Zvigadzirise iwe pachako: shandura zvauri usingaregi kuve zvauri

Kuti titaure nezvenyaya iyi tichaenda kunyora mazwi e mario alonso puig:

«Izvo zvinodikanwa kujekesa zvinorehwa nekuzvimisikidza patsva. Kune vanhu vanotenda kuti kuzvigadzirisazve iwe nezve kuve wakasiyana zvachose munhu. Izvo hazvina kuita seizvi. Kuzvidzorera pachako zvinoreva kushandura nzira yako yekuve usingaregi kuve zvauri. Zvishandure kuva munhu anoziva zvaunoda nezvausingade.

Dambudziko nderekuti pane chinhu icho isu tese chatinofanira kurwisana nacho uye iyo inertia, husimbe, kutya kwezvisingazivikanwe ... Izvi zvinoita kuti vanhu vazhinji vagadzirire kupona uye tinobvuma kupindirana, kana nguva isingasviki mamiriro ezvinhu emunhu. Iyo nyika yakasarudzwa yekusashinga zvakakwana muhupenyu. Kana munhu akanzwa kuti vanga vachiita chimwe chinhu chisingavanakidze kwenguva yakareba, vari kurasikirwa nesimba rakazvarwa rinokosha.

Hatifanire kukanganwa zvakataurwa naswitzerland-akaberekwa thanatologist uye chiremba wepfungwa akati Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, munhu ainyatsoziva nezverufu padanho resainzi. Akataura kuti chimwe chezvinhu chakanyanya kumubata ndechekuti, paakaperekedza vanhu munzira yavo yekufa, vakati kwaari: "Ndingadai ndaifarira kuva neushingi muhupenyu."

Ndinotenda kuti kana munhu achinzwa kurudziro yechimwe chinhu muhupenyu, havafanirwe kuidzima, vanofanirwa kurega kurudziro yacho itange kuifambisa. Ndinoziva zvinotyisa asi, kubva mumaonero angu, Inogona kushandura zvizere hupenyu hwako.« Mamwe ruzivo mubhuku rake Zvino ini

Mazano ekuzvigadzirisazve, ne Sergio Fernandez

«1) Unoziva here nezve chishamiso chekuve mupenyu? Uri kutora here mukana uyu, chishamiso ichi, kutungamira hupenyu hwakazara nechinangwa? Chii chauchademba kana iwe uine mashoma maminetsi ekurarama?

Chii chauchaudza vazukuru vako? Uri kuenda kuvaudza here kuti hauna kushinga kurarama hupenyu hune chinangwa nekuti muna 2012 pakanga paita dambudziko? Ndapota usava museki.

Uri kuita kuti hupenyu hwako huve nechinangwa here? Ndinoomerera, unoziva nezve chishamiso chekuve "pano"? Mario asati ataura nezvaElizabeth Kübler-Ross. Ini ndinokurudzira bhuku nachiremba wepfungwa uyu: Vhiri rehupenyu. Akavimbisa kuti ichakupa ruzivo rwunodiwa kuitira kuti ukoshese chishamiso chekuti kurarama kunoreva.

Kana usina chokwadi neizvi, ndinokurudzira kuti uite zvinotevera: mira nguva nenguva kuchipatara kana kumakuva uye iwe uchaona kuti kunewo vanhu vakakanganwa kuti rimwe zuva vaizorega kuva pano.

2) Pfungwa yechipiri yekuzvigadzirisazve ndeyekurangarira kuti nzira yakanakisa yekubatsira vamwe kuva neupenyu hunofadza. Chinhu chakanakisa kubatsira vamwe vanhu kuvandudza chirongwa chako chehupenyu uye kana uchifanira kuzvigadzirisazve, zviite. Iyi ndiyo nyasha huru yauchazoitira mhuri yako, kushamwari dzako uye nevanhu vese vakakukomberedza nekuti, teerera, HAVADI KUKUONA UCHISHUREIvo havadi kukuona iwe uchibva, havadi kukuona iwe uri hafu yeprojekiti iwe yaunogona kuve.

3) Tinoda manzwiro.

Kushushikana zvinoreva kufamba. Kushushikana kunowanikwa nekuvandudza chimwe chinhu chinoita kuti tifare. Tinorarama munharaunda ine kushomeka kwekuda kwekuti kuravira kwangu hakutsungike. Iwe unopinda munzira yepasi pevhu, mubhazi kana iwe unodzika nemugwagwa uye dzimwe nguva hauzive kana tiri zombies. Hatigone kuenderera nekushomeka kwechido.

Kuiwana ibasa rako. Hapana anogona kuzviitira iwe.

Mabhuku:

1) Rarama mumweya. Bhuku rekuzvigadzirisazve mune raunoziva.

2) Kodhi yemari. Bhuku rekuzvigadzirisazve pabasa.

3) Zvakavanzika zvekusingaperi zvehutano. Bhuku rekuzvigadzirisazve mune hutano.

Mwanakomana mabhuku anogona kuchinja hupenyu hwako, mabhuku anogona kudyara mbeu mauri ayo anokura nekukurumidza zvakanyanya kupfuura iwe zvaunofunga.»Sergio Fernández kubva Kufunga kwakanaka.