Mbongoro kurova kunodzora kudzikisira kukura

Bhuku idzva re Murray straus, muvambi uye mubati director weFamily Research Laboratory uye purofesa wezvematongerwo enyika paYunivhesiti yeNew Hampshire, anounza pamwechete zvinopfuura makumi mana emakore ekutsvaga pane izvo zvinonzi kurova mbongoro. Mhedziso yezvidzidzo zvavo ndeyekuti rudzi urwu rwekurangwa runodzora kukura kwekuziva, rwunowedzera hunhu husina hukama uye hunhu hwematsotsi.

Straus akanyora Mhirizhonga Yekutanga ('The Primordial Violence') uye mairi anotiratidza zvikonzero nei vabereki vachirova vadiwa vavo. Izvi zvikonzero zvinosanganisira zvinopfuura kungogadzirisa kusazvibata. Ipa humbowo hwemhedzisiro yekurohwa kune vana uye chii chingaitwe kupedza idzi mhando dzechirango.

Bhuku racho rinoratidza longitudinal dhata kubva kunopfuura mhuri mazana manomwe nezviuru muUS pamwe nezvakabuda mukudzidza munyika makumi matatu nemaviri. Iyo inotiratidza iyo madanho ekuti kurova matako kunoshandiswa mune dzakasiyana tsika pamwe nemhedzisiro inotevera yekushandisa kwayo pavana uye munharaunda.

Straus anoti zvinotevera: Kutsvagisa kunoratidza kurova kunogadzirisa maitiro akaipa. Asi ivo zvakare vanoratidza kuti kurova hakushandi zvirinani kupfuura dzimwe nzira dzekururamisa, sekunyima mwana ropafadzo. Uyezve, tsvagiridzo inoratidza pachena izvo Butt spanking mabhenefiti anouya nemutengo mukuru. Ivo vanofungidzira kunetesa kwehukama pakati pevabereki nevana uye kuwedzera kweshingairo yekuti mwana anoshandisa chisimba kune vamwe (vekuchikoro, vabereki, vamwe vakuru kana vavakaroorana navo). "Pamusoro pezvo, kurova matako kunodzora kukura kwepfungwa uye kunoderedza mukana wekuti mwana apedze chikoro zvakanaka."

«Zvidzidzo zvinopfuura zana zvakatsanangura izvi mhedzisiro yekurova garo, ine degree rekubvumirana kwe90%. Pangangodaro pasina chimwe chikamu chekurera uye hunhu hwevana uko mhedzisiro yacho inowirirana »anoti.

Bhuku rinotsigira shanduko yemitemo izvo zvinogona kukonzera kumiswa zvachose kwekurova mudhongi. Iwe unogona kushandisa ese marudzi ekushambadzira maunoona kuti iyi mhando yechirango yakaipa kwazvo. Izvi zvinofanirwa kuperekedzwa nemitemo yekubatsira vabereki vane matambudziko nevana vavo.

Straus ine Pfungwa yemhemberero senge mazuva ekuberekwa kana Kisimusi: «Kana iwe uchitsvaga chipo chinowedzera mikana yekuti mwana wako ave nehupenyu hunofadza uye hune hutano uye izvo zvinosanganisira mikana yakawanda yekuti ivo vanowana basa rakanaka uye vane muchato usina mhirizhonga, Ita chitsidzo kuvana vako kuti usazombovarova zvakare. "Vanogona kuwedzera kukuremekedza uye kukuda kwako, uye vane chokwadi chekukubatsira kuzadzisa vimbiso yako."

«Nyika dzinopfuura makumi maviri dzinorambidza kurova mbongoro. Pane chibvumirano chiri kubuda icho iyi ikodzero yemunhu yakakosha yevana. Sangano Romubatanidzwa Wenyika Dzepasi Pose riri kudaidzira nyika dzese kurambidza chirango chakadai Kudzivisa izvo hakungoderedze njodzi yekuparwa kwemhosva uye matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa, asi zvakare kunounza vana kodzero yekusununguka kubva pakurwiswa nemuviri muzita rekurangwa. anodaro Straus.

Anotarisirwa zvakanyanya semuongorori wekutanga mumunda wake, Straus akadzidza dhongi richirova mukati Makuru uye anomiririra masampula evabereki veAmerica kubvira 1969. Akagamuchira akawanda anokudza uye mibairo yekutsvaga kwake.

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