Iimbono ezili-10 zokunyusa inkuthazo yakho kunye nokuphumelela

Kweli nqaku uyakufumana iindlela ezili-10 zokuzikhuthaza kunye nokufezekisa ukuzithiba okuyimfuneko ukuze ufezekise iinjongo zakho kodwa ngaphambi kokungena kumxholo ndingathanda ukuba ubone oku ividiyo yenye ye-youtubers ephumeleleyo ekuthetheni ngeSpanish nalapho asixelela khona malunga nendlela eya empumelelweni.

ILuzu isenza ukuba sicinge ngokuba kutheni abanye abantu bephumelele kakhulu ebomini. Ifomula yakhe yokuphumelela ibandakanya uthando, italente kunye nomzamo:

UNOKUBA NOMDLAEyona ithiyori ibalulekileyo yokukhuthaza«

Kukangaphi ulivile ilizwi? khuthazo y uziva kangaphi?

Ndiqinisekile ukuba, ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye, umphosile. Mhlawumbi xa wawundidinga ukuba ndikunike isandla sokujongana nezinto ezininzi ekufuneka uzenzile, xa wayehamba "ngaphandle kwesixwayiso" kwaye akushiye ungenamandla okanye umnqweno, okanye xa wawungaziva okomzuzwana kwaye ufuna ukuqala into ngenzondelelo nangokomelela.

Este inkqubo yengqondo, ebizwa ngokuba kukukhuthaza, iqhuba ukuba sifezekise injongo kunye nokugcina isimilo esithile ukuze usiphumeze. Inje nge yintlantsi yangaphakathi ebeka ukushukuma kwethu. Isinika amandla okufuna nokusebenzisa izixhobo esizifunayo, de kube sifezekise oko besizimisele ukukwenza.

Ungahlala njani ukhuthazekile?

Inkuthazo kunye noqeqesho ngokubanzi zihamba kunye kuba ngaphandle kwesishukumiso kuyinto engenakwenzeka ukuba uqeqeshwe.

Ingqeqesho yintando kunye nokuzinikela ekwenzeni oko kufuneka kwenziwe. Ngaphandle koqeqesho ubomi bethu bungaba kwimeko yesiphithiphithi. Cinga ngezinto ozenzayo mihla le okanye ngeveki kwaye kufuneka ugcine ubomi bakho ngokufanelekileyo: ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya, ucoceko lomntu, ukuhlawula amatyala, ukulala ... Ngaphandle kwazo zonke ezi zinto, buya kuba njani ubomi bakho?

Ukuba awunayo ukuzimela ubomi bakho bunokuba bububi obukhulu. Imikhwa emibi eyendeleyo kunye nengqondo engaqeqeshekanga inokukuthintela ekufezekiseni amaphupha akho. Ngaphandle kohlobo oluthile lokukhuthaza lwangaphakathi okanye lwangaphandle, akunakulindeleka ukuba uhlakulele uqeqesho olufunayo.

Izimvo ezili-10 zokuba zikhuthaze ngakumbi

1) Yazi ngengxoxo yakho yangaphakathi.

Mamela into oyithethayo kuwe kusuka uvuke ude ulale. Imiyalezo esiyithumela kuthi inakho kusenza sizive sikwazi ukufezekisa oko siphakamisa okanye ukutshabalalisa zonke izicwangciso zethu. Ukunyusa ukuzithemba, ukhuseleko kunye nokuphucula imeko kunokufezekiswa ngokuthetha ngokwakho. Ngaba sowukhe waqala usuku lwakho uzixelele ukuba ungakanani? Ubungqina.

2) Cinga malunga nokuba into ocebe ukuyenza, uyafuna ukuyenza.

Xa sinokukhetha injongo esiza kuyiphumeza, kulungile ukuba sime kwaye sicinge ukuba sikhethe le njongo kuba siyifuna okanye kungenxa yokuba abanye bayayifuna. Ngamanye amaxesha sithatha imisebenzi esicinga ukuba yeyethu xa, inene, ivela kwindalo esingqongileyo: "Kufuneka", "kufuneka", "wenze eyona nto ilungeleyo" ... Ngokuhamba kwexesha, siyaqonda ukuba besizinyanzela ukuba senze into esingasakhuthazwayo ukuba siyenze.

