ana gabatar dashi a rayuwar yau da kullun ga duk wanda yayi amfani da jigilar jama'a ko wanda yake zaune kusa da wasu mutane a wuraren taron jama'a. Matsayi ne na gama gari a cikin maza duk da cewa 100% na maza basa amfani dashi koyaushe, amma gama gari ne.
A halin yanzu ba a san ko yana da asalin halitta ba ko kuma akasin haka wani abu ne da ya fi na al'ada. Abin da yake tabbatacce shi ne cewa ba a lura da wannan abin ba kuma shi ya sa akwai mutane da masu bincike da ke nazarin dalilin wannan lamarin don neman amsoshi. Wataƙila yana da alaƙa da yawa game da tsarin halittar jini da al'adun gargajiya waɗanda suka daidaita bisa lokaci.
A cikin kowane hali, abin da ke bayyane shine cewa zama tare da buɗe ƙafafu ko rufe a cikin jigilar jama'a, fiye da al'ada ko nazarin halittu zai dogara ne ga mutum ɗaya kuma cewa babu yadda za a yi mutumin da yake zaune da wannan halin yana so ya haifar da fushi daga ba kowa. Abin da ba shi da hujja shi ne ƙungiyoyi masu tsattsauran ra'ayi ko kamfen ɗin da ke faruwa game da wannan lamari wanda ke da rikici da rashin girmamawa ga waɗanda suke jin wannan, ba tare da sanin cewa da yadda suke zaune suna haifar da kowane irin fushi a cikin ƙananan ƙungiyoyi.
Yin feshin ruwa ko bleak a wando maza kawai a matsayin wani nau'i na rashin gamsuwa da yanayin bai dace ba kuma har ma za a iya cewa hakan ta wata hanya ce mai saurin nuna halin ko-in-kula. Ya zama dole a samar da wayewar kan jama'a game da wannan kuma a iya fahimtar cewa matsayi idan ya dame wani dole ne a gyara shi, amma ba tare da wannan yana buƙatar yin amfani da tashin hankali ba. Abin sani kawai game da ilimi da zaman tare bisa girmama juna, ba tare da la'akari da jinsi ba ... Idan kun miƙa ƙafafunku a cikin jirgin karkashin kasa kuma sun dame wasu matafiya, gyara yanayin ku kuma hakane.