Into oyithandayo yinto yokonwabela ixesha lokuzonwabisa ngokwenza into eyonwabisayo. Ukuba nento oyithandayo kukwaziwa ngokuba nento oyithandayo. Kule mihla, ngelishwa, noxinzelelo kunye nesingqi sobomi esibukhokelayo… baninzi abantu ababekela bucala iminqweno yabo kwaye ke abenzi naluphi na uhlobo lokuzonwabisa. Ngokwenyani, into oyithandayo iyimfuneko ukukwazi ukukhathalela impilo yengqondo yakhe nawuphi na umntu, kuba ikwenza ukwazi ukunqamla imisebenzi yesiqhelo yemihla ngemihla kwaye wenze into othanda ukuyenza.
Kubalulekile ukuba ulazi ixesha elifumanekayo kwaye ubeke phambili kwimizuzu engama-20 ngosuku ukuze wenze into esenza sizive ngcono ngalo mzuzu. Ukuzikhathalela kakuhle kubalulekile ukwenza into oyithandayo kwaye uyonwabele loo mzuzu wonxibelelwano nathi.
Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho lasimahla!
Ukuba ne-hobby ayikokuchitha ixesha, kukutyala impilo yengqondo! Endaweni yoko, abantu bacinga ukuba ukuchitha ixesha kulingana nokungabinakuxakeka (ukusebenza). Kodwa ke, abantu bachitha ixesha ngokwenyani benza inkohliso yendawo yokuhlala: ukujonga kuFacebook, ku-Instagram, nge-imeyile (ngaphezulu kwamaxesha ayimfuneko), ukubukela uthotho lukamabonakude… yintoni ityhefu yakho? Le misebenzi yemihla ngemihla ikwenza ukholelwe ukuba uxakekile okanye usebenzisa ixesha, kodwa enyanisweni uyamosha.
Sukuvuka ntsasa nganye ucinge ngeewebhusayithi zonxibelelwano kuba ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, uya kube uchitha ixesha elihle nexabisekileyo ebomini bakho. Ngelishwa ela xesha aliphinde libuye xa sele lidlulile ... Kodwa ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili, uya kuba nakho ukubeka phambili amaxesha akho asimahla xa uqaphela indlela umdlalo ongabutshintsha ngayo ubomi bakho ... Ngcono!
Khumbula ukuba ukuhlala uxakekile okanye usebenza akuzukunyusa "iwonga" lakho, uya kuba nje ubambe ixesha elibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzenzele lona. Xa uqala ukubeka phambili izinto kakuhle, Ungonwabela umdlalo ... okanye ezimbini!
Kutheni unomdla ebomini bakho (okanye ezimbini!)
Unokuba kwimeko yokuhamba ("ukuhamba")
Ukonwabela izinto ozithandayo kukukhuthaza ukuba ungene kwimeko yokuhamba, okt uyayonwabela into oyenzayo kangangokuba ixesha lidlule ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba ungayiqapheli. Sukuvumela ukuzonwabisa ngokungakhathali (umabonwakude, i-Intanethi ...) kube ngaphezulu kwezinto onomdla kuzo ... kufuneka ube nexesha lokuphola elisebenzayo amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ukuba ukhe wachitha ixesha uhamba ngenqwelomoya, usenza imidlalo, okanye usenza nawuphi na omnye umsebenzi ocinga ukuba uyafunxa kwaye ucelomngeni, emva koko ungene kwimeko yokuhamba. Ixesha liyabhabha, ukuzazi kuyanyamalala, kwaye ungene ngaphakathi kulo msebenzi kuthethwa ngawo. Izinto endizithandayo, ngakumbi ezo zandisa izakhono, zikhuthaza eli lizwe linqwenelekayo kwaye liya lisiba nzima.