Ukuba awukhethanga injongo kodwa "kufuneka" uyifezekise, kungcono ukuba wazi indlela ocinga ngayo. Isimo esibi sinokufana nokunyathela ibreyiki kunye nesantya kwangelo xesha… kwaye ukungxama ukuya apho.

3) Chaza injongo kwaye uyaphule ube ziinjongo ezincinci.

Kubalulekile ukuba le nto uyicebisayo ibe ziyinyani kwaye zinokufikeleleka. Kuyanceda kakhulu ukubhala injongo kwi icacile kwaye ichanekile ukuya, kamva, setha imisebenzi (iinjongo) ezikusondeza kuyo.

Yaphula iinjongo phantsi kumanyathelo amancinci kwaye ugxile kuzo yonke imihla. Khumbula ukuba ukuba awugqibi amanyathelo owenzileyo awuyi kufezekisa injongo yakho.

4) Vuka, sukulinda.

Ukuba uyazi ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa kwaye kufuneka uyenzele ntoni ...isenzo. Nokuba zikhona iintsuku ongenawo amandla amaninzi kunye nenkuthazo, qhubeka. Jonga into oyihambileyo hayi kuphela oko kusafuneka uhambe. Ungaqala usuku ngexabiso eliphantsi, okanye uphule imisebenzi ibe mincinci. Ewe ngokunjalo, zibophelele ekuzigqibeni.

5) Ukwenza impazamo okanye ukuwela kuyo nayiphi na imiqobo AKUKHO ukusilela.

Ukucinga ukuba yonke into kufuneka igqibelele kwaye akukho ndawo yempazamo, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, isikhubekiso sokuqala endleleni yakho. Ukuba into ayihambi kakuhle, okanye njengoko bekulindelekile, unokucinga ukuba yonke into yoyikeka okanye funda kwimpazamo ukuyilungisa kwaye uqhubeke. Asingoomatshini, kodwa abantu, kunye neempazamo kunye nokusilela zisibonisa indlela esingafanele siyithathe ukuze sithathe engcono.

6) Vuyisana nawe ngempumelelo oyifumeneyo.

Kubonakala ngathi sinomkhwa wokuzohlwaya xa sisenza into "engalunganga" kwaye sityeshele yonke into esiyenzayo "ngokuchanekileyo" kwaye siyiphumeze. Bhiyozela iinjongo ozishiya ngasemva kwaye uziphathe, amaxesha ngamaxesha, kwi-whim efana umvuzo. Ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba iziva intle kakhulu.

7) Gxila kwizibonelelo.

Cinga imizuzu embalwa ngomsebenzi ngamnye owenzayo kwisibonelelo oza kusifumana. Ukuba nohlobo oluthile lomvuzo engqondweni kubalulekile ekufumaneni nasekuhlaleni ukhuthazo.

8) Sebenzisa ukubonwa.

Khawufane ucinge ngescreen esikhulu sebhanyabhanya apho bacacisa khona imovie apho ungumntu ophambili. Kwifilimu sele ulifezekisile iphupha lakho kwaye uyayithanda kwisitulo sakho sengalo indlela onwabe ngayo kunye nezibonelelo ezikulethela zona. Phinda uyenze imovie ngokweenkcukacha ezinkulu.

9) Fumana ukhuthazo.

Funda iincwadi ezikhuthazayo ngabaphathi abaziintloko kwaye ubukele imovie ekhuthazayo. Zama ukunxibelelana nabo bantu babelana ngeenjongo zakho okanye sele uzifezekisile.

10) Yonke imihla uphonononge inkuthazo kunye neenjongo zakho.

Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba uqale ijenali kwaye ubhale phantsi yonke into enxulumene nenjongo yakho. Rekhoda amathemba akho, amaphupha, amathandabuzo, kunye noloyiso.

Enye yezinto zokuphumelela kukuzeyisa. Khumbula ukuba ukuziqeqesha ngaphandle kokukhuthaza kunzima kakhulu.

Impumelelo asiyomphumo wokutsha okuzenzekelayo. Kuya kufuneka uvule kuqala. "

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Inqaku elibhalwe nguNuria Álvarez