Na rubuta tambaya:
«Sun ce dole ne mutanen da suke da banƙyama su so kansu don wasu su gansu da kyau, amma ya yi mini wuya in yarda da hakan.
Abin da ya faru shi ne ni mara kyau ne kuma ban taɓa fuskantar yarinyar ba saboda tsoron ƙin yarda da ni, kuma na riga na cika shekaru 21 da haihuwa. Saboda wannan dalili, Ba ni da tsaro sosai kuma ina jin kunya.
Koyaya, aboki ya gaya mani cewa yanayin jiki ba shi da wata ma'ana, kawai yanayin mutum ne, kuma, Dole ne na fara son kaina don son 'yan mata, Shin wannan gaskiyane?
Idan haka ne, ta yaya zan ji kyau kuma in manta cewa ni mara kyau ne, shin akwai wasu dabaru da za a cimma hakan? Wasu daga cikinku sun yi hakan kuma ya yi tasiri. "
Kyakkyawa da ƙazanta irin wannan abu ne na son rai ... Abu daya shine mata suna ganin ka mara kyau wani abu kuma shine ka tsinci kanka mummuna.
Bai kamata ku canzawa kowa ba, yakamata ku kasance da kanku, koyaushe akwai wanda ke soyayya da ainihin wanda kuke ciki.
Don kimanta kanku kuma kada ku ɗauki kanku a matsayin mutum mara kyau, dole ne ku ƙaunaci kanku kuma ku ɗauki kanku da muhimmanci a kowane fanni. Ina ganin dole ne aiki kan darajar kanku. Na bar muku labarin da zai taimaka muku: Starfafa girman kai.
A ƙarshe, na bar muku bidiyo na masanin halayyar ɗan adam wanda ya ba mu labarin wani ɗan wasa game da girman kai:
Ina son kayan taimako na kai