Nciphisa uxinzelelo
Khawufane ucinge ukuba unosuku olunzima kakhulu emsebenzini apho umphathi wakho ekugxeka okanye ube nabathengi abacaphukisayo. Mhlawumbi ukuza ekhaya, ulele esofeni, kwaye uvule umabonwakude sisicwangciso sakho esifanelekileyo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ... kodwa oku akunakunceda ukuzithemba kwakho.
Ngoku khawufane ucinge ukuba emva komsebenzi uza kwenza into oyithandayo, njengokukhwela okanye ukuhamba uhambo kwindlela oyithandayo. Ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi zingaphezulu kokuphazamiseka nje ... Ziyakukhumbuza ukuba unomdla, uyaphila kwaye uyathanda ukuziphazamisa ngokwenza izinto ozithandayo. Unokuba ngumqeshwa, kodwa kwimbaleki okanye igcisa. Yindlela yokuphucula isazisi sakho kwaye wonwabele ubomi ushiya uxinzelelo ecaleni.
Uyazinyanzela ukuba uthathe ikhefu lengqondo ngelixa uzivelisela ngokwakho.
Kolu luntu luxakekileyo, ikhefu alikho mbuzo, kodwa enyanisweni, ziyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba unomdla wokuzonwabisa uya kuba nethuba lokuthatha ikhefu, ngeli xesha likunika ukuqonda ngenjongo. Ungaziva uvelisa nokuba unalo olu hlobo lokuphumla kuba ukuba wenza into, awuyi kuziva ngathi awenzi nto. Ukuzonwabisa kunengqiqo kwaye kunenjongo.
Uyakwazi ukwenza into ngelixa wonwabile. Kananjalo, okukhona usenza into oyithandayo, kokukhona uya kufunda ngayo, ikunike ulwaneliseko olukhulu ngobomi. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukufunda ulwimi olutsha okanye ukufunda ukudlala ipiyano. Okukhona uthatha inxaxheba kwizinto ozithandayo, kokukhona uya kufunda ... kwaye wonwabe!
Uya kuba nemingeni kunye namava
Imiceli mngeni enxulumene nomsebenzi ihlala ihamba noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lokuba ube yeyona nto intle uyenzayo. Ngomsebenzi wokuzonwabisa, ungonwabela inkqubo yokufunda into entsha ngaphandle kokuziva utyhafile ngokungafezeki kwasekuqaleni. Ukuzonwabisa kwakho kunokukunika iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemiceli mngeni, ubuncinci into oqheleyo.
Nangona usemsebenzini unokuchitha iintsuku zakho kunye nemiceli mngeni yengqondo, unokuzinikezela nakwinto oyithandayo ekwenza ukuba ube ngumceli mngeni emzimbeni, umzekelo ukukhwela, ukuhamba ngephenyane, njl. Okanye, unokuzinikezela kwinto oyithandayo ekunika ukuphumla kwengqondo njengokuloba, kucamngca, yoga, Njl
Uya kuzazi ngcono
Awusoze wazi ukuba unokwazi ukwenza ntoni ngaphandle kokuba uzama ... ngokuzonwabisa ungothuka. Umzekelo, mhlawumbi ubucinga ukuba awusoze unyuke kodwa xa uqala ukuya ezintabeni kunye neqela elinyukayo, uyaqonda ukuba uluthanda kangakanani olu hlobo lomsebenzi uze ube ngcono. Uqala eludongeni olunyukayo kwinqanaba elilula kwaye Ugqibela ngokunyuka iintaba obukade ucinga ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uziphumeze.
Ukuba uzama into, unokufumanisa ukuba uyakuthanda ukuyenza kwaye nokuba unetalente ethile yokwenza izinto ngcono kancinci kancinci, ngokuziqhelanisa namava. Ukuzonwabisa kunokukunceda ufumane izinto ozenzayo kakuhle (okanye ezimbi) ... kwaye unokumangaliswa kukuzazi ngcono!
Ngaba ukuqondile ukubaluleka kokuba nezinto ozithandayo ukusukela ngoku? Uya kuba uphucula umgangatho wobomi bakho